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FRIENDS???

23 black (F) I’m a incoming transfer student this and I really want to make good friends even if it’s one friend but a good friend like my own personal friend that I share interests and explore with….I don’t even know where to begin it’s so hard because it’s like everyone already had their friend group or they just can’t keep up with new friendship , i don’t party, smoke , or drink. I’m a very girly girl Im outgoing person who always down for anything as long as it’s fun and safe, I love shopping or anything self care, I’m a good cook so you can come over to cook and have movie nights, self care girls night , trying new drink or foods, I wanna get into working out classes like yoga, Pilates, exploring the city of LA and close by places while I’m in LA, roadtrips , I love the beach, hiking, nature, and if you’re Muslim I enjoy going to Islamic classes, the mosques, get cute to just do random side quest enjoy life and activities. I also want to explore my future friends hobbies and interests as well .. like i said i just want really good fun friends more like sisterhood as well 🧘🏾‍♀️ feel free to dm me if you want to connect before school starts

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u/QuestionEffective719 — 2 days ago

Apartment swap to Dorm for UCLA

Does anyone want to swap their dorm for a an UA I’d like a double with private bathroom maybe somewhere in de neve plaza for a 2/6 Gayley heights UA … feel free to DM me

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u/QuestionEffective719 — 3 days ago
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Apartment swap to Dorm

Does anyone want to swap their dorm for a an UA I’d like a double with private bathroom maybe somewhere in de neve plaza for a 2/6 Gayley heights UA … feel free to DM me

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u/QuestionEffective719 — 4 days ago
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Mutual roommate swap for gayley heights 2/6

Hey guys is anyone in 2/6 gayley heights who would want to do a roommate swap for another 2/6 im a Muslim girlie but my randoms life preference and my roommates are completely different and living together will be super difficult because they want men over, smoking,drinking and kick backs and that’s not what we want so is anyone willing to swap. We don’t want to restrict their lifestyle preferences but it doesn’t align with ours .

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u/QuestionEffective719 — 6 days ago
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2/6 gayley heights roomate swap

Hey guys is anyone in 2/6 gayley heights who would want to do a roommate swap for another 2/6 im a Muslim girlie but my randoms life preference and my roommates are completely different and living together will be super difficult because they want men over, smoking,drinking and kick backs and that’s not what we want so is anyone willing to swap.

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u/QuestionEffective719 — 7 days ago
▲ 9 r/ucla

Financial Aid confusion

I’m looking at my financial aid but I’m so confused I don’t understand it at all , if anyone has any idea can you please help explain …..

  1. Based on my aid is this a full ride ??? if not will I be coming out of pocket to pay for anything or have to take out loans ? Just trying to figure things out before the quarter starts lol.
u/QuestionEffective719 — 7 days ago
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Parking

Hey guys so I want to bring my car with me to LA for the fall quarter i am a transfer student and I’ll be living in the Gayley heights university apartments, would parking be an issue.?? I really need help im coming from the Bay Area and was planning to drive there and also have my car incase i want to get a job outside or want to explore LA at times … any advice what should I do?

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u/QuestionEffective719 — 17 days ago
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Incoming sociology transfer student

Hi guys I’m an incoming transfer student to UCLA and my major is sociology, just wanted to make this Reddit for current and previous students who have majored in sociology to kinda seek some insight…What should i expect coming in and how hard are the classes, and social life as well… I’m pretty nervous with the transition from CC courses to university courses. I don’t want to fail myself….Any help and advice will be greatly appreciated.. also what professors are good and the ones to avoid.!!!

