u/OrderSignificant9179

Thank God the Board of Peace is there!

I can find pocket T shirts anywhere but I want a pocket tank. Has anyone seen them?

I'm a gay man in a long term relationship that we recently decided to open. My partner is several years younger than me and as such hasn't had sex with many men. We agreed to only play together but it seems to be only with guys he prefers over who we both are into and then when we all get together my partner and the other guy usually hit it off and I'm almost left out. I'm not sure what to do about this.

Personally, I'd rather we go play at a bathhouse where we can be together but play separately but he's not interested in that. So I'm stumped.

My partner (35) and I (66) decided after a few years to open our relationship. I think it stems from him not having sex with anyone but me and wanting to explore some. I understand and I'm open to that except that he only wants to do it together and only with guys he finds - so older guys. So far, the few times we've had a threesome, bf and the third guy are more interested in each other than with me. I enjoy watching him be pleasured but I'm also feeling left out. I never cum while both of them do.

How should I manage this? Ask for a don't ask don't tell rule allowing me to go hook up with a young guy once in a while? Or insist on a third who's younger once in a while?

Anyone else had to deal with this?

And the imaging center down the street won't accept insurance. I'd have to file a claim for reimbursement.

I'm 67 and my partner of 10 years is 32. Over the last year he's brought up opening our relationship because he's never had any other experiences outside of our experience. I was his first in every way. We talked about it and I agreed that it might be a good idea since my ex was the same way and after 5 years he cheated with someone. I didn't want the same thing to happen so I agreed to opening the relationship. He went off for a work trip and met two older guys and spent a few hours with them at their home. We tried having a three way but it didn't go well. The guy we met had erection problems and a bad back so he wasn't much fun. We ended up talking more than anything.

Last weekend we were invited by a friend to go stay with a childhood friend, also gay, at his mountain house. He was a handsome guy, well spoken, well traveled, etc. The four of us went out on his boat, had lunch and dinner and sat in his hot tub (naked) talking and having drinks. I was exhausted and decided to go lay down. Well, my partner played around with both of them. I'm still not sure what they did. Maybe mutual jacking off, maybe more. I really don't know.

He's not talking much about it and while I was ok with the two guys 5000 miles away this is way too close to home now. I could see how they looked at each other and when we left I overheard the guy tell BF come on up any time. Next time he'll break out the massage table. He's 2 hours away but still close in my mind and this is one of the things we discussed. Not going off individually when we're home. Three ways are fine. Group things would be fine but no going off by yourself. I can't get it out of my head that he might want to go visit the guy. And right now I want to go off on my own. Even if it's a happy ending massage, I feel like I need to play with someone else right now.

Any advise? Thoughts?

The Czech government refuses to put both dads names on the birth certificate so the two men have left the kids with US citizenship.

I have a feeling something is going to go sideways for those two kids. They're 16 now, have social security numbers, but don't file US taxes (they don't work or earn money yet). What's going to happen when they reach 18 or whenever they start working?