Wouldn't it make more sense to have one megathread for R4R like GenZIndia does?
I feel that would prevent this space from turning into yet another match-finding space while at the same time allowing you to find people you have things in common with.
Not sure if this is unique to our community, but this idea of marrying siblings in birth order is getting out of hand. Heck, it doesn't even make sense if everyone were to get arranged marriage. Humans aren't commodities ffs. Even if you are getting an arranged marriage, you'd check if your vibe matches and if their long term goals align with yours.
Zero logic in this argument in my opinion. My partner and I have expressed to our parents our intention to marry now (after 4 years of being together). My parents aren't on board because my partner has an older sister who's unmarried and she's not even sure she wants to marry. I feel pressuring her is wrong and I wouldn't do that. I can't postpone my life indefinitely because of this, as they won't let us move in together before marriage. Now my parents have given me justifications saying the older one will never get married then. My partner's parents however, are quite understanding and don't mind us marrying right away.
Can someone please tell me if there is any sensible reason to justify this?
Hi, Namaskaram!
I’m a newly appointed moderator of r/tambrahm, and I tried making a few changes around the subreddit.
We’ve updated the banner and icon (lmk how they're), added user flairs (please go pick yours), and introduced multiple post flairs for dedicated discussions and easier navigation.
The goal is for this subreddit to become an all-in-one space for Tambrahms to hang out and share experiences.
You can:
• Post your Diwali/Pongal fits under Fashion & OOTD
• Share your art, music, photography, or creative work
• Use the R4R (Redditor-for-Redditor) flair to find friends/partners, but please don’t turn the subreddit into just another dating app. PLEASE!
• Got any controversial opinions? Shoot them, we can have healthy discussions.
• Learn about traditions, ask endless “why” questions, & understand the meaning behind
• Participate in fun contests and community events as the subreddit grows.
Only non-negotiable is - you've got to be kind and respectful, even if the values don't align. Also, report any inappropriate posts, comments, or DMs you come across so we can keep the space safe.
This subreddit is NOT a place to promote caste superiority, discrimination, or hatred towards any community. We believe everyone deserves equal dignity and respect. r/tambrahm exists as a friendly space for people with shared backgrounds.
Mates, we need more interaction for the community to grow, so please engage and spread the word about the subreddit. Promoting niche communities through other subreddits is difficult for obvious reasons, so word of mouth is the best way to go.
Cheers.
Is this a correct sub to post matrimonial profile? Just asking 😄
Mod should not ban me 😝
Why is it so tough to find decent iyer men on dating apps? The ones on matrimonial sites are just not cool enough or too rule-abiding
Is it so tough to find tamil brahmins on dating apps??
What do y’all eat for protein? Can we create a group for ourselves? I was a bit sedentary in my late twenties but in my thirties I’m starting to eat quite a lot of meat honestly and it’s the best thing ever for my strength and endurance. Hit the chat bros. I don’t care about culture and stuff when it comes to health so ymmv.
Soo hi y'all, found this subreddit from nowhere just to see all the millennials are looking for marriage alliances 😭.. but I got your feelings our generation is really cooked.. meanwhile I'm struggling to find a job while in the final year 🥀,Was curious about whether the current gen Brahmins follows all the traditions and all so thought of creating a post to engage fellow 2k gangg.
First of all is there any Genz here...!!🙏🏻 If there are anyone let's create a grp and rant 👍🏻🗣️.