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Sziasztok :)

A férjemmel babatervezés elején állunk és szeretnék tájékozódni, tapasztalatokat olvasni.
Sajnos nagyon sok rosszat olvastam az állami szülészetekről, csecsemő osztályokról. Én egy eléggé szorongó tipus vagyok, ha úgy érzem, valahol nem kedvelnek akkor teljesen kétségbeesem, pánikolok, mert meg akarok felelni. Nagyon fontos, hogy akik körül vesznek empatikusan álljanak hozzám egy ilyen kiszolgáltatott és új helyzetben. A másik, hogy már ennyire előte szorongok azon, hogy a férjemet hazaküldik a baba születése után és még a csecsemő osztàlyra sem teheti be utána a lábát. A Szent János Kórházhoz tartozom, ott ez a szabály...

Nekem egy elèg traumatikus születésem volt, és ezek a félelmek valójában onnan (is) erednek. Járok terápiába, dolgozom rajta egyébként, még is félek a saját szülésemtől, hogy egyedül maradok a babával, ki tudja milyen testi és lelki állapotban, nem tudom mit kell csinálni, a csecsemősök meg nem sokat segítenek (ezeket olvastam a kórházról).

Ha magánban szülnék, az csak a Triton lenne, ahol van PIC II ellátá is, nekem ez adja a biztonságot. Nem érdekel a kaja, meg hogy milyen luxi a szoba... nekem a férjem jelenléte lenne az egyik legnagyobb szempont, valamint az orvos és szülésznő választás, akiket ismerek, bízol bennük.

Kíváncsi lennék a véleményekre, tapasztalatokra, akár az említett 2 konkrét kórház esetében. Jelenleg 1,7M forint a Tritonban az a csomag, ahol Apa is bent lehet. Ki tudjuk fizetni, de nyilván mehetne máshova is ez a pént. Viszont egy pozitív szülésélmény nekem nagyon sokat megér.

Köszönöm! :)

Sziasztok :)

Van itt köztetek olyan anyuka, aki küzd vagy küzdött szorongásos, esetleg ehhez kapcsolódó szomatikus jellegű tünetekkel? Akár várandósság alatt, akár már a baba megérkezése után?

Amennyiben igen, hogy tudtátok menedzelni a mindennapokat?

30 éves vagyok, egy stabil házasságban, támogató családi és barái környezettel körülvéve élek. Sajnos régóta küzdök szorongásos tünetekkel, hol erősebb, hol teljesen átlagos napjaim vannak.

Két nagyon jó szakember (klinikai szakpszichológus és pszichiáter) is segíti ezt az utat, és azt gondolom, rengeteget fejlődtem az önismeretemben, felismerem, amikor egy szorongásos állapotba kerülök, vannak megküzdési eszközeim.

Nagyon vágyunk kisbabára, de sokszor bekapcsol bennem a gondolat, hogy milyan anya leszek így. Oda tudok-e fordulni 100%-osan a babám felé, ha egy rosszabb napom vagy hetem van. A várandósság és az azt követő időszak mindenhogyan megterhelő testileg és lelkileg is, így a szorongás erősödése szinte normális reakció. Emellett azt is gondolom, hogy ha az ember arra vár, hogy minden tökéletesen ideális legyen, akkor sosem vállal gyereket.

Mit gondoltok erről a kérdésről? Minden tapasztalat, megélés és gondolat érdekel, de kérlek, hogy bántóan ne szóljatok inkább hozzá a témához.

Nagyon köszönöm, ha elolvastad :)

Sziasztok :)

2027 februárjában szeretnénk Thaiföldre utazni. Repjegyet még nem vettünk, mert eléggè drága jelenleg minden opcio. Azt olvastam és hallottam is, hogy meg lehet fordulni kb 200 ezerből, viszont jelenlet egy út kerül ennyibe. Phuketre érkeznénk és Bangkokból haza.

Akik már jártatok itt vagy esetleg most van szintén tervben, jó eséllyel lejjebb mennek még ezek az árak? Olvastam olyat is, hogy nyáron szokott jönni egy árzuhanás, de kicsit tartok tőle hogy olajárak stb. miatt talán ez a kategória marad majd.

Köszönöm! :)

Hi!

I'm 29 years old woman. My main issue is a severe nerve system exhaustion with a lot of physical, somatic sympthoms and it caused a severe health anxiety. It started in June 2025.
My sympthoms: dizzyness (not like vertigo), brain fog, pressure in my head and ears, always sleppy, can't keep ky eyes open, sensitive to exercise, nouises, heat and light.

My back story: years of anorexia nervose, over exercise, no menstrual cycle. I'm already recoverd since last August, have a healthy weight, regular cycle.

I'm takeing Sertralin sincs 7 weeks now. I started on 25 mg for a week, than went up to 50. I almost immediately felt better on this, but of course not all my sympthoms disappeard.

