Didn't expect this part of being a dad
I've always been a grind type. Long days, whatever it takes, that's just how I'm wired.
But something changed when my daughter got here that I wasn't ready for. I'm actually working harder now than I ever have. The difference is I know exactly who I'm doing it for. There's a face attached to it now and that's a different kind of fuel.
Some mornings when it's hard to get up I just think about her looking back one day and understanding what her dad was building and why. That's enough.
Any other dads feel like having a kid just completely changed what actually motivates you?
Edit: When I say I work harder now I mean I work with more purpose. I strive for 40 hours or less so I can be home. Sorry for the confusion