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Two days ago I was in the backseat with my baby when my husband’s friend sent him nudes if a girl he’s probably seeing. I saw them and he tried to hide the phone. He didn’t deny it when I told him I saw

We go upstairs and I tell him, you tell me to come home before sunset, tell me to always tie my hair, not wear makeup, wear baggy clothes, then you’re out here getting these pics and living a hypocritical life. I said, you have no say in what I do anymore it’s none of your business.

He then replies and says that’s because you’re not raised well. I said, eat shit, he replied with you eat shit. I’ll step on your neck while looking like he was gonna jump on me.

Mind you he lifts heavy weights is built big and in six months postpartum holding my baby.

Anyways I call my parents and tell them what happened. And then call his dad and tell him.

He then yells at my parents and tells them it’s her fault I was just replying to what she said. He then insinuates that he didn’t come to them in the beginning of our marriage, when we had issues and says he has recordings of me - insinuating that I hv sec tapes or smth- which is a total lie. I stayed quiet for the rest of the night because I realized he was a dangerous liar

Anyways, it’s been two days now. Yesterday, I told him I want a divorce. We’ve been arguing about many other things including in-law drama ( his parents- specifically his mom and sister)

And so much more

I want to leave this man

There’s no way I’m overreacting to this

Yesterday he tried to bribe me and say I’ll give you money to stay/ let’s go on vacation right now. And changes two diapers and plates with our baby without being asked to for the first time EVER.

I don’t want to be manipulated and I truly feel like he’s a dangerous lying man.

Babies drool bitch!!
He sneezes. “They won’t give him the vaccine if he’s sick” he’s not sick your nasty perfume makes him sneeze.
Baby Durant interact with her. “ he must be constipated”. He’s FINEEEEEE HES FINEEEEE DO I NEED TO SHOUT IT FROM THE ROOF TOOS. Why must there be something wrong with my baby!! Leave us alone

I don’t know if this is against the rules, but that was the only thing that helped.

I’ve had eating disorders since around the age of 10. At the beginning of uni I worked out every day and would obsess over my weight and that was the only time I was a “normal “ weight, UNTIL, I got on Ozempic after gaining 60 pounds in one year. It helped me control my cravings sooo much and I stopped being hungry all the time.

I literally cried I felt like I was finally normal.
I got down to a really healthy weight it helped with everything.

Then I got pregnant and got off of it, obviously and now I’m breastfeeding. I gained back the 60 pounds. But I don’t care as much as I can’t control i really can’t.

So I’m just gonna get back on it after I stop bf.

I wish everyone luck with their journey

We live in a building, that my husbands cousins and grandma live in as well. His mom doesn’t want to come over because she doesn’t like those people and doesn’t want to see them on her way to my apartment.

Instead, she wants me and my baby to go to her house more than once a week, I don’t drive. I don’t have a car. In a sahm. And my husband works 6 days a week for 12 hour shifts.

Apparently on his one day off, that we see her at is not enough.

Bitch it’s not enough for me either to have one day to spend with my husband let alone have to see you on that day too.

My baby is 3 months old. Sometimes I’m so tired I literally won’t even get up to use the washroom and will hold it for hours.

You want me to go over to your house? That’s cute some days I barely shower right before my husband gets home.

I don’t even want her to come over more than once a week. I don’t have energy to host, or shower and look presentable and put on a bra for her and my SIL.

And when she doesn’t like my attitude she complains to my husband that I’m acting like I want to kick her out. Which I do, but I don’t say anything I literally just continue my life. They show up in the middle of dinner?

No problem, I’m gonna continue to eat my soup. Like I’m not gonna free myself to make you feel like a welcomed guest cause UR NOT!

Leave me alone, literally when if it’s gave birth they were at my house every day or every other day it’s literally a blur I was sooo tired and dizzy and just so overwhelmed.

Literally, just leave me alone. It doesn’t help that literally me and my husband are on thin ice due to stress of a new baby, money troubles, and his work being on thin ice as well. Like READ THE ROOM and give us space !!!!!!!

My husband doesn’t understand. He literally wants me to leave the baby there on his day off or have them visit whenever they want.

I really don’t want this to end in a fkn divorce because we’re both too broke to even start new lives atp, and I can’t imagine trying to get a job as I don’t hv much help.

I’m a sahm. I read that text on my husband’s phone. Why can’t she ask for me to go with the child, that’s 3 months old btw and ebf. I’m glad my husband was wise enough to not even bring it up to me.

So we end his day off early to go visit his mom and sister as they kept calling the ENTIRE day cause they wanted to see the baby. Bear in mind both these bitches hate me and I hate them.

