u/Personal-Camel-8275

I’ve been trying to look around to find my old lease pony, I had to stop leasing him at the beginning of this year due to money issues and conflicts with my trainer who owned him at a the time, this trainer sells a lot of horses and often so I have no clue where he could be right now, he’s a now 23 y/o dark bay section b welsh pony, I was told that he was registered but have been unable to find an results for his name under any pony registry, I am unsure of where he came from before my old trainer purchased him just that he came from a sale barn, does anyone know how to help me out?

Let’s start with some context, my brother and his now ex gf (both currently 20) recently broke up. they were together for two and a half years and his gf lived with him, our parent, our younger brother and Me (currently 17), she moved in with us shortly after they got together because one of my brothers close friends had passed away and he was struggling with grief , earlier this week they had a massive argument and ended up ending the relationship , they were visiting her family and got into the argument on the way back home, he forced her to get out of his truck and walk the rest of the way home, which was about a half hour walk and it was late at night, when she made it back to the house she took her car and drove 2 hours back to her hometown to spend the night at her sisters since she understandably didn’t want to be in the same house as him that night. The next morning my brother when to my parents and demanded that they throw her out of the house, my parents refused to do so saying that she has nowhere to go right now and her job and life is here, my mom offered for her to share a room with me until she could sort things out and get her own place (something that I had already agreed to since me and her are close friend) my brother said that it wasn’t fair and that our parents were picking her over him, our parents said that this isn’t the case and told him again that we can’t just throw her out since her closest family is over two hours away, and my mom told him that it was fucked up that he made her walk home after dark knowing that we don’t live in the safest are, my brother flipped out and called my mom a cheating cunt that slept with my dads former best friend (something that isn’t true) and said that he was never going to come back since they care more about his now ex than him. later in the day his ex came to collect her stuff and was upset at how things had ended, she blamed herself for him fighting with our parents and I assured her that it was not her fault and I spent the afternoon helping her pack up stuff, my brother came back later that evening and grabbed what little things actually belonged to him since most of the furniture that they used actually belonged to his ex, he ended up leaving his pet bird behind and said that he would come back for her when he had a more permanent place to stay, although I am certain that he will not come back for her since it extremely unlikely that any place he can afford will allow a bird and he barely even spends time with her or money on her. I have since blocked him on everything but messages since he was spam reposting TikTok’s about his ex being a cheating narcissist (again something that isn’t true) and I just didn’t want to see that crap, at the end of the day I was talking to my grandma who is still in contact with him and I called him a complete man baby for how he acted and my grandma scolded me saying that he is still my brother and that he is just upset and that he will come aroun, I told her that I hope he never comes back after how he acted and that he doesn’t deserve the benefit of the doubt, so AITA or am I justified?

This afternoon I lost my female leopard gecko in my room, my neighbors kid was over and I let him look at my animals but I don’t think he secured the latch all the way and when I came back in her enclosure door was cracked open and she was gone, her cage is on ground level so I’m not too concerned about her being injured but I’m looking for tips on finding her, I’ve just about torn apart my room and still no sign of her, she is an albino leopard gecko and my room is entirely black so if she were to peek out I would spot her right away, any tips or suggestions are appreciate! I’ve set up some flour on the floor and set out one of her hides in hopes that she will crawl into hit to sleep tonight

(EDIT) Very happy news! she has been found!! it only took me 5.5 hours and tearing my entire room apart but she has been found and she is not harmed thankfully, she managed to change rooms and hide amongst my foam rolls in my craft room, and as I expected she was moving around while I was searching for her as I had checked that exact spot just a half hour before, and I have definitely learned my lesson on double checking locks lol

I (17) just recently found out that my dad is hosting a surprise birthday party for my mom with the help of my older brother, except I didn’t find out from either of them. I found out this afternoon from my neighbor who is good friends with my mother and an acquaintance to me since I babysit her kids on the regular, she texted me asking if I had any food or gift ideas for my mom, I replied saying that I want aware there was going to be a party so I went to go talk to my brother and he explained that he was recruiter the day before to help reach out to people, turns out half of my extended family and multiple neighbors have already been invited and have been helping plan, I honestly felt hurt by this considering that out of be and my two brothers I spend the most time with my mother, I texted my dad and asked why he didn’t tell me or even text me about it, he responded by saying that he was going to tell me when he got home despite the two of us having a nearly 40 minute conversation privately this morning, when I told him that our neighbor was under the assumption that I already knew he responded back by saying “I guess you aren’t invited then lol” and this honestly stung, sure I und reaching out to others to help plan it first but he didn’t even bother to tell me when the party is supposed to be happening in the house that I live in until days before it’s happening feels fucked up, and to top it all off it turns out that my brothers girlfriend knew before me as well and she was invited to help plan it. There has always been some tension between me and my dad as he has always favored my brother over me and he hasn’t been shy about showing it. So am I over reacting by feeling hurt or am I justified in my feelings??