u/Potential_Promise260

How do I make a man feel deeply seen?

Since I have recently started dating my bf, I don't hold back from letting him know that I remember things he told me months ago even before we started dating, I am watching his favorite show because I genuinely wanted to understand why he loved it,

I occasionally ask about his family and love to hear the stories he has to tell

I feel like these aren't enough and I want to do better because he deserves a great partner

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u/Potential_Promise260 — 6 days ago

Around seven months ago I met a guy who was part of the same social group I was part of, he was pleasant to talk to eventually i grew interested in him, I could feel it was mutual we subtly flirted with each other he was pretty attentive and warm, I never felt so comfortable around someone even the silence was comfortable,

Due certain circumstances, we didn't see each other for four months and our dynamic completely shifted he doesn't seem as familiar as he was, so I pulled back emotionally to protect myself from disappointment, and now I'm wondering whether I imagined everything and that he was never interested to begin with,

And other times there is some hope that he is pretending to be detached for the same reason but I'm probably just lying to myself

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u/Potential_Promise260 — 24 days ago
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I always believed I did almost everything right yet failed each time in building a friendship, I showed interest, I asked questions, I initiated texts and conversations,

But I believe I never really moved anything forward, there is a certain guy I want to befriend and I need tips

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u/Potential_Promise260 — 24 days ago