u/Ok-Fail911

Hey guys,
The agency I’m currently at is using Rella for social media scheduling/calendar/analytics/grid
I post manually for quality purposes but we need to share the calendar captions etc with clients for approval (preferably in the calendar rather than sending an email)

I like Rella but I just get frustrated with some of the UX UI and my clients are farmers so the ability to check easily on mobile is really messy, and am wondering if anyone has a good recommendations?

My (F23) boyfriend (M23) and I have been dating for about 6 months now, but have been talking for a little under a year. He’s an angel, he has had a past like mine where breakups usually end in either our partners cheating or leaving without explanation. Everyone speaks highly of him, and we have a very well connected friend group, so if something bad were going on, I’d know.

My problem isn’t him, it’s his ex (F22). I’ve known her from the past, before they dated. She was seeing one of my ex’s who passed away in 2023. She told everyone they were dating (they were not, me and my ex were very close friends as we had dated years before and were horrible together and better as mates) and then proceeded to sleep with someone at his WAKE. Need I say more. So with this prior knowledge, I don’t have very high expectations, but I’m not going to judge, we’ve all been young and made decisions that shouldn’t define us later down the road.

My boyfriend and his ex were in touch still when we started talking, she’s also in our friend group.
My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, as he is a contract musterer. So he lives in close quarters and works for weeks or months at a time away. We are both country kids so we were fine with this.

It’s taken a while but I finally got sick of seeing her name pop up and asked him to stop talking to her because it made me uncomfortable. This was a while ago, he stopped talking to her, but I’d noticed snapchats sitting on open when I’d see him again, and it makes me worry.
I recently brought it up with him and he said not to worry. Everytime I told him I was uncomfortable I’d get push back about him removing her, and it’s fucking with my head so much. I don’t know if it’s from my past that it’s making me worry or if anyone else thinks this is odd.

Two days ago I cracked it. She’s been looking at my stories and kept sending snapchats to him (even if he ‘didn’t reply’. I told him to block her. I was met with “I’m over it, she doesn’t matter to me, she means nothing to me”. So instead of removing her, he fought me the whole way.

I finally levelled and he blocked her. On Instagram. (Snapchat was the issue)
She then proceeded to make a NEW INSTAGRAM ACCOUNT. Which I found in my story views.

I don’t know who’s in the wrong here, if her stalking me is just me over thinking, if the new Instagram account has anything to do with him blocking her, or if my boyfriend is being weird that he’s not blocking her on Snapchat.

I know I obviously have trauma with being cheated on, and I can’t pass this onto someone else and need to move forward. I need advice on how to handle this

My (F23) boyfriend (M23) and I have been dating for about 6 months now, but have been talking for a little under a year. He’s an angel, he has had a past like mine where breakups usually end in either our partners cheating or leaving without explanation. Everyone speaks highly of him, and we have a very well connected friend group, so if something bad were going on, I’d know.

My problem isn’t him, it’s his ex (F22). I’ve known her from the past, before they dated. She was seeing one of my ex’s who passed away in 2023. She told everyone they were dating (they were not, me and my ex were very close friends as we had dated years before and were horrible together and better as mates) and then proceeded to sleep with someone at his WAKE. Need I say more. So with this prior knowledge, I don’t have very high expectations, but I’m not going to judge, we’ve all been young and made decisions that shouldn’t define us later down the road.

My boyfriend and his ex were in touch still when we started talking, she’s also in our friend group.
My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, as he is a contract musterer. So he lives in close quarters and works for weeks or months at a time away. We are both country kids so we were fine with this.

It’s taken a while but I finally got sick of seeing her name pop up and asked him to stop talking to her because it made me uncomfortable. This was a while ago, he stopped talking to her, but I’d noticed snapchats sitting on open when I’d see him again, and it makes me worry.
I recently brought it up with him and he said not to worry. Everytime I told him I was uncomfortable I’d get push back about him removing her, and it’s fucking with my head so much. I don’t know if it’s from my past that it’s making me worry or if anyone else thinks this is odd.

Two days ago I cracked it. She’s been looking at my stories and kept sending snapchats to him (even if he ‘didn’t reply’. I told him to block her. I was met with “I’m over it, she doesn’t matter to me, she means nothing to me”. So instead of removing her, he fought me the whole way.

I finally levelled and he blocked her. On Instagram. (Snapchat was the issue)
She then proceeded to make a NEW INSTAGRAM ACCOUNT. Which I found in my story views.

I don’t know who’s in the wrong here, if her stalking me is just me over thinking, if the new Instagram account has anything to do with him blocking her, or if my boyfriend is being weird that he’s not blocking her on Snapchat.

I know I obviously have trauma with being cheated on, and I can’t pass this onto someone else and need to move forward. I need advice on how to handle this

TL;DR: My boyfriend won’t fully block his ex from contact, pushes back when I ask him to set boundaries, and I can’t tell if I’m spiraling from past trauma or if his behaviour is genuinely concerning. Looking for advice on how to communicate about this.

So we’ve been dating about 6 months, talking for under a year. He’s genuinely a good bloke. Solid guy, everyone respects him, and our friend group’s tight enough that if something dodgy was happening, I’d hear about it.

We’re long distance because he’s a contract musterer, so he’s away for weeks or months at a time. We’re both country kids so that’s never been the issue.

His ex is in our friend group and is sometimes working with him.

When we first got together, she was still in his orbit and it stressed me out. I asked him to put some distance there. He said he would. But then I’d notice Snapchats sitting open on his phone, and it just does my head in.

Recently I brought it up properly and he basically pushed back instead of just doing it. When I finally asked him to block her, he only blocked her on Instagram (not where the problem even was) but won’t block her on Snapchat. And now she’s made a new Instagram account that she’s using to view my stories.

I know I have trauma around being cheated on in the past, and I don’t want to let that poison what we have. But I’m genuinely unsure if I’m overreacting here or if his pushback on this boundary is something worth addressing. How do I work through this without projecting my stuff onto him?

So we’ve been dating about 6 months, talking for under a year. He’s genuinely a good bloke. Solid guy, everyone respects him, and our friend group’s tight enough that if something dodgy was happening, I’d hear about it.

We’re long distance because he’s a contract musterer, so he’s away for weeks or months at a time. We’re both country kids so that’s never been the issue.

His ex (F22) is in our friend group and has a history I’m uncomfortable with (context: she was previously involved with one of my exes who passed in 2023, and made false claims about their relationship).

When we first got together, she was still in his orbit and it stressed me out. I asked him to put some distance there. He said he would. But then I’d notice Snapchats sitting open on his phone from when he was away, and it just does my head in.

Recently I brought it up properly and he REALLY pushed back instead of just doing it. When I finally asked him to block her, he only blocked her on Instagram (not where the problem even was) but won’t block her on Snapchat. And now she’s made a new Instagram account (within a day of her being blocked) that she’s using to view my stories.

I know I have trauma around being cheated on in the past, and I don’t want to let that poison what we have. But I’m genuinely unsure if I’m overreacting here or if his pushback on this boundary is actually something to be concerned about. How do I work through this without projecting my stuff onto him?