u/Previous_Judgment384

So theres this guy who I really like but I’m not sure if he feels the same way. We met up last week, and we’re just talking about life and what not, my friends came later (hungout with me and him) and they told me after the hangout that he kept trying to hold my hand, following me around, seemed quieter when they were there and only really spoke to me.

Basically we’ve been messaging alot since last week, and even planned to meet up again just us but I’m still unsure if he likes me as a friend or more? Am I being delulu or does this guy actually like me?

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I’m 17 AFAB and I was wondering if I can consider myself non binary if I dress more feminine as someone who wears alternative/emo fashion, I want to try get more into a more androgynous style but unsure how too!

I accidentally deleted my other post so rewriting it again… 🫩

I’m AFAB (17 yrs old) and yesterday came out to my mum as bisexual and non binary, though I think she took me being bisexual better than telling her I’m non binary. Although she did say I shouldn’t feel pressured to label myself which I do get because I might change my mind about my sexuality.

I also expressed the thought of not liking my chest because I feel “uncomfortable” (I wanted to mention the possibility of a binder but I wasn’t true how she’d react) she kept talking about how I have a perfect body and why I don’t want to look nice.
I have also expressed wanting to get a different haircut (currently have a wolfcut with a fringe but I want to experiment with an emo/scene haircut) to my mum and she said she doesn’t want me to cut my beautiful hair,my dad has also made comments about this aswell, but I will definitely never feel comfortable coming out to him.

I’ve decided to trial a different name with afew close friends at school and going by they/them pronouns and I feel x10 more comfortable and happier responding to that name than my other name which my family and school go by. I feel like I can’t truly be myself around my family (especially my mum, dad and brother,except my twin sister) as I’m scared they’re going to reject me.

edit 1: I did talk to my mum again about being non binary, bisexuality, getting a binder, I think it’s confusing to her because I dress feminine a-lot of the time, wear a bra but when I suggested getting a new haircut and a new style, she didn’t mind so I was overthinking of what she would say about it. She said she loves me but just doesn’t know how to help me.

So today I came out to two of friends at school. It didn’t go how I expected, just felt like I shouldn’t of said anything? Basically I came out as bisexual, non binary and asexual (not sure where on the spectrum) and I’ve known this for awhile but just didn’t know how to tell my friends?

When I finally did tell them today because I kept saying I wanted to tell them something important and I didn’t want to keep putting this off, after I told them about me, one of my friends came out again, (they have come out recently) and I felt like it ruined my moment as it’s been really hard accepting who I am but also its nice that they trust telling me and my other friend.

Idk am I being dramatic, also if you need more context because I feel like I haven’t explained this properly.