u/Pri_sri

I am at the lowest point in my life , nothing I do seems to have any effect on my reality. So , I am desperate and ready to try any techniques , it doesn't matter if it gives short term or long term results , please if any thing has worked for you in terms of manifestation kindly share it .

I am at the lowest point in my life , nothing I do seems to have any effect on my reality. So , I am desperate and ready to try any techniques , it doesn't matter if it gives short term or long term results , please if any thing has worked for you in terms of manifestation kindly share it .

I am at the lowest point in my life , nothing I do seems to have any effect on my reality. So , I am desperate and ready to try any techniques , it doesn't matter if it gives short term or long term results , please if any thing has worked for you in terms of manifestation kindly share it .

I am at the lowest point in my life , nothing I do seems to have any effect on my reality. So , I am desperate and ready to try any techniques , it doesn't matter if it gives short term or long term results , please if any thing has worked for you in terms of manifestation kindly share it .

In January of 2025 I injured my knee and under went surgery followed by 1 month of complete bed rest and then pain and discomfort in walking. As a result , I couldn't study effectively for my 10th Boards , I tried my best , I really did , but I only scored 78 percent . From then onwards I have been living a nightmarish life. Before the results announced my parents had already inrolled me in the Allen coaching of my city for the preparation of JEE . I remember very vividly ever since my childhood my parents never gave importance to the idea of me not pursuing a science stream. I always used to score excellent grades in English and humanities related subjects but my dad would dismiss it with a nod and his very next question would be about how much had I scored in maths and science. I have hated both of these subjects ever since middle school, but he never paid any heed to it . My brother had pursued engineering and my parents had hoped that I would to . We never had a sit down conversation about this topic and even if we did I was given only two options NEET or JEE .I would never in my life would be able to forget the day of the Boards result , my dad scolded,shouted,insulted me in all ways possible . He called me a disgrace , said that he provided me with everything possible but I couldn't even get a decent percentage in boards . I cried so hard that day that I couldn't even breath properly and on top of that I already have asthama. I kept scratching that back of my hand until I drew out some blood , while he kept going on . My brother tried to defend me but it did not work out. I begged to him for hours on that day to let me pursue humanities but he straight up told me that I was a failure and would not be able to do anything if I pursue that stream , he declared that he would stop talking to me if I changed my stream and even went as far as saying that he would not be able to pay a good amount of dowry if I would have to get married in case I couldn't create a career for myself. I am extremely close to my mom and I kept on hoping that she would defend me knowing the fact that I used to pull all nighters during that exam season sitting right beside her , but she just sat frozen and let me face my father's temper all alone . All my life me and brother have been deadly scared of my father , he is very short tempered and could lash out on anyone at any time. He might be a decent human and a husband but I would never wish on my worst enemy to have a father like him . I love him , but I also despise him greatly. I fell into depression during that time and have been the same ever since then . I have not till date opened a single book of mine and studied a single chapter, I just practically can't bring myself to do that. My anxiety has worsened and I now even get panic attacks occasionally. My only escape was food , so I ate and ate I felt like a human while I used to eat , I over ate everyday. For context I was fat from my childhood but at the same time exceptionally good at sports and activities that required physical toil. But after my surgery I couldn't move around much and till date my knee still hurts , plus with all the overeating I gained immense amount of weight in a year. I need you to understand my situation

I don't want to wake up on most days , I have very frequent thoughts of dying and escaping everything. If no one was around me I think I wouldn't even get out of my bed on most days . I still overeat it's like I never feel full and now I am obese . No self confidence whatsoever, my brain sometimes does thing before I have the time to realise what I am doing. For example a few weeks ago I was just going through some make up products and before I could even comprehend what was happening I wrote FAILURE on my cheeks with a red lipstick . Just last week I found myself with a face razor pressed down my biceps wanting to hurt myself so as to forget some of my mental pain, but I stopped myself just in time before any blood could come out . I pretend to be happy 24/7 cause that's what people think I am . But I can't take it anymore . I can cry any second , I have begged and begged god to take the pain away every single day but now I am exhausted. I have no will do do anything, I haven't understood a single word that has been taught in my coaching till date . I have lied to everyone around me so much that I don't even know what is the truth anymore. I don't have a single good friend . I get frequent panic attacks and anxiety, especially in coaching. Nothing excites me anymore . For some personal reasons I won't write here , I am not able to confide in my parents about my situation. I won't commit suicide because I don't want to punish others just because I am not able to go on with my life . But I can't take it anymore. I have my JEE in six months . I have given up on God . I need you to know that I tried and I am still trying every single day but I now feel numb. I am a good human being and I know that , I am very kind and helpful and always go out of my way to help everyone possible. I am a wonderful daughter , I am a completely independent person I don't project my anger out on anyone and I am always the first one to apologise to anyone even if it's not my fault. As I said before I won't commit suicide but now I am just like an alive corpse. I don't know what to do.

