u/PRISHAUS

I’m very particular, please don’t DM if you don’t fit this criteria ~

A little about me:
I’m a medical student. 23. I plan on studying till Doctorate.
I’m equal parts academically driven and emotionally chaotic
I like deep conversations, teasing banter, and people who can talk about both philosophy and memes.
Fair warning: I can oscillate between “future planning wife material” and “sending unhinged reels at 2am”
I value tradition, but I’m not trying to turn life into a rigid checklist either

What I’m looking for:
-Tall is appreciated because I am unfortunately part of the statistics
-Someone who takes care of himself physically and mentally
-Ambitious, dependable, emotionally mature
-Has some connection to Sanatana Dharma/tradition/culture; doesn’t have to be ultra orthodox, just sincere
-Good conversationalist. Please have thoughts. And hobbies. And opinions.
-Preferably someone who dates with intention, even if we take things slow initially.

Bonus points if:
You like chai = coffee
You can speak Tamil, are an Iyengar
Ride bikes
You’re mildly nerdy, I like to geek out over stuff
You’re protective but not controlling, don’t put me in a box
You can handle a woman who will both bully you affectionately and care deeply for you

Please don’t DM with just “hi”. PLEASE Introduce yourself properly - age, what you do, where you’re from, and what you’re looking for :)

Edit: I’m financially independent, if I don’t reply after 24 hours I’m not interested

I’m a pretty confident person, I’ve asked out boys before, planned dates, made the first move, but I don’t wanna be that girl anymore 😭.
I wanna be asked out, proposed to, pampered, etc etc but every guy I attract now just don’t seem to wanna take on that role.
Am I doing something wrong?

Anyone wanna hangout at Starbucks @ MoA today 6pm? I’d like some company as I write my college records :3
Also open to getting on call
Interests - GI/HSR lore, travelling, college life, Bangalore, I speak Tamil/kannada/hindi

My ex was my best friend for three years, we were literally the dream couple, and our breakup was mutual about 8 months ago and I finally realised I’m completely over him
Didn’t remember his birthday, didn’t think about him on valentines, went to some common places we’d gone while dating and didn’t remember him

Only today did someone bring him up and I went like “oh damn I forgot he exists” and I’m so proud of myself 🫂 cuz I would normally be so hung up over losing people
Self love and healing actually works guys 😭😭🫶🫶

So as an Iyengar girl I feel very lost in Bangalore.
My parents were kinda of chill in my upbringing but as I merge into the society I feel like I don’t know anything about being a proper Iyengar 😭
I follow ekadashi, some of the festival rituals which I see my mother do, but then there’s day to day things which idk how to do. Like what’s karaadiyanombu? What’s sankashti😭 Then there’s things like Golu which I’ve never kept, I would like to start it as a tradition.

Okay soooo a super sweet friend of mine (28 M) is looking for a Catholic girl, he’s had no luck so far because of his work but I was hoping I could help him out
He’s 5’9” , loves anime, board games, he’s mallu, exceptionally caring and emotional intelligent. He’s witty, funny, loves cats and talking endlessly

He’s mallu catholic, if anyone is interested pls dm me qwq

Hellooo

So

Here goes part 2 (accidentally deleted the first one)

I'm 23, medical student, Sri Vaishnava from Bangalore Looking for a tambhram bf (lyengar preferred) from Bangalore city

I’m gonna be more specific about my likes in this post;
I like tall guys, a love for travel, interested in doing activities together, open to exploring new things

Just looking to talk at this stage :)

Someone tall, maintains himself and has a good sense of duty to sanatana dharma is all I ask :)
(I am Vadhula gotram)

Hey guys
I’m a medical student from India, I want to study either Psychology or Management from HES
The pros I’m lookin at is I don’t have to travel (and leave my cat behind) and it’s 100% acceptance rate, I can cope up with the rigorous academics

But I want to hear the cons from people in similar situations like this