I posted my first 3 items to sell today and someone messaged me with their order confirmation. I haven’t received anything on my end about someone ordering from me and it shows that my items still have no views. Does this sound legit?
This is a generalization of my dating life, I’m 19F. Obviously not all guys are like this but with the ones I’ve dated and talked to as soon as I thought they were about to ask me to be their gf they ghost me. The most recent guy is in my friend group that formed in our first year of college. First semester he waited over an hour in a boring line w me for some event I wanted to do at school, he texted me nonstop and I was always the first he would call to ask if the group had any plans. He asked me to go on little errands with him, just the two of us, one of our friends said they’d tag along and he told them he’d just pick up what they needed for them. He took me to meet his family. He always texted me making sure I got to my apartment safe or walked me back himself. He offered to pay for my groceries and my friends knew he liked me before I did. He was kind, a gentleman, and the first guy that I knew without a doubt liked me. Then suddenly he’s snapping me from a girls dorm and spending all his time with 2 other girls at our school, ignoring me. I confront him… twice. I wanted to know what’s going on and why he’d switched up. He’d known how guys hurt me in the past and he did the same things. He said he felt like “feelings were getting involved” and “he just wants to be friends”. He says he doesn’t date in friend groups then gets with one of our other friends who knew we were together a couple months prior. He hides their relationship from me while gaslighting her to think I was crazy and obsessed with him when he was the one who liked me first and I didn’t pursue him.
That was a longer rant than I thought it would be but it’s been a very annoying pattern. Im dating for marriage and I make that well known. I’ve given up on dating tbh 💀
My family is at the beach with my grandparents for a week. My grandad has Alzheimer’s and being in a different place is making him a little more confused and anxious than normal. He keeps asking when we’re going home, like every minute and he’s developed a clicking tic that’s nonstop. I feel like I can’t think. He’s so reliant on my grandmom who is his caretaker and ik it’s draining on her no matter how much we try to help. He can’t walk well so he’s not gonna make it on the beach this year, we’re trying to get him to go to the pool but he doesn’t want to go. It’s a lot of effort to get him places since he has trouble walking, we’re mainly using a wheelchair now. My patients is worn thin and I’m stressed, my whole family really is. I love my grandad so much and ik he can’t help it but every now and then I just feel it all at once.
I love my grandad and want to spend time with him but I can only do so much. I feel like I need a vacation from my vacation. It’s so hard cause it feels like I’ve already lost him while he’s still here and he isn’t himself. I can see how much worse it’s gotten since college started last year. I saw them less during the time I was at college so it seems like a more drastic progression. I just hate that there’s nothing that I can do to make him better
I (19F) feel weird when we go out as a family cause I look overdressed or I just conform to their normal dress code. I’m trying to build my confidence by dressing according to my style but I feel self conscious when I’m the only one dressing up. I LOVE to wear heels everywhere i can along with a sundress or skirt and nice top. My mom is a tomboy so she doesn’t like dresses or heels and applauds me for liking them. I dress for myself cause I enjoy it and I don’t want anyone assuming I’m trying to get male attention. Im wondering if anyone is in same situation or has an idea that could help me feel more comfortable.
It seems too good to be true but I’m praying it works