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u/QuestionEffective719 — 1 month ago

Sublease Temascal Oakland Apartment

You looking to sublease a studio in the Temescal area fully furnished...... it's really close to every thing, so many walkable shops, close to Downtown Oakland, San Francisco, Berkeley, emeryville, Hayward, San Leandro this place is a middle hot spot, if you're also Muslim 2 mins from the mosque... it's a great place for travel nurses, students, travel workers or just temporary looking to sublease

Available for year, 6 months , for students ( 2026-2027 school year)
Locations: Temescal Oakland
Rent is $1,550
Dates: August 1st- next year
On site laundry
Street parking

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u/QuestionEffective719 — 1 month ago

Sublease Temascal Oakland Apartment

You looking to sublease a studio in the Temescal area fully furnished...... it's really close to every thing, so many walkable shops, close to Downtown Oakland, San Francisco, Berkeley, emeryville, Hayward, San Leandro this place is a middle hot spot, if you're also Muslim 2 mins from the mosque... it's a great place for travel nurses, students, travel workers or just temporary looking to sublease

Available for year, 6 months , for students ( 2026-2027 school year)
Rent is $1,550
On site laundry
Street parking

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u/QuestionEffective719 — 1 month ago

UC Berkeley off campus housing

For any grad or undergrad student who are looking for off campus housing i have a studio apartment fully furnished located in the temascal Oakland area right by telegraph, it’s very quiet, so many shops, middle spot literally close to everything, 2 mins walk from the mosque, 10 mins ride from campus. If you’re interested dm me .! Also the rent is affordable .

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u/QuestionEffective719 — 1 month ago

Going through a divorce:

How do one get over a divorce, wallahi it’s so hard , some days I feel okay and some days I feel like a failure or like a loser and some days I feel angry, I love being a wife I truly enjoy it but it’s unfortunate that I married a man who didn’t value or respect marriage and allowed everyone in our marriage to the point I built resentment and couldn’t forgive him due to soo much disrespect and racism, this is my first time experiencing marriage and divorce as well it’s been a 3years marriage, I think what’s really hard for me is how the divorce ended and how he didn’t even navigate his own divorce, his mom navigated it for him … the pros about the divorce is getting super close with Allah , my faith and guidance has always been solid but through this divorce my relationship with Allah got extremely strong.. though this is painful i just want to get over it , I want to move on with life and find my spark again.. As of right now I don’t have any desire for marriage because of my experience with this marriage kilt that desire for me, someday I’ll remarry because I want children, I enjoy and love being a wife maybe in my mid 30s … but yippe that’s my vent getting through a divorce if feeels so difficult I keep asking Allah when will it be over I can’t take any.. but Allah doesn’t burden a souls with nothing it can’t bare… if feels so unbearable my heart , my mind , emotions, mental is so tireddd . Ya Allah aid me in my matters.

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u/QuestionEffective719 — 1 month ago

Sublease Temascal Oakland Apartment

You looking to sublease a studio in the Temescal area fully furnished...... it's really close to every thing, so many walkable shops, close to Downtown Oakland, San Francisco, Berkeley, emeryville, Hayward, San Leandro this place is a middle hot spot, if you're also Muslim 2 mins from the mosque... it's a great place for travel nurses, students, travel workers or just temporary looking to sublease

Available August-December
Rent is $1,550
On site laundry
Street parking
I'll pay the utilities

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u/QuestionEffective719 — 1 month ago
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Mother who is in love with her son

I made a post couple years ago how my mother inlaw was so terrible, wellll… the issue never got better it actually got worse and thank you goodness me and her son are no longer together because she’s overly weird , she literally raised him to be her husband she is in love with him overly , i remember we went to therapy and the therapist was like yea “oh yea you are a son husband lollll” she controls everything in his life , his car insurance, phone bill, work documents, guys that man can’t do anything for him self not even file his own taxes she traps him in a cycle of you’ll always need me. When she gets upset she’ll say oh get off my insurance, find someone to file your taxes, you’re not my son anymore weird behavior… she exposes him to everyone I’ve never met someone who talks so badly about their children until her , she has noooo respect for him . Over the couple of years I completely lost all respect for him, I had resentment because he allowed his mom to be ugly and overly involved in the marriage… this woman was so weird that she will tell me how to be intimate in the bedroom with her son, like huh, she’ll say oh wear this lingerie he like this , paint your toes white he like that, and would come in the room twerking in front of his son, and when we moved out she was so bