u/Pretend-Beyond-4709

Hi so f26 here I have lost around 80lbs using a glp1. With that being said I’m starting to relax a little more on my dieting since I am at a healthy weight. I am on maintenance but also i wouldnt mind losing another 5lbs. Regardless i allow myself to eat fast food sometimes in moderation. Maybe a few times a month i will swing through and grab something quick and everytime i feel sick and end up puking later that night. Im not overeating fast food. Maybe a small burger and a medium fry and that will do me in. It’s starting to make me feel like i will never be able to enjoy food i once did. I eat healthy most of the time it’s just sometimes i want a little something fun.

Will I have to eat healthy forever if i stay on maintenance? Does anyone else have this problem? Any tips?

My best friend is a collector of all things spooky. I live with her and we rent a small home. We each have our own rooms and she has a collector room with all of her spooky stuff. I know this is her hobby so I didn’t think anything of it. She has been collecting for awhile now and I never had any problems with it in the past. She struggles mentally and has for a long time but has recently within the past couple months has been trying to connect with the other side. As I said I don’t necessarily believe in all that. But the other day I went into her room and I instantly had a feeling I have never had before and I have went into her room multiple times. My stomach dropped and my ears felt almost plugged when I stepped in it. She had been mentioning seeing things in the past couple months at night but I assumed that was her struggling mentally as I have previously stated. She doesn’t know why she is struggling so much more mentally lately. Does this sound spiritual?

Does this sound like perhaps something she collected had a spirit attached to it making her struggle so much more and bringing bad energy? Does this sound familiar to anyone this feeling I was having?

I discussed with her perhaps we need to like idk how to put it spiritually clear the room if that’s how it works?

As I said I am not into this sorta thing so it’s hard to explain my feelings I was having. I know it sounds ridiculous. Would there be a way to cleanse this room and if so how would I go about that? I know I said I’m not sure if it’s something she bought recently or anything.

Any advice would help! Please if anyone knows anything about this stuff let me know I’m not crazy and go we can address this issue!

Look I love the juicy couture uk bags but their customer service is the worst. First of all they have no phone number. Second off they will send out the wrong bags and hope you keep them so they can keep your money which has happened on two occasions for me. This time I ordered two of the Lepord bags one for my mom and one for me and they delivered them to the wrong address. Instead of reaching out the refunded one bag and offered to resend the other after I contacted them via email. I told them I wanted both reshipped if possible. They stated “no because you placed two different orders and you only get one” I told them that I had already ordered them and that they delivered it to wrong address. They refused to reship the other and that they had to refund it even though it had already been shipped out. Has anyone else had similar issues with the uk juicy? Is this normal?

Hi so I’m going to be a little vulnerable here. So I have had bpd for as long as I can remember but was diagnosed at 19 or 18. I am now in my late 20s and I constantly think back on my life almost every night about how embarrassed I am of me being so emotionally unstable in my past. I was emotionally unstable pretty much my entire life to the extreme. I think about it everyday. I have been better this past year but I dwell alot on my life. I know other people saw how emotionally unstable I was and I know people think I am crazy when in reality I was just going through it. I know that’s no excuse for my behavior and I continue to work on it to this day. I am so embarrassed by it I don’t want to meet new people. I dont want to take the chance of me making a mistake even by slightly overreacting. As I said I have been much better over the past year and haven’t had a breakdown in awhile mostly because I barely leave my house, meet new people or even talk to anyone at all. I find it safer to keep to myself and keep stress to a minimum to prevent myself from making another mistake and embarrassing myself so I kinda isolate. People tell me I need to move but idk. I hate that some people just know me as “some crazy girl”. I try to forgive myself but I can’t seem to.

Has anyone else had this problem? And how did you deal with it?

Delete if not allowed here but hey so F26 here. For background I have been collecting bags since I was 18. I don’t have anything high end or luxury for the record. Just coach, Micheal kors some Kate spade recently got into juicy bags as well lol. I have a whole separate closet full of bags honestly. All my bags are authentic.

So I have been on the look out for the coach Halloween bags dropped a year or two ago and everyone is price gouging like crazy. Charging double even triple the original bag price. I saw the rowen on eBay for over 1,000$. I also know of other people who have bought the same bag I’m looking for on eBay or Mercari under the impression it was real only to find out it was a fake while they paid the more than the original price. I have even seen multiple people on fb market place near me trying to pawn off fakes as real as I have almost fallen for it as well as other girls looking at the same bag as me.

I’m at a loss. I typically would never own a fake bag or one that is like a birkin or anything (no hate to anyone who does yall are braver than me). But the thing is I don’t want to pay 2-4x the price for last years collection and I don’t want to buy a bag for the regular price and have it come in and be fake but I’m kinda on the fence. I also found a seller that has the bag I have been searching for while browsing the yellow app lol. Would it be obvious? Is it weird to wear a fake bag? What are your guys opinion on my situation here?

