u/Ok-Statistician-3792
r/cutting r/SelfPiercing r/BorderlinePDisorder r/PiercingAdvice r/selfharm__recovery r/SourdoughStarter
▲ 3 r/PiercingAdvice
Should I retire my labret?
So I’ve had my labret for about a month and a half, I pierced it myself with a 1,2mm needle.
It healed really well and I haven’t gotten any teeth chipped. Only problem is that my gums seem to have been damaged, though I’m a bit unsure.
Currently I have a surgical steel labret, but I’m considering switching to an acrylic one or something else soft, I’ve seen rubber ones too.
Any tips on what I should do?
u/Ok-Statistician-3792 — 29 days ago
▲ 10 r/SelfPiercing
Should I retire my labret?
So I’ve had my labret for about a month and a half, I pierced it myself with a 1,2mm needle.
It healed really well and I haven’t gotten any teeth chipped. Only problem is that my gums seem to have been damaged, though I’m a bit unsure.
Currently I have a surgical steel labret, but I’m considering switching to an acrylic one or something else soft, I’ve seen rubber ones too.
Any tips on what I should do?
u/Ok-Statistician-3792 — 29 days ago
It doesn’t bubble
Hey so I’ve been trying to start a sourdough starter for the first time and I’ve followed a recipe but it doesn’t seem to work.
I suspect that it might be because it isn’t hot enough, but I placed it right over the heater and by the window where it gets pretty warm for being in Sweden.
Idk what I’m doing wrong, please help. Thank you
u/Ok-Statistician-3792 — 1 month ago
▲ 109 r/cutting
Can I walk outside w shorts/ tank tops?
Like tha title says, can I wear tank tops and shorts. Idk if my scars are triggering or not, bcz I’m desensitised. I’m trying to get clean but the longest I’ve gone was 10 days lol. Ofc I would never walk around with fresh sh open but when they’re healed, can I? I have a very physical job and it gets really hot in the summer heat so I would prefer to wear lighter clothes, but I don’t want to cause harm. And my parents get mad when I walk around in the house with without covering them up.
u/Ok-Statistician-3792 — 2 months ago
So yeah, I have EUPD, I have a constant fear if abandonment = will do anything to avoid it = dramatic actions.
I’m so scared that my bf is growing tired of me, he feels like I don’t love him cause I keep asking him for reassurance but I love him so so so much and it’s unhealthy, it’s like an addiction.
I can’t imagine living without him, I’ve literally attempted multiple times because I THOUGHT he would leave me.
Every time I fuck up (which is a lot because I’m clumsy as hell) I think I’m going to loose him but he sees my fear as if I don’t love him. I do. I love him so much. I hate all his friends because all I want is for him to be with me, and only me. I hate the way I am, and u hate that I am so much.
I’m not just a girlfriend that you have to enjoy, I’m a whole ass investment. I’m so thankful that he has put up with my bs for almost 7 months now, but every day I question when he is going to leave. Because i know that he most likely will leave at some point, just like every other person has.
I don’t get why they all leave, I try so hard to make them stay so why don’t they? I spend all my money on him, I constantly say that I love him and miss him, I’m clingy, I show affection, I’ve been like this to every person I’ve been in a relationship with.
I know I’m a lot to handle, I am aware, I’ve heard enough people call me crazy and a ticking time bomb to know that but the reason to why I act so ”crazy” when it comes to you is because I LOVE you. Don’t you understand? I don’t care about anyone but you, I only want you.
Yes I start bawling when you sigh around me, yes I blow up at you when you don’t give me enough attention or didn’t text me back within 15 minutes but that’s because I love you.
Please just understand that the way I act stems from my intense love for you. And please don’t leave me.
u/Ok-Statistician-3792 — 2 months ago