u/PrudentTicket9895

yeah thats the whole post😭 its js catchy asf

like i dont understand why someone would want to go by "cat/catself" or "rot/rotself" and it rly seems like the ppl that use them just want attention. could anyone help me understand what the point of them are??

idk like album flairs and then little editable ones or like funny statements idfk but itd be very fun trust

ok so for context im a gay boy but im def not openly gay and im closeted to my family BUT i am out to several close friends and was outed to a few random kids from my school but luckily none of them told anyone and spread shit abt me (i think at least😭). anyways basically i have this one friend and weve only been best friends for a couple months but like somehow we got rly close rly fast and we were basically inseparable. i told her i was gay from the beginning and she always supported me a ton like she was a total ally. that is until i brought up the fact that i was questioning being nonbinary (specifically demiboy) and for some reason she had a huge problem with that and texted me a whole essay about how God created man to be man and women to be women but told me shes still fine with me being gay so i was like ok wtv like fuck it we ball ima still question being nonbinary but i just wont talk to her about it as much. that night something terrifying happened. she read leviticus and all of a sudden shes sending me paragraphs and paragraphs about how i need to find God and how she no longer supports me being gay. this honestly made me rly sad bc wtf happened to her? like we were actually bsfs and we had a lot of fun joking abt ppl in our class and stuff but now shes preaching sermons to me abt how being gay is bad and how man is man and woman is woman and about how shes bettering herself and how shes become a changed person and it honestly rly hit me like i felt like i was losing a version of her i wasnt gonna get back like obv im happy that she wants to better herself for God and wtv but its still rly sad at the same for me idk why. does anyone have any tips of stuff to tell her so that she supports me being gay again cuz i miss joking with her abt finding me a bf this summer and i genuinely want her to support lgbt again.

im not sure if anyone else has had this experience in the christian church/community but i feel like these ppl are deliberately picking and choosing what they want to obey from the bible to push their own agenda. for example: a married couple divorces and no one even gives a fuck, meanwhile these ppl are homophobic as FUCK. as a gay boy thats questioning if i might be a demiboy myself my sda best friend told me she doesnt care if im gay bc ”u love who u love” but she cares if i wanna be nonbinary bc she “chooses to believe the bible over ppl” which js pissed me off so bad idk why😭😭 its like why tf r u picking and choosing so u have an excuse to be a transphobe/homophobe??? then she told me she “supports me but not my decisions” which is such bullshit but wtv i still love her cuz shes the best friend i can find at my stupid sda school

update: ok turns out she read leviticus last night and now she hates gay ppl too🥹🔫

the reason im asking is because im cis but def gnc bcuz i wear skirts and dress in all kinds of ways (masc, androgynous, fem). honestly im fine with any pronouns but i prefer they/them and he/him. im wondering if i can still identify as a cis gnc man or do i need to be demiboy to use he/they???