I am 27 F, My husband 30 M is emotionally cheating on me..
The thing is he had a crush long time ago... Like five yrs back. He was in constant touch with her through calls. But later he might have realised she is not marriage material or caste is different. He met me three yrs back, but while we were in a relationship he was still in touch with her through calls that too in midnight. I figured it out through frequent call logs during midnight.
We had a big issue after that, I also started seeing other guys. We broke up like for about nine months. But later I realised I cannot leave without him. We came back together with a promise that we won't cheat each other or contact third person while in a relationship.
Now we are married from three months. I checked his call log got to know she contacted him four months back for ( depression, anxiety, etc) and he too responded because she was in trouble. Now a month before after we got married she again called him to ask about him.
He broke our promise. And I feel he doesn't respect me enough and takes me for granted. I confronted him, he said that he won't do it again. But I feel the cycle keeps repeating again and again. I confronted him he said it's his mistake in casual way and started bringing my past. I need a solution for this?