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29F here. I recently got off birth control but my husband and I are not ready to have kids yet, so we are using condoms

We didn’t use them for years since I had an IUD, and my husband would always say how much condoms sucked, and I agreed.

We did get extra thin ones, but I am surprised at how much I don’t notice the condom.

So that got me thinking. What are other men’s perspectives? Obviously raw sex will always feel better, but what is condom sex really actually like for you?

New to Veld this year and had an amazing time, except I couldn’t believe how chaotic the washrooms by the main stage got! People taking super long, and by the end of the night there was bathroom snipers!

Is this normal and I just don’t realize cuz I’m a newbie?

If security takes something from you, can you get it back from them at the end of the day or when you leave? Or is it just theirs now?

First time festival experience will be this Sunday at veld. Just got pretty heavily into EDM in the last year and im super pumped!

I have pretty bad OCD (although it’s managed and I have tools), but I tend to get somewhat overwhelmed in new environments and experiences (at least initially).

Now for the question. I smoke enough weed to kill a horse (have daily for a decade), and I love me some ❄️ (used as responsibly as one can). I haven’t partaken in multi day binges but I’ve definitely done all nighters with my best friend. I’m leaning towards blow for the festival since I know I like it and know how I respond, and also generally know what to do if things get too intense for me.

But we all know rolling is where it’s at, and although I HAVE had a bit before, it wasn’t strong enough to have effects and also was on one of our party nights, so I have never actually fully rolled before. I’m going with my husband who is also new to festivals but our friends are veterans and will be taking us under their wing. But it seems like everyone’s planning to roll except for me so far

So… should I just do blow or should I do some molly?

Long story short: I have OCD, have since I was a little girl, but only got diagnosed last year at 28.

For as long as I can remember sleep has been terrifying. Nothing ever happened, just being alone with my brain was torturous. My mom did her best but ultimately just ended up making the OCD worse over time by comforting me.

I struggle with sleep SO MUCH. I do all the things you are supposed to do. I work a physical job, I strength train 3-4 times a week, spend time outdoors, eat a balanced diet, and try my best to keep good sleep hygiene. I have also been to a psychologist for insomnia. I can always improve my wind down but can’t we all??

My solution of choice has been smoking so much weed it could tranquilize a horse, which yes is bad for sleep, and also is no longer working for me all that well.

I’m just lost. It seems like sleep is a relatively simple body function for most people and i have struggled with it for so long.

Any advice anyone can offer is greatly appreciated!! ❤️

I feel like there must be a better way than what I’ve been doing for years; I have it all in one drawer and I separate it out with dividers. However, everything inevitably ends up all mixed together and it’s SO chaotic. One of those small things that drives me absolutely insane. I feel like I don’t need separate spaces for all 3, but maybe I do???

Wondering how many hits other people take to get stoned. I find I need at least 3 bowls at a time, but I smoke continuously throughout the day

Going through a situation right now and my head is so fucked up from it all. I love her dearly but I just can’t do this dynamic anymore 😔

Where does everybody buy their outfits that isn’t crazy expensive?