Moving on. We’re sitting at their house and the mom is literally calling my husband retarded and looking at me for a reaction. He’s used to her bitchiness so he ignores it. And I’d just roll my eyes.

Then the bitch brings up my son. She says”wonder how he’ll be raised” with a stank face. He’s two months old btw and sleeping on my shoulder.
So I said why wouldn’t he grow up to be a good person, argumentatively.

So instead of backtracking and saying she didn’t mean it that way she CONTINUES and says, no the kid is like a sponge he absorbs everything around him. Bitch do we look like assholes we’re regular good people.

Then my husband starts whispering in my ear to calm down. Then the bitch says” I wonder if he (the baby) is gonna pray when he’s older. So my husband replies “his father and his mom does why wouldn’t he. And her stank face is ENGRAVED onto her hideous being.

Anyways my blood is boiling at this point this bitch is coming for a two month old?!!

Bear in mind the whole time she’s was holding my son before he slept she was holding far from her and gossiping about some other family members and bragging about how she told mothers of five year olds that they don’t know how to raise their kids while my kids head is bopping so I tell her to support it.

Baby’s starts whining I tell her he’s hungry and give her the bottle (cuz they’d rather do that then have me breastfeed in the room). Then she literally puts it in his mouth for three seconds and he can’t grip it and she just says he’s not hungry.

No wonder she’d say he’d stay up for FOUR hours when we left him there with her once the bb was hungry and I never left him with her alone again. I took him in the room fed him and he fell asleep.

Anyways we get in the car and my husband asks ME what was that all about. And tells me if I can’t control my face then to just hv him go up there w the baby w out me for ten minutes so they can c him. Anyways, I told him how I felt about it all and he was just quiet and looked upset AT ME. I literally cried when I got home just cause I hate how everything is planning out.

Like bitch go tell ur mom that bs. I’m literally always quiet and don’t say anything but if ur gonna talk about my SON im gonna hv something to say dumbs ass ugly ass musty dusty ass bitch fuck her

I lay my baby down to sleep, but sometimes if he sleeps in my arms after I burp him, I’ll just hold him and let him sleep on my shoulder. I LIKE it. I don’t want to always lay him down, I don’t have anything else to do, he’s my only baby and I’m a stahm. Why do people keep commenting about it. Let me enjoy my child!
It started with me getting more sleep while holding him but now I just enjoy it even if I’m awake I like him being on my chest. What’s wrong with that?

All I keep hearing is lay him down to sleep. I do, but sometimes if he falls asleep in my arms I’m more than willing and love to just hold him while he sleeps. What’s wrong with that? I don’t wanna hear another person telling me to lay him down, I do! I just want to enjoy my child. I’m not gonna have anymore probably and I just want to hold and love my child. What’s wrong with that?!

The bitch sends me a pic of him sleeping flat on his face I tell her politely it’s dangerous and he tends to quiet his face into blankets or on my chest I’ll have to move his face to either side sometimes.

She says she won’t leave and that three other people are around him and won’t leave him. I say to move him on his back.

She did that so he wouldn’t wake up and bother her, basically to get him out of her way. I get to her house half an hour later and he’s alone in a a room faced down on his face with his nose barely making thru the side I turn him on his back. And he wakes up a few minutes later.

I fucking hate them.

She also won’t fold his diaper under his belly button like I told her to to keep the area sterile as advised by my pediatrician as he has a slight hernia.

And she won’t clean him with just water and tissues like I asked and used the emergency wipes I have in his bag.

And she had the audacity to ask for me to let him stay the night.

I hate them so much I wish I could go no contact as I have with some of my own family members. Fuck everyone of them

I’m so over it. Any sign of a healthy normal baby is apparently “concerning” when it happens under my care.

I’m really over it and it’s only been two months. I just nod and ignore it but it still hurts. And it’s annoying when they ask me “is this normal” and I have to look up articles to show perfectly normal baby attributes.
It’s like I have to prove I’m a good mom.

My baby stayed up for four hours with the in laws last weekend and my husband is surprised my baby slept a lot at home with me.

Maybe it’s cause i try not to interrupt my baby’s sleep even if it means not going to the bathroom or putting off a specific chore so he can sleep peacefully in my arms.

My in laws will purposefully wake him up or keep him”playing with him”. He’s two months old. Or they won’t hold him up and burp him when he has reflux “so he doesn’t get used to being held” which result in him being disturbed and not sleep well.

I used to hear about how much mothers are so critiqued and now I’m experiencing it and I’m so over it