here to catch a vibe✨

howdy! im a 34f (i feel like i need to mention engaged just in case? lol) whos into magic the gathering, sorcery, in the process of learning riftbound, been running and playing dnd for years, building an army and working on learning to play 40k, video games, lotsa stuff. also on a fitness journey right now doin the gym n stuff. all that to say im looking for:
-someone (er people plural) to meet up at a local game shop n toss cards
-er if you wanna go for a walk around downtown thats a vibe get some steps in
also open to ideas yknow? just wanna meet some new people n kick it! 💪

edit: oh or also would be sick to find a dnd group lol i miss playing

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u/Pleasant-Message1179 — 17 days ago
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Tribute to Hainan House: Fort Wayne's Best Chinese Restaurant Retiring

With the recent closing of Fort Wayne's best Chinese restraurant, Hainan House located at 1820 Bluffton Road, I felt it would be worth posting the last meal served for the last of it's kind in the city.

A little background on my experience at Hainan House:
My first time there was about a year ago, it was amazing in the literal sense. The atmosphere, the decorations, the smell of the food, and most importantly and most memorably, the kindness and care of the family serving us amazed me. We were treated with genuine care.

The service by (please correct me if I am wrong) the father at the table was great. He was so kind and gentle with a smile that would warm your heart. The mom at the register and taking calls for takeout.

The Last Meal:
My brother, my wife, and I heard Hainan House was closing and we knew we had to go. We originally were going to go on Friday, 7/24, but we ended up going on Thursday. We are glad we did! They ended up closing earlier than expected as they ran out of food. When we got there it was packed. There was a line through the back sitting area of the restaurant waiting to be seated or for takeout. We waited to be seated for about an hour.

Due to the wait I ended up having to take my wife home early, but I was able to come back and eat with my brother. During the time I was taking her back, my brother remained waiting and the son came out and looked at who was remaining and seated the last family who was waiting and then said the restaurant was closed, but my brother was behind them. The son noticed him and asked in a lenient tone how many were with him? He said 2, just him and I. The son went back to the kitchen and called in Chinese, then came back to my brother and said they can seat him. What a blessing it was.

I was able to return and sit with my brother in the corner table of the dining room. We knew they were running out of food and the hostess said they still had chicken, so we asked her what she would recommend based on what was left and she recommended the Three Delights and Kung Pao Chicken. We learned they were out of beef and seafood later, although they had just enough for a Three Delight dish. We also ordered the Plum wine.

The food was delicious, and the wine was great, truly a perfect ending. We sat there remembering the times coming here and praising the food and the design of the restaurant; there are not to many 1980's decor Chinese restaurants around anymore. We believe they are special, they certainly are to us. I have included photos of our meal and the dining room before we left.

My brother and I were the last table there, looking at an empty dining room knowing this is the end of an era. At the end of our meal we got the check and made our way to the register. We greeted and thanked the mom. She was happy and said she was ready to retire. We wished her well and thanked her again for everything.

We left with hope remembering and talking about Solomon's words to each other, "Do not say, “Why is it that the former days were better than these?” For it is not from wisdom that you ask about this." Ecclesiastes‬ ‭7‬:‭10‬

We are so thankful to the family behind Hainan House, you treated us and everyone so well. From my heart, and I am sure many others, thank you.

u/Pleasant-Message1179 — 22 days ago

Looking for some "nerd" shops

are there any shops in town that sell Magic The Gathering, VHS tapes or second hand video games? I see a couple possible places but theres no info really online so i cant quite tell. Any info greatly appreciated!

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u/Pleasant-Message1179 — 1 month ago

Fitness class? Support group? Gym buddy? Help?

I am in desperate need of help. Im struggling very badly with my body and ultimately self image. I am the heaviest ive ever been right now and am stuck in this catch 22 where i feel so uncomfortable with my weight i am afraid to go outside and be seen and have gotten so depressed about it I dont even want to exist but at the same time really want to go to the gym or take a class or something. I have been doing little workouts at home with no equipment but I just end up feeling like its pointless cus i dont know what im doing and being alone i just get in my own head about it all and it falls apart. I want to change badly but I need a place to go or people to go with where i can feel comfortable and feel like i have some direction. Any advice on a place to go or classes i could take or even maybe support groups around depression and food addiction or if anyones looking for a gym buddy just info on any of that would be appreciated 🖤

as a side note: I dont have insurance so i cant do things like glp1's er anti depressants er whatever, i gotta raw dog this shit.

side side note: i have a planet fitness membership which would allow me to bring someone with me for free if i had someone, but im also not opposed to cancelling it altogether to go somewhere else if someone had a better suggestion

thanks in advance all 🖤

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u/Pleasant-Message1179 — 2 months ago

If I happen to see them at magic con it would be so cool to have them each sign one 🖤 I’ve seen all episodes of meaty magic and I don’t recall them naming favorites but maybe someone else does? I do remember in the pauper episode Nick mentioning running fairies and I know Harry likes sultai, but anyways.. any ideas appreciated!

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u/Pleasant-Message1179 — 4 months ago