u/OppositeDrawing6126

So on a normal day where I don’t style my hair people will usually ignore me and I’ll blend in perfectly fine, when i usually style my hair many people will glance at me repeatedly. Now I got a haircut recently (a mullet) and I noticed now everyone is looking at me. Is this because they are all judging me or does it mean the cut is nice? The people who look at me are mainly older people, younger people the same age as me pretty much still ignore me. The look older people give me is like a look of disbelief like they’ve never seen a girl with short hair.

I’m just asking as I thought people ignored unattractive individuals as oppose of going out of their way to stare them down.

So l have type 3c hair which I air dry and I am struggling as my hair gets so frizzy with gel.
luse the only curls all curl cleanser shampoo and the only curls all curl conditioner. I get in the shower apply the shampoo first and detangle my hair after I apply the conditioner.
I leave the conditioner in my hair and start sectioning. I then use the only curls intense moisture leave in cream and apply it to each section before using my styling brush to style the curls.
Now after doing this my hair looks perfect but if I use the only curls mega hold gel it just becomes so frizzy no matter how I use it.
I tried applying it in my hair to each section after the curl cream and using my style brush. I also tried putting it on my hands and gently taking it on my hair.
I don't know if it's the type of gel or just my hair that rejects the gel. I feel as though I need a gel to keep my curls in place though.
Does anyone have any advice?

So l have type 3c hair which I air dry and I am struggling as my hair gets so frizzy with gel.
luse the only curls all curl cleanser shampoo and the only curls all curl conditioner. I get in the shower apply the shampoo first and detangle my hair after I apply the conditioner.
I leave the conditioner in my hair and start sectioning. I then use the only curls intense moisture leave in cream and apply it to each section before using my styling brush to style the curls.
Now after doing this my hair looks perfect but if I use the only curls mega hold gel it just becomes so frizzy no matter how I use it.
I tried applying it in my hair to each section after the curl cream and using my style brush. I also tried putting it on my hands and gently taking it on my hair.
I don't know if it's the type of gel or just my hair that rejects the gel. I feel as though I need a gel to keep my curls in place though.
Does anyone have any advice?

I’m a mixed with white/black and compared to other biracials I feel like I don’t look that good.

My hair doesn’t have nice 3A curls instead I got the 4A hair which is really hard to manage and so far it doesn’t even look that good. I have really big lips and a really big nose compared to my face. My body is also structured in a weird way. I have really broad shoulders compared to my waist so that’s great.
My skin tone is a very washed out brown that lacks a lot of brightness. I’ve got flat feet and on top of that I haven’t gotten any of the ‘good genes’ that people say you get from black people. I don’t gain muscle easily, nor do I run that fast and I don’t have much stamina. I just feel like I got the worst combination of both races. I’m also naturally hairy which sucks.

I was just wondering what the pros and cons of being a locum vet were compared to the normal veterinarian working in a practice. I am curious to hear the perspective of a vet in this.

Through my life I have noticed that mixed men get liked a lot by other people in terms of dating, they are always seen as attractive but with mixed women it’s the total opposite. Why does this happen?

I’m just curious to know what everyone else’s experiences have been in the dating field as a biracial. Have you had more interest from white, black or mixed race people? Have you found dating hard or easy?

Im just wondering what things someone has to do to be considered whitewashed as I cannot find any information on the internet regarding what things count as whitewashed and which ones don’t? Or is it strictly based on opinion?

So I am biracial mixed with black and white. One my parents is black and the other one is white so I am a 50/50 mix. I was wondering if I was able to identify as white. In terms of physical appearance many friends have said that I don’t look mixed and would have guessed that I am black if they didn’t know me.