u/P1nky09

So this isn't really anything big or deep just a small rant

But like I wish I had a friend who was a huge fan of my F/O without like actually Yumeshipping him (since I'm non-sharing 😭) but everytime I try to find people like that people who ARE really big fans of him, are also usually crazy about a ship of his too. And usually I don't mind if someone ships my F/O with a canon character as they don't overstep my boundaries, but it's sort of an issue when the ship is their entire page🥲 Idk how to even look for the type of ppl I wanna interact with and befriend lol

Okay so basically I just wanted to ask what are some reasons people are non-sharing? Yes I get it Seeing doubles make us uncomfortable but is there a specific reason *why*? I'm a yumeshipper myself, a non sharing one too. The character is kind of a hyperfixation to me currently, and I feel invalid/uncomfortable by seeing doubles but I can't quite place why. I saw this point being made on tiktok and it had me thinking...

I'm also concerned now on this getting out of hand and becoming unhealthy for me, how can I ensure that it won't? Someone made a point that sure people block their doubles to have a safe space but that safe space can eventually turn into a bubble of their delusions and I honestly didn't know how to reply to that because that a damn good point, and my mental health is already shit lmao so I'm not trying to make it worse.

Most fanarts of my F/O HAVE to include at least one ship of his in them like even if it's not needed. He has two very popular ships and everytime I see a fan art of his he is either wearing a badge of one of them or carrying some type of merch or it's just downright ship art. Even in tiktok edits, I have any and every possible keyword blocked yet I search up his edits and editors be 'sneaking in' ships without tagging it. It's so annoying😭

I am not sure if vents are allowed here but I am a little confused.

So I'm a Kirishima yumeshipper, and USUALLY I feel invalid seeing doubles or other oc X canon content. Hell sometimes I feel bad seeing canon ships. For my own comfort I usually block doubles content that comes on my fyp. But I feel so bad doing that like I feel like I'm somehow invaliding them? I don't even know anymore. Someone reccomended me to just mass block double accs so I don't get their content on my fyp at all and I considered doing that but I only managed to block like five accounts before just giving up because I felt terrible. Not to mention some of them Geniunly had such cute art stuff and I feel like I'm not appreciating their efforts just because they're a double idk🥲

I was not sure how to better word the question in the title, but as a non sharing yumeshipper sometimes I start to feel kind of invalid and down when I accidentally see a doubles content on my fyp. How do I cheer myself up after that?