u/Possible_Occasion437

Looking for honest advice.
I’ve been trying to manifest my ex for a couple weeks already . but I’m starting to feel like giving up. Our relationship ended because of my own mistakes—I was struggling with my mental health, became emotionally dependent, overthought everything, and stopped showing up the way I should have. The last time we talked, she said she wants to be with me but can’t be my girlfriend right now, saying how much loves me deeply and that she’s proud of the changes I’m making; since then, the only interaction has been her liking a photo my sister posted of me, with no real contact or movement toward reconciliation.
Has anyone been in a similar situation where things seemed completely stagnant but eventually changed? I’m not looking for blind reassurance—I just want honest experiences and advice on how to tell the difference between persistence and refusing to accept reality. I’ve been with this girl for 3 years I was looking to propose to her in couple months

I’ve been going through a breakup, and it’s been really hard on me. I still care about my ex, and I’m trying to grow as a person instead of chasing or forcing anything.
I believe in God, and I also hear a lot of people talk about manifestation. I’m confused about how the two fit together.
For those of you who believe in prayer or manifestation, has it ever worked for you? If so, what are the actual steps? How do you pray or manifest in a healthy way without becoming obsessed with one specific outcome or person?
I’m trying to become a better man, trust God’s timing, and improve myself. At the same time, I hope that if it’s meant to be, maybe my ex and I will find our way back to each other someday.
I’d really appreciate hearing your experiences or advice.

I’ve been going through a breakup, and it’s been really hard on me. I still care about my ex, and I’m trying to grow as a person instead of chasing or forcing anything.
I believe in God, and I also hear a lot of people talk about manifestation. I’m confused about how the two fit together.
For those of you who believe in prayer or manifestation, has it ever worked for you? If so, what are the actual steps? How do you pray or manifest in a healthy way without becoming obsessed with one specific outcome or person?
I’m trying to become a better man, trust God’s timing, and improve myself. At the same time, I hope that if it’s meant to be, maybe my ex and I will find our way back to each other someday.
I’d really appreciate hearing your experiences or advice.

Im 25 year old male and she’s a 24 year old female Im going through a painful breakup with someone I deeply love. We recently had an emotional conversation where we both cried, held each other, kissed, and said “I love you,” but she told me she can’t be with me right now. She said she’s struggling to get past things that happened recently and some hurt from years ago, and because of that, she doesn’t believe we’re meant to be together at the moment.
She asked for space and told me to let her go for now. She doesn’t want contact at the moment, and I want to respect that. Despite everything, we prayed for each other, and I prayed that if it’s God’s will, our paths would cross again someday. She even agreed to the idea of meeting for clarity and moving forward, as long as I didn’t use it to pressure her into staying.
I’m grieving hard and dealing with a lot of fear that she’s gone forever. I miss everything about her and the life we shared. More than anything, I regret the times I hurt her and wish I could change the past. I don’t want to manipulate or force anything—I just want to become a better man, heal, and show through consistent actions over time that I can learn from my mistakes.
Right now, I’m trying to figure out how to handle the grief, how to grow from this, and whether there is still hope for reconciliation in the future. I’m not looking for ways to pressure her or ignore her boundaries. I’m looking for advice from people who have been through something similar: How did you heal? How did you work on yourself? And has anyone experienced a relationship that ended, but later found its way back together after both people had time to grow?