In January of 2025 I injured my knee and under went surgery followed by 1 month of complete bed rest and then pain and discomfort in walking. As a result , I couldn't study effectively for my 10th Boards , I tried my best , I really did , but I only scored 78 percent . From then onwards I have been living a nightmarish life. Before the results announced my parents had already inrolled me in the Allen coaching of my city for the preparation of JEE . I remember very vividly ever since my childhood my parents never gave importance to the idea of me not pursuing a science stream. I always used to score excellent grades in English and humanities related subjects but my dad would dismiss it with a nod and his very next question would be about how much had I scored in maths and science. I have hated both of these subjects ever since middle school, but he never paid any heed to it . My brother had pursued engineering and my parents had hoped that I would to . We never had a sit down conversation about this topic and even if we did I was given only two options NEET or JEE .I would never in my life would be able to forget the day of the Boards result , my dad scolded,shouted,insulted me in all ways possible . He called me a disgrace , said that he provided me with everything possible but I couldn't even get a decent percentage in boards . I cried so hard that day that I couldn't even breath properly and on top of that I already have asthama. I kept scratching that back of my hand until I drew out some blood , while he kept going on . My brother tried to defend me but it did not work out. I begged to him for hours on that day to let me pursue humanities but he straight up told me that I was a failure and would not be able to do anything if I pursue that stream , he declared that he would stop talking to me if I changed my stream and even went as far as saying that he would not be able to pay a good amount of dowry if I would have to get married in case I couldn't create a career for myself. I am extremely close to my mom and I kept on hoping that she would defend me knowing the fact that I used to pull all nighters during that exam season sitting right beside her , but she just sat frozen and let me face my father's temper all alone . All my life me and brother have been deadly scared of my father , he is very short tempered and could lash out on anyone at any time. He might be a decent human and a husband but I would never wish on my worst enemy to have a father like him . I love him , but I also despise him greatly. I fell into depression during that time and have been the same ever since then . I have not till date opened a single book of mine and studied a single chapter, I just practically can't bring myself to do that. My anxiety has worsened and I now even get panic attacks occasionally. My only escape was food , so I ate and ate I felt like a human while I used to eat , I over ate everyday. For context I was fat from my childhood but at the same time exceptionally good at sports and activities that required physical toil. But after my surgery I couldn't move around much and till date my knee still hurts , plus with all the overeating I gained immense amount of weight in a year. I need you to understand my situation

I don't want to wake up on most days , I have very frequent thoughts of dying and escaping everything. If no one was around me I think I wouldn't even get out of my bed on most days . I still overeat it's like I never feel full and now I am obese . No self confidence whatsoever, my brain sometimes does thing before I have the time to realise what I am doing. For example a few weeks ago I was just going through some make up products and before I could even comprehend what was happening I wrote FAILURE on my cheeks with a red lipstick . Just last week I found myself with a face razor pressed down my biceps wanting to hurt myself so as to forget some of my mental pain, but I stopped myself just in time before any blood could come out . I pretend to be happy 24/7 cause that's what people think I am . But I can't take it anymore . I can cry any second , I have begged and begged god to take the pain away every single day but now I am exhausted. I have no will do do anything, I haven't understood a single word that has been taught in my coaching till date . I have lied to everyone around me so much that I don't even know what is the truth anymore. I don't have a single good friend . I get frequent panic attacks and anxiety, especially in coaching. Nothing excites me anymore . For some personal reasons I won't write here , I am not able to confide in my parents about my situation. I won't commit suicide because I don't want to punish others just because I am not able to go on with my life . But I can't take it anymore. I have my JEE in six months . I have given up on God . I need you to know that I tried and I am still trying every single day but I now feel numb. I am a good human being and I know that , I am very kind and helpful and always go out of my way to help everyone possible. I am a wonderful daughter , I am a completely independent person I don't project my anger out on anyone and I am always the first one to apologise to anyone even if it's not my fault. As I said before I won't commit suicide but now I am just like an alive corpse. I don't know what to do.