
Consider myself estranged
Dad (63) never gave a shit about me (21) as a kid. He chose drugs instead.
Then he gets ill due to his medication and even after I was there for him, arranging a cleaner for his house, taking time off work to visit him in hospital and bringing him whatever he needed, talking to doctors to make him comfortable, he does this. I didn’t owe him shit after he decided to be a pussy and walk out of his son’s life. In fact, I actually felt bad for him and wanted to help him. The amount of times I defended him, even while he was a shit dad was way more than he deserved. I gave him the benefit of the doubt. I also helped him take a DNA test that he wanted to take which is what he’s referring to.
He then texts me while I’m at work asking me to bring him soup because he refuses to eat what the hospital gives him. I tell him I can’t because I have a firefighting course that goes all weekend and he unloads this shit on me. I’m done with this ungrateful prick, good riddance. My mum also helped him a tonne as well even after he abused the shit out of her with threatening drunken emails. Fuck him.
He also just unfriended me on Facebook lol.