u/Ok_Ruin6874

I'm watching season 5 I think it was either episode 11 or 12 and everyone was mad that Des didn't make as much as an effort as Danielle's boyfriend Robert to integrate into the friendship group but Danielle and Robert broke up and Hannah and Des got married.

If we could put our personal thoughts about Hannah aside for a second and forget about the bathroom hookup. I want to say that they didn't like Des because they didn't like Hannah. They saw that someone was all for Hannah and didn't care for them in the way they wanted.

For Amanda it was just another reason to have to have a go at Hannah.

And Danielle with the 'Ooh well my Robert made the effort', like okay I acknowledge that it was nice but who cares. You'd swear that Des straight up blanked everyone.

I'm not a big Hannah defender but it was just a stupid thing to try and fight with her about. There is nothing wrong with a man spending personal time with their long distance/covid lockdown girlfriend and now they've been married for what 5 years now.

Hannah and Des are not completely innocent but the whole thing was just so dramatised.

Stassi wasn't on Vanderpump Rules anymore so she talked about her husband and kids instead and she didn't want to hear about Vanderpump Rules because she loved it and she didn't choose to leave. Katie isn't allowed to talk about her life which is Vanderpump Rules since Stassi is not on it anymore.

What the hell Stassi 🤦‍♂️

Katie shouldn't not talk about her life on Vanderpump Rules because you decided to call the police on Faith for something she didn't do.

You want Katie to feel sorry for you or something. You didn't get cancelled you got fired and rightfully so.

Then she says she doesn't know how Beau is gonna take Katie coming back and thinks he will probably say "Don't know, does she still suck" and then she goes a step further by saying "I feel this time around Katie is gonna have my back".

It's crazy that Katie is the one that sucks and is the unloyal one when you are the racist Stassi and Beau you're the husband of a racist.

I really hoped going in that she would admit to her wrongdoings and give a public apology to Faith or maybe even of said that she had tried to contact her after realising the impact of her actions especially getting fired you'd think shit what I did was bad. She obviously does just not care.

They can all pretend that this was a regular canceling and Stassi is a victim all they want but if they really want us to believe that Katie is the bad guy in Stassi's story, the vpr fans know she's not and a quick Google search for the non vpr fans show that Stassi did this all to herself.

Seeing how much Schwartz talks about Kiana positively and how he sticks up for her whether it's performative or not is nice to see but still makes me so sad for Katie.

I know they've been divorced for a good few years now and are in a friendly place but he genuinely put Katie through it man. I saw an edit of them to 1 step forward, 3 steps back by Olivia rodrigo and it struck a cord, the lyric 'I'm the love of your life until I make you mad' is so Schwartz and Katie coded.

People say she dogged a bullet with him but she was with that bullet for over 10 years and how he treated her will always stay with me and I will never conform to the valley version Schwartz who's supposably a loveable dumbass who doesn't know any better and I will never understand the people who do.

He's genuinely evil and everyone forgets it because compared to other men he would be considered the lesser evil.

I know this is the millionth time this has been talked about but I feel people are forgetting how truly horrible this man is and the way he acts now does not and will never erase the way he treated his wife/ partner of 12 years.

Whose side is he on his friends or Julia?

He seems to be a really good friend very caring and says he really likes Julia and wants to be with her but when they all come to blows he just disassociates and says nothing.

I don't get him and I don't understand why Julia is so hell bent on seeing and taking Lorenzo's side when he doesn't really do that for her. He just sits there and says absolutely nothing.

And also I'm so sick of him calling her (J)Julia instead of (Y)Julia. He should know by now what her name is.

I don't get why Lindsay has stayed so loyal to Kyle when she believes that he has cheated on Amanda multiple times.

If we go back to season 3 of Summer House Lindsay unfollows Amanda because Kyle cheated on her (never made much sense to me but I guess she assumed Amanda wouldn't be around the friendship group for much longer).

And every season since Amanda and Lindsay never really seemed to gel or understand each other.

We now know from episode 9 that Lindsay believes that kyle has been cheating for years but she never seemed to feel sorry for Amanda but all of a sudden she now feels for her and sticks up for her when her and Kyle fight.

Why now after all these years?

Amanda has signed a year lease when she said she wanted monthly and she sprung it on Kyle without communicating it. And she obviously smirks and antagonizes him. We're finally seeing what Kyle has been dealing with for years and now this is when Lindsay takes Amanda's side.

For years she's taken Kyle's side and obviously didn't care that he was cheating. So what's changed?

If anyone could shed some light on this situation I'd really appreciate it because I honestly understand why Lindsay has done this big u turn for the past year?

My Mom has started watching the tv show 'This is Us' and I told her that I've been wanting to watch that for years but whenever I had the opportunity to watch it in the end I couldn't be bothered. Then I said oh maybe it's because of my ADHD in a kind of jokey way ( I've only been recently diagnosed so I'm still learning about ADHD) and she then said you can't blame everything on ADHD we can all be a like that. Then I got mad and said fine I guess I don't have ADHD then and she said No because you have ADD not ADHD because you're not hyperactive.

I've told her a million times that they don't call it ADD anymore but she just won't listen to me.

And she also said don't be like your uncle who blames everything on ADHD. Like all I was talking about was a tv show and she flips it, like I wasn't blaming my whole life on adhd, I was just talking about TV.

She acknowledges I have ADHD but won't listen to my struggles with it. Not being able to watch a tv show is one little symptom that is not really the biggest deal but when I vent about some of the harder struggles it seems like she isn't listening to me.

We've had numerous conversations about adhd and she says she always thinks about adhd as hyperactive bold boys acting out.

It just feels like she doesn't believe in the inattentive side.

I don't know what her opinion is really because she hasn't told me she doesn't believe in inattentive adhd outright but her words sometimes say otherwise.

I absolutely hate when people say we've all got some adhd in us. It's just simply not true.

Sorry for my rant but I needed to get that out or I would cry 😭 thank you

Edit: I understand that not being able to watch a tv show seems like a stupid juvenile thing to say but what I was trying to say to is I can't even do the things that I want to do, everything is so boring to me and i want to change but I can't be bothered to do anything about it. Its not about not watching a tv show it's about what it represents in my mind. Does that make sense?

Recently diagnosed with ADHD and doctor want me to change my migraine medication because it interferes with the concerta medication and I got new migraine meds today from my gp but I haven't taken them yet because I just can't stop crying.

The old migraine medication worked really well and I'm scared this new one isn't going to work as well and I also have to take them twice a day and I know I won't remember the 2nd one.

I just hate this so much. I do want to go on concerta and feel better and focused but I don't want to go back to how it was before with the migraines.

I know it's a stupid thing to be crying over but I just hate change and I wish I could stick to the old way.

My rants over now 😭

It goes like "We bout to make it make it, Whoah".

It used to come on as someone was walking up to audition on the stage.

I can't find it for the life of me

Let's say your at 97 and you roll a 6 on the dice, do you win and go up to 100 or do you go up to 100 and go back to 97 using your 6 moves?

I was playing snakes and ladders with my family and this happened to my brother and I said you have to go backwards now and my parents said no it doesn't matter because he is at 100 now.

In primary school we used to go backwards if we had more moves but my parents think otherwise.

How would you play it?