u/Outsidethebox135

For me this is the worst episode of friends. Not for the Russ story, for the "fun bobby" story how he becomes boring after giving up the drink.

I didnt always think like this but after being told by a friend of mine ( not friends now for other reasons) told me I was boring one night out where I wasnt drinking and how it made me mentally think for a long time I need drink to be interesting. I dont have those thoughts as much as I used to since becoming a mum.

I feel like Im failing as a mum.

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I have a child of 8 years and another 8 months.

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I try my best with spending time with my oldest but whenever I suggest it he rejects it, and we can argue sometimes over his usage of the ipad (worst mistake i ever made was to introduce him to that to young)

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My youngest I feel is falling a bit behind in milestones, my partner isnt helping either with saying he should be crawling by now, our oldest didnt start until 10 months shortly followed by walking.

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With solids it was easier with my oldest he hardly threw up, but now my youngest if he has any heavy foods (i buy him some of the ready made baby foods but do some fresh fruit mashed up in a blender more) so i notice it more with pasta based ready made baby food it doesnt sit well in his tummy. I dont give him the ready made mixtures daily.

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I just know Im failing both of my kids. Failing at everything.

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