u/Puzzleheaded-Ad-9280

i cannot stop doing the combination of utah influencer accent and the pop psychology therapy speak

for example:

"it's rilly hard to dill with all of this toxicity on my hilling journey, like, it fills like no one wants to be rill about the ugly parts of mental health. one day the truth will be revilled but i guess ill just be the villain for now"

its like a game to get as many words in as possible to make The Momtok Quote Ever

My mother received a letter addressed to my deceased father (who she divorced prior to his death) about unclaimed assets from his (also deceased) sister. My father was named the administrator to all of her assets after her death, but never filed a claim to recover it. It's my understanding that she didn't have a will so no beneficiaries, just my father as an administrator.

Turns out my aunt had 22 investment accounts between two securities and brokerage firms which leads me to think that there may be a lot of potentially life changing money, especially because the firm had to have jumped through hoops to get it to me/my mom: the letter was sent out in February and got to us earlier this week; we've moved 7 times across 3 different states since we last lived at the initial address.

We called the company and because the assets are in a state that doesn't disclose the dollar amount of assets, we have to file a claim. I'll have to be the one to officially sign the request form to the state. The firm said they would send over the request to the City and once they get the dollar amount, we can decide to have them proceed with the recovery and they take 15%, but I'm like should I just do it myself?

Also turns out my grandfather has over $100,000 in unclaimed assets reported by a large american bank, held in two separate states, but the address associated is in a different country. essentially my dad's family was super abusive, super shady, mostly estranged, def committed fraud, and only my dad and aunt kept in touch. we're pretty sure the other living members (my paternal aunt and paternal uncle) self deported because of all the fraud lmao

so it would be nice to get some money out of this unfortunate family situation of mine, but im not sure if i should just go at it independently instead of paying a middle man

My mother received a letter addressed to my deceased father (who she divorced prior to his death) about unclaimed assets from his (also deceased) sister. My father was named the administrator to all of her assets after her death, but never filed a claim to recover it. It's my understanding that she didn't have a will so no beneficiaries, just an administrator.

Turns out my aunt had 22 investment accounts between two securities and brokerage firms which leads me to think that there may be a lot of potentially life changing money.

We called the company and because the assets are in a state that doesn't disclose the dollar amount of assets, we have to file a claim. I'll have to be the one to officially sign the request form to the state. The firm said they would send over the request to the City and once they get the dollar amount, we can decide to have them proceed with the recovery and they take 15%, but I'm like should I just do it myself?

Also turns out my grandfather has over $100,000 in unclaimed assets reported by a large american bank, held in two separate states, but the address associated is in a different country. essentially my dad's family was super abusive, super shady, mostly estranged, def committed fraud, and only my dad and aunt kept in touch.

so it would be nice to get some money out of it, but im not sure if i should just go at it myself instead of paying a middle man

if u live, come to brazil!!!!

i know that the sub is global which is very lovely. but on a sunny mid 60s day like today, i like to have in depth reflections (ruminations) on my behavior which includes honestly auditing where i surf online, and accepting that "mindless" scrolling does live in the mind after swiping. i find i am not as mindless here which is nice.

i love spring in new york because the city gets bouyant and bright and social without the sweltering heat of the summer. im in brooklyn on my second outdoor seating happy hour d ate of the evening (first one was in manhattan), waiting for my friend, and watching people pass by. i feel bad because im smoking while many pedestrians are about but thats the price of living with 9 million people. in those millions, statistically, some of you must be

if only i didn't spend the first eighteen years of my life hearing over and over again, every week, that i was born a sinner born a sinner born a sinner but can be washed in Blood and holy water. when i got baptized at age 11 the only thing i could think of was how fat my stomach looked under a soaked clinging oversized cotton t shirt under bright fluorescent lights. if i was born again i was born into something even worse than before, but at least my mother was smiling and everyone was smiling and i was pure and saved by Blood i did not believe in. Blood is also gross.

now it has been eight years and i need a god but Not God.

i feel a desire to be baptized, washed in blood and made pure, made free from this world and all its tyrants and darkness that i no longer possess the stamina to alchemize. i dont see god in me or in the trees around me or in the moon like im supposed to, like i used to when i was "healing," instead i wish I never knew about God in the first place, then there wouldn't be anything to free myself from. i feel like eve after she ate the apple, i dont think its fair that we on earth were all born into sin

sorry for schizo religious tra*ma posting (i dont like that word its become ugly to me)