Hi so F28 here! So over a year ago I was 210lbs at 5’1. A lot caused me to get to that weight such as medication I’m on and overall just not being in a good place in my life no excuses though. Unfortunately I cannot be taken off the medication that caused this drastic weight gain. Anyway I am now down to 130lbs which is great. But with that being said I am still on the higher end of the bmi chart I am just under being overweight. I have been taking compound online but my insurance started covering wegovy so I went in to discuss that with my doctor. My doctor asked the general questions how I’m feeling and all that good stuff. I stated that since my bmi was so high before I got on a GLP1 I do qualify for maintenance. But also stated that I would like to lose another 10lbs to put me at a healthier bmi and she acted unsure. I didn’t understand it honestly she stated that I was at a healthy bmi and she was uneasy about me wanting to lose another 10lbs. My bmi now is 24.6 and 24.9 is considered overweight and by no means am I overly skinny lol. My mom is also on at glp1 and is a little over 5lbs less than me at the same height and her doctor has no problem prescribing her still. I see women that are skinnier than me and are on maintenance hence why I am confused at this reaction.

Wouldn’t it be better for me to be at a lower bmi to be in a healthier range? Is this just the doctor? Does this sound weird to anyone else or has anyone else had this happen or any advice?

So I moved in with my bf over a year ago now. I have a young puppy and he has two kitties. All of them are about 2 years old. My puppy is well behaved, potty trained, affectionate, and not destructive. His cats on the other hand are a different story.

First point his cats are destructive. When I moved in the carpets under the door were destroyed all the way down to the wood and he’s renting. I fixed them about 3 times they destroyed them again so I decided to nail plastic mats to the floor so they have no access to the carpet. My hobby room which they aren’t allowed in has the mats and door blockers. They went through 2 sets of door blockers and destroyed them trying to get in the room even though there is nothing in there. We have tried claw caps yet the will actually rip their own nails off trying to get them off we have tried the cat anti scratch spray they don’t care. They scratch my basically brand new couch for no reason and went behind the couch to rip out the backing the climb in the couch. Since I have moved in I got them scratching posts, shelves for the wall, cat trees and toys they don’t care. They will climb up curtains and claw at those as well.

As I stated before I have a young puppy. The cats typically don’t mind my puppy and play with her and will occasionally snuggle up with her. When I first moved in my puppy was actually afraid of them. One of the cats pees on her things. No there is nothing wrong with her. She uses her litter box most of the time but out of spite pees on her things. We threw away my puppies Christmas bones and toys due to her pissing on them and now she has been pissing on her bed and blankets which I’m pretty sure we will have to throw away. Yes I paid and took her to get spayed after I caught her spraying around the house and on our KITCHEN COUNTER. She doesn’t spray anymore but just pisses on her stuff also pissed on a blanket that was gifted to me as well and ruined it. It hurts my feelings that my dogs stuff just gets ruined for no reason at all and It’s disgusting.

One of the cats insists on eating my puppies food and throwing up around the house. They always have food but want to eat my puppies food and throw up.

I love this guy to death we get along great and actually rarely argue at all but he gets upset when I say I don’t like his cats. I grew up in a very clean home that always smelled good and had a few nice things. I don’t know if I wanna spend my life having no nice things, cleaning cat piss and not having things for my dog. I don’t mistreat his cats in anyway and occasionally give them love. But I feel it’s very unfair to my puppy to have her things peed on for no reason besides them being spiteful. I am just at a loss of what to do.

Hi so I started using tretinoin months ago at this point. I use it every other day and have had minimal peeling. With that being said I had to relearn how I do my makeup entirely. For whatever reason my foundation (NYX can’t stop won’t stop foundation) WILL NOT lay right. I tried many moisturizers, primers, exfoliating, skipping tret the night before and it just ends up pilling off almost like it just doesn’t wanna stick to my skin at all. Today I literally just used concealer (elf camo concealer) as foundation because I just got tired of it which came out perfectly for some reason lol. Stayed on my skin not patchy at all honestly looked good. But with that being said I need a foundation to lay that way. I don’t know if it’s the primer (power grip) or something in the foundation I use but I am honestly at a loss of what to do. Has anyone had this issue? Is there a certain affordable foundation that will lay right? Any advice would be great

Hi so earlier today I got my epilator. I’m a girly with THICK hair for the record. I did my legs and I was shocked with how painful it was honestly and I would say I have a higher pain tolerance. Regardless I’m curious does this cause the hair to become thinner? I read up that some people had it grow back thicker due to blood flow or something of that nature. I was just curious what your guys experience is. Also is there a way to make this less painful and with consistency does it really get less painful? I did end up with some irritation or kinda a rash which did subside after letting it rest and taking a shower. Anyway what’s your guys experience and tricks?