42M looking for friends in the LGBTQIA+ community
Current obsessions: Gaming | Mental health | Japanese stationary | Bullet Journaling | 420 activities | Coloring | Finding local like-minded friends | Crystals I Spreadsheets & Lists | Hanging out with Discord friends | Cooking and Smoking foods.
Other Details
- Pan 🏳️🌈 | AuDHD
- Relationship: Married 13 Years | Female-led D/s
- Pets: 3 cats (1 elder, 2 kittens)
- Kids: Child-free
- Work: I.T.
Personality & humor: Sarcastic, witty, punny. What We Do in the Shadows, It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia, The Boys, Rick and Morty, Key & Peele, WKUK, South Park.
Activities I enjoy doing with friends: Body doubling, mental health discussions, gaming, hiking, coloring, tea parties, cooking, voice/video chat, 420 things, watching movies. Open to other activities.
Hobbies/Interests/Loves:
✍️ Japanese Stationary - Pens | Pencils | Bullet Journaling | Travelers Company | Accessories
🎮 Mostly Fortnite atm. I have a ton of other games in my library, though
🖥️ Computers and tech
🎤 Singing and dancing - In my apartment
🎶 Music - POP, EDM, Rock, Classical, Alt Pop, Lo-Fi, Jazz, Blues & Soul, Alternative, Songwriter, Rap & Hip Hop, Dreamy Alternative / Psychedelic Indie Pop
Fav Artists ATM: The Marias | Marina | LilyIsThatYou | Billie Eilish | Radiohead | Kendrick Lamar | Lola Young | Deftones | Korn | Garth Brooks | Randy Travis | Bitter:Sweet | Tiesto | Kaskade | Tegan and Sara | Chandler Leighton | The Weeknd | Lily Palmer | Maddix | Armin Van Buuren | GRLwood | PVRIS | Run The Jewels | Dounia | Sabrina Claudio | Tyler, The Creator | Portishead | Alexandra Savior
📚 Books & Audiobooks - Sci-Fi, Fantasy, Horror, Time travel, Space, Futuristic
Fav Fiction Books ATM: Red Rising Series | Expeditionary Force Series | Magic 2.0 Series (Off to be the Wizard) | Ready Player One | Jurassic Park | Spellmonger series | Bobiverse series | The Martian
💅 Manicures, Pedicures & Make-up
💚 Cannabis - Dabs, ball vape, joints, bong, glass pipe, vape carts, edibles.
💎 Crystals & Rocks - I mostly look for raw, but collect polished as I find them pretty, too. I have a small collection of UV reactive rocks.
🐈 Animals & Squirrel\Bird feeding
🥾 Hiking & Nature - I own a Sac county park pass for parking at various river access points and trails, but never use it.
🌌 Space Science, Physics, Particle Physics, Quantum Physics, Relativity. It all fascinates me (not an expert).
🍳 Cooking, Baking and Smoking on my BBQ
🍵 Tea | Loose le.af | Gongfu method
🍹 Mixology - Coffee, tea, alcohol and non alcoholic drinks. I’ve been told I make the best iced coffees
Favorite Foods, Drinks & Candy:
🍴Favorite Foods: Indian and Mexican. I love just about all cuisines, but these hold a special place in my heart.
☕Non-Alcoholic: Dutch Bros Rebels. loose leaf tea, Celsius energy drinks. Iced Coffees I make at home. Mtn Dew Baja Blast. Red Bull, Waterloo sparkling water.
🍹Alcoholic: Old Fashioned, Margaritas (Iced), AMF, Tree Smacker, Lemon Drop Martini, AUS, Whiskey Smash, Long Island Iced Teas
🍰Favorite Dessert/Candy: Smores anything, Twix, chocolate malt milk shakes, chocolate covered gummy bears, Swedish fish.