u/Out_the_fleshpits

Ive made some posts about this before but i guess this is more of a rant, ive done like everything theres genuinely no quests left to do no matter how hard i try to find them and it sucks because i could just make a new character but i loveee this one and ive been playing as her for a long time already,, i dont really enjoy doing modded quests but i guess i could give them a try. Anniversary quests suck because its just fight a thing then get super OP Deathblade3000™️ im open to suggestions but i guess its also partially my fault bc i can be a bit picky,,, js a quick rant

NOOooOoOOOO Ma’am ive NEVER seen snow!! 😂😂😂😂 WE DONT GET SNOW IN FLORIDA! Tell me again about how you could never handle 95° weather! Or about how sad it is we dont get seasons! Or about florida man! Or about how 65° is hot for you!!! Ive NEVER heard it before!!! Yes! My state IS the worst state! Yes make another joke about how bad florida is! Yessss!! 45° IS normal and 95° springs are so shocking!!! Who could ever handle hot weather amiright!!! 😂😂

Im not dogging on other states and i get people have other perspectives i swear im just so sick of this just keep rubbing it in my face that i live here of all places yes 🫩

For context, Me (F), my gf, and our friend (M) have known each other for about a year id say, and recently he’s been having a lot of issues. At first we could talk to him about these issues, but he’s started to not follow these boundaries. The reason i feel guilty about heavily considering dropping him is because he’s diagnosed with autism, and i don’t know if im being unjust by being upset with him.
As for what he actually does..for starters he will draw lewd photos or find lewd pictures and have them open on his iPad on a separate tab, then he will pretend to “accidentally” click on it and then act surprised when someone sees it. It’s VERY obvious he’s doing it on purpose. He’s also very clingy to my gf, whenever i or someone else like her best friend wants to sit/stand/walk with her he almost goes out of his way to take the seat or spot someone else was intending to get just to be next to her. He also slaps her ass occasionally which…makes me uncomfortable. I asked her how she feels about it and she said she didn’t care initially but that it’s starting to not feel like a joke anymore. I also sincerely doubt he’s into her because he’s gay and has a boyfriend of 2 years.
As for additional things, he steals things from people, pretends to be interested in things he knows nothing about, and occasionally calls people aggressive names. Yesterday he called my gf a “stupid b\tch” after she asked why he didn’t bring money to buy ice cream, which very much made both of us upset. Oh and me and my gf cant be around each other for two seconds without him making gay jokes. Its constant.
We’ve told him about our boundaries several times but he just will. Not. Listen. He never just says sorry and always says “i was just joking” then forgets after 2 days.
I dont know how to drop him because hes in my 4th period, both my clubs, and lunch. I also dont know how to drop him without putting him at risk of self h@rm because hes very vulnerable emotionally. At the same time however, i want to give him a wake up call, so i dont want to be too gentle…

For context, Me (F), my gf, and our friend (M) have known each other for about a year id say, and recently he’s been having a lot of issues. At first we could talk to him about these issues, but he’s started to not follow these boundaries. The reason i feel guilty about heavily considering dropping him is because he’s diagnosed with autism, and i don’t know if im being unjust by being upset with him.
As for what he actually does..for starters he will draw lewd photos or find lewd pictures and have them open on his iPad on a separate tab, then he will pretend to “accidentally” click on it and then act surprised when someone sees it. It’s VERY obvious he’s doing it on purpose. He’s also very clingy to my gf, whenever i or someone else like her best friend wants to sit/stand/walk with her he almost goes out of his way to take the seat or spot someone else was intending to get just to be next to her. He also slaps her ass occasionally which…makes me uncomfortable. I asked her how she feels about it and she said she didn’t care initially but that it’s starting to not feel like a joke anymore. I also sincerely doubt he’s into her because he’s gay and has a boyfriend of 2 years.
As for additional things, he steals things from people, pretends to be interested in things he knows nothing about, and occasionally calls people aggressive names. Yesterday he called my gf a “stupid b*tch” after she asked why he didn’t bring money to buy ice cream, which very much made both of us upset. Oh and me and my gf cant be around each other for two seconds without him making gay jokes. Its constant.
We’ve told him about our boundaries several times but he just will. Not. Listen. He never just says sorry and always says “i was just joking” then forgets after 2 days.
Once again…i don’t know if im the AH for being upset with him since he’s neurodivergent, but on the other hand, he’s being an ass so…what do you think?