I told my doc that I feel better, less anxious and less somatic symphthoms but not all good. He wanted me to go up to 100 mg at week 4.
I started with 75 mg but felt worse that on the lower dose. He wanted me to upper to 100 in a week but I refused so we agreed to stay on 75. Its almost 4 weeks since than and I still don't feel better.

I wake up every morning like I was hit by a truck or like I didn't sleep for a week. Can't keep my eyes open, want to sleep all day. I feel pressure in my head, brain fog, dizzy, weak. My anxiety is also worse....

I will talk to him on Monday, if we could go back to 50mg. I think my nerve system is still in the survival mode and the higher dose only triggers it more (thats what my clinical psychogyst said and I can agree).

Does anyone experienced the same? Like someone felt worse on a higher dose and get better on lower? I'm also afraid of the physical side effects, that maybe it causes more simphthoms and triggers my health anxiety.

Hi,

I started Sertraline 6 weeks ago. My main symphthomes are psychosomatical. I had a huge burnout and exhaustion last summer after some years of eating disorder and over exersice. I also developed health anxiety because my symphthomes were very scary, also had 3-4 panic attacks. My nerve system became very sensitized and still is. It detects everything as danger.
I had a lot of appointments with different doctors, everything came back normal (except my hormones because of very low body weight).

At the end of summer, my weight were healthy, I felt stronger physically, but my symphthomes were still there.

Unfortunately I only went to see a psychistrist in December, who prescribed me Brintellix. I went up to 10mg but I only felt worse. I got a new doctor in April and started Sertralin (25 mg and than 50 mg). I felt way better in the first weeks (not all my symphthomes disappierd but better). After 4 weeks my doctos wanted me to go up to 100 mg, althoug I told him I feel better. I only went up to 75 mg, its been 2,5 week now but I feel worse.

No matter how much I sleep I wake I like hitting by a car. Feel pressure in my head, cant keep my eyes open, my eara are ringing. Brain fog all day long. Durin exersice, I feel sleepy, dizzy (not like the room is turning around, its different). I feel tired... anxiety is higher again....

My main symphtoms fron the beginnig are:
Dizzyness (not vertigo, better like when you are unstable, or did not sleep at all), pressure in my head, fear of death, my ears are ringig, always want to lay down, numbness, brain fog, sleepy....

I totally lost my hope in these meds... I go to therapy every week which helps a lot and I truly belive in it. But I am not sure if I need antidepressants at all, or Frontin or similar drugs to solve this. I feel even worse... Also read a lot of withdrawl stories which freak me out.
I am a 29 years old women, married in February. I want to have kids in the near future... but not on meds for years....

Did someone experienced the same? Coming off from antidepressants helped? Or take the lowest dose helped?

Hi,

I started Sertraline 6 weeks ago. My main symphthomes are psychosomatical. I had a huge burnout and exhaustion last summer after some years of eating disorder and over exersice. I also developed health anxiety because my symphthomes were very scary, also had 3-4 panic attacks. My nerve system became very sensitized and still is. It detects everything as danger.
I had a lot of appointments with different doctors, everything came back normal (except my hormones because of very low body weight).

At the end of summer, my weight were healthy, I felt stronger physically, but my symphthomes were still there.

Unfortunately I only went to see a psychistrist in December, who prescribed me Brintellix. I went up to 10mg but I only felt worse. I got a new doctor in April and started Sertralin (25 mg and than 50 mg). I felt way better in the first weeks (not all my symphthomes disappierd but better). After 4 weeks my doctos wanted me to go up to 100 mg, althoug I told him I feel better. I only went up to 75 mg, its been 2,5 week now but I feel worse.

No matter how much I sleep I wake I like hitting by a car. Feel pressure in my head, cant keep my eyes open, my eara are ringing. Brain fog all day long. Durin exersice, I feel sleepy, dizzy (not like the room is turning around, its different). I feel tired... anxiety is higher again....

My main symphtoms fron the beginnig are:
Dizzyness (not vertigo, better like when you are unstable, or did not sleep at all), pressure in my head, fear of death, my ears are ringig, always want to lay down, numbness, brain fog, sleepy....

I totally lost my hope in these meds... I go to therapy every week which helps a lot and I truly belive in it. But I am not sure if I need antidepressants at all, or Frontin or similar drugs to solve this. I feel even worse... Also read a lot of withdrawl stories which freak me out.
I am a 29 years old women, married in February. I want to have kids in the near future... but not on meds for years....

Did someone experienced the same? Coming off from antidepressants helped? Or take the lowest dose helped?

Hi,

I started Sertraline 6 weeks ago. My main symphthomes are psychosomatical. I had a huge burnout and exhaustion last summer after some years of eating disorder and over exersice. I also developed health anxiety because my symphthomes were very scary, also had 3-4 panic attacks. My nerve system became very sensitized and still is. It detects everything as danger.
I had a lot of appointments with different doctors, everything came back normal (except my hormones because of very low body weight).

At the end of summer, my weight were healthy, I felt stronger physically, but my symphthomes were still there.

Unfortunately I only went to see a psychistrist in December, who prescribed me Brintellix. I went up to 10mg but I only felt worse. I got a new doctor in April and started Sertralin (25 mg and than 50 mg). I felt way better in the first weeks (not all my symphthomes disappierd but better). After 4 weeks my doctos wanted me to go up to 100 mg, althoug I told him I feel better. I only went up to 75 mg, its been 2,5 week now but I feel worse.

No matter how much I sleep I wake I like hitting by a car. Feel pressure in my head, cant keep my eyes open, my eara are ringing. Brain fog all day long. Durin exersice, I feel sleepy, dizzy (not like the room is turning around, its different). I feel tired... anxiety is higher again....

My main symphtoms fron the beginnig are:
Dizzyness (not vertigo, better like when you are unstable, or did not sleep at all), pressure in my head, fear of death, my ears are ringig, always want to lay down, numbness, brain fog, sleepy....

I totally lost my hope in these meds... I go to therapy every week which helps a lot and I truly belive in it. But I am not sure if I need antidepressants at all, or Frontin or similar drugs to solve this. I feel even worse... Also read a lot of withdrawl stories which freak me out.
I am a 29 years old women, married in February. I want to have kids in the near future... but not on meds for years....

Did someone experienced the same? Coming off from antidepressants helped? Or take the lowest dose helped?

Hi,

I started Sertraline 6 weeks ago. My main symphthomes are psychosomatical. I had a huge burnout and exhaustion last summer after some years of eating disorder and over exersice. I also developed health anxiety because my symphthomes were very scary, also had 3-4 panic attacks. My nerve system became very sensitized and still is. It detects everything as danger.
I had a lot of appointments with different doctors, everything came back normal (except my hormones because of very low body weight).

At the end of summer, my weight were healthy, I felt stronger physically, but my symphthomes were still there.

Unfortunately I only went to see a psychistrist in December, who prescribed me Brintellix. I went up to 10mg but I only felt worse. I got a new doctor in April and started Sertralin (25 mg and than 50 mg). I felt way better in the first weeks (not all my symphthomes disappierd but better). After 4 weeks my doctos wanted me to go up to 100 mg, althoug I told him I feel better. I only went up to 75 mg, its been 2,5 week now but I feel worse.

No matter how much I sleep I wake I like hitting by a car. Feel pressure in my head, cant keep my eyes open, my eara are ringing. Brain fog all day long. Durin exersice, I feel sleepy, dizzy (not like the room is turning around, its different). I feel tired... anxiety is higher again....

My main symphtoms fron the beginnig are:
Dizzyness (not vertigo, better like when you are unstable, or did not sleep at all), pressure in my head, fear of death, my ears are ringig, always want to lay down, numbness, brain fog, sleepy....

I totally lost my hope in these meds... I go to therapy every week which helps a lot and I truly belive in it. But I am not sure if I need antidepressants at all, or Frontin or similar drugs to solve this. I feel even worse... Also read a lot of withdrawl stories which freak me out.
I am a 29 years old women, married in February. I want to have kids in the near future... but not on meds for years....

Did someone experienced the same? Coming off from antidepressants helped? Or take the lowest dose helped?

Sziasztok!

Közel 1 éve küzdök erős szorongásos és szomatizációs tünetekkel. Jellemző a kóválygó jellegű szédülés, fejnyomás, fokozott figyelem minden testü érzésre pl pulzus, szívverés (egészgésszorongás), gyakori kimerültség. 3-4 pánikrohamom volt.

A létező összes területen kivizsgáltak, nincsen szervi betegségem, a vérképem is nagyon szép, vérnyomásom tankönyvi.

December óta van pszichiáterem, most a 2. orvos és 2. gyógyszer amit próbálok (antidepresszáns). Őszintén szólva eddig inkább azt érzem, hogy a tüneteimet fokozzák (nem csak a beállási időszakban), amitől mégjobban szorongok. Frontint kaptam mellé, az nagyon szépen kisimít, de napi 0.25-öt szedek már lassan fél éve, és nem tudom letenni, mert a többi nem vált be. Pszichoterápiára járok, az nagyon sokat segít. Emellett próbálom tágítani a saját határaimat, bennemaradni a szorongató helyzetekben és megtapaszatlni, hogy nem veszélyesek (pl. utára menni egyedül, sportolni).
Rendszeresen sportolok és a napi 1-2 óra séta is benne van a rutinomban.
Van itt olyan, aki próbált akár több antidepresszánst hasonló problémára és végül úgy lett jobban, hogy nem szedett semmit? Sajnos nagyon elveszítettem a bizalmamat és erősen gondolkozom, hogy talán újra meg kellen próbálni anélkül jobban lenni. Nem beszélve a hosszútávú mellékhatásokról....

Köszönöm előre is!
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