I went to triple XL in the south side on Saturday and I just loved it so much, the way everyone was so comfortable in being sexy and being themselves along with the hard music was amazing. I have had nights out in gay clubs of course but i am looking for more of these queer rave spaces where everyone can be themselves with no judgement. Any suggestions please let me know.
going to Dublin on fri/sat for a concert. Want to get pished with a good atmosphere and without breaking the bank. any suggestions.
cheers
Going to Dublin for a concert at the weekend. wanting to get pished with a good atmosphere and cheap”ish drinks. will be over at fairview park. much love from a Scottish person who wants to get drunk :)
F (18) and M (19)had split up about a year agogo but remained in contact until last week, we have just completely cut contact so we can move on and heal separately but i have to much guilt and shame from the way i acted and left him effected from the relationship. The things he had to see and deal with that no partner should witness and that definitely should have put me in a ward. I cant help but feel like a horrible person for everything i put him through. I love and care for him still and its deeply hurts me that he has trauma because of me.
**TL;DR;** feeling guilty about actions i did while i was very mentally ill in a relationship and dont know how to move on
I feel like every time self harm it’s a competition with myself and others who self harm. Keeps thinking I need to do the next best thing jumping in front of car is breaking bones. My thing at the moment is just letting myself bleed out until nothing else can physically come out I don’t know how I haven’t been to the hospital. I’m 19 and started self harming when I was around 12 but had always just cut I managed to get myself clean for about two years and then I started self harming again when I turned 18 and things just keep getting more extreme it’s like nothing’s enough. I need the attention and I need to feel alive. I’ve tried to put other things in this place but I can’t. I go to therapy as I have personality disorder and am possibly neurodivergent but even the things my therapist are suggesting aren’t working for me anyone who’s going through the same thing can yoh suggest? Im going to end up dead before I reach my 20th birthday if I keep doing this
im 19, i relapsed today after over 8 months and im so disappointed in myself, i have managing to fight the urge but through the months have always had thought and sh always come to mind when feeling extreme guilt. i have been rejected by mental health services as im not severe enough because i was engaging in therapy and taking meds that did not work, i not cant afford the therapy and i dont know that to do, its been so long and im stranded without any answer or help. i cant live like this.