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Should I file a police report?

Our neighbor and my husband got into a verbal dispute after our neighbor received our Amazon package and threw it into the middle of our yard. My husband asked why he did that and the neighbor escalated quickly by screaming, cussing and using hate slurs. (Brief backstory - apparently he had been holding a grudge for over a year after I called the police when him and his wife were doing loud construction at 1am-4am on a weeknight and that’s what he was screaming about). I called the police again during this altercation and an officer came out and basically just told him to go back inside. After we went inside, the neighbor proceeded to his backyard and began tearing down our SHARED backyard fence all while laughing maniacally and yelling “that cop didn’t give a single fuck!!!!”. I called that same officer back and said the neighbor was destroying the fence but the cop said it was a civil matter…. The neighbor left the broken panels laying in our yard for months until we eventually picked them up and then we built our own fence on our own side of the property line. We left whatever broken fence was still left standing exactly as it is and didn’t have it taken down. He will never pick up the broken fence and we have a pile of the panels on the side of our house where we stacked them up. I feel like he should face some sort of consequences for this and from what I’ve researched, it would be considered criminal destruction of property or something similar. My husband thinks it is a bad idea to file a criminal report because he doesn’t think it will do anything except possibly cause the neighbor to do something worse and then our safety would be compromised. I have video of the entire thing from the argument to him tearing down the fence. In another state this could have been filed as a hate crime due to what he was calling us but not in our state unfortunately.

Should I file a report or just leave it alone and clean up the panels ourselves??

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u/PureBad5555 — 9 days ago

Eye issue! Making a new post to include her lab results!

My older cat Izzy started to have an issue with her eye recently. The right eye looks foggy and the pupil doesn’t change shape with lighting changes like her left eye does, it just stays open. She has been to the vet and had lab work done, vet says labs are normal and prescribed steroids, antibiotics and an eye ointment. Her eye has not improved since she’s been on the meds, so he is referring her to an ophthalmologist. Hoping to get some insight from others! I’m worried she may lose her eye. She does not appear in any distress or pain whatsoever and is eating, voiding and behaving normally.

u/PureBad5555 — 2 months ago
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Has anyone’s cat ever had an eye issue like this?

A couple of months ago, I noticed my cat Izzy’s right pupil was not constricting and was staying open, in all levels of light. It looks slightly cloudy as well. I took her to the vet and he said it looks inflamed and noticed she also has a bad tooth, so she is currently on antibiotics and an eye ointment. Her eye hasn’t gotten any better so he is referring her to an ophthalmologist. All her lab work was normal!
Has anyone dealt with this and what was the outcome?? I’m afraid she will lose her eye 😩 I can’t tell if her vision is affected and she doesn’t appear in any distress or pain at all.

u/PureBad5555 — 2 months ago
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Civil attorney recommendations for neighbor issue?

Looking for a good (and affordable) civil attorney to help us with an issue with our horrible neighbor.

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u/PureBad5555 — 2 months ago

Mole on my collar bone area - has been there forever but the dots are new. What do you think?

Unfortunately I can’t get into my dermatologist until November so hoping someone can help me out! Any Dermatologists in here? My best friend had skin cancer so I’m always on the lookout for it on myself! I DID have a spray tan recently but it has mostly faded, I’m not sure if it could have caused these weird dots but the rest of my tan is faded so I don’t think so.

u/PureBad5555 — 3 months ago

Organizations that help fund reconstruction of the OTHER breast (only the cancerous breast is covered)

Hello! Are there any organizations that help cover the cost of a breast surgery for the non-cancerous breast so that they match after a single sided mastectomy and reconstruction?

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u/PureBad5555 — 3 months ago

Micro skin tags on neck and chest- suggestions on removal please!!

I have so many of these teeny tiny skin tags all over my neck and chest and I absolutely HATE them. They are too small to clip off and too small for the at-home freezing kit because it burns the surrounding skin. Are there any treatments I can look for at a med spa that will get rid of them? Or any skin products that work for these? Please help 🙏🏼

u/PureBad5555 — 3 months ago

What changes (if any) did you notice when you first started HRT?

I’m 43, just started some cream and DHEA supplements (got them from Winona - and I do realize I should probably get them from my doctor to save money so I’ll probably do that eventually) but I wondered what it’s going to make me feel like or if I’ll notice a difference. More energy? Libido returned? Better mood? Less hot flashes? I don’t know what to expect.

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u/PureBad5555 — 3 months ago

How do you successfully get rid of keratosis pilaris?

I’m using the KP scrub in the shower but I’m not overusing it, and I started using Amlactin as well (usually about every other day or every 2 days). But I see no real change after a couple of weeks. Any tips?? I’m going to the Bahamas in June and I’d like to reduce these bumps before then if I can!

u/PureBad5555 — 3 months ago

Please don’t judge me but I have a black thumb and always have! I am planning on spending some time outside tomorrow cleaning up my front garden and need some ideas for what to do with it and make it look nice. I planted those 3 bushes last year and the middle one died shortly after so I’m going to dig it up and want to put something else there. Also how much do I cut back the rose “bush” ? (If you wanna call it that lol)

u/PureBad5555 — 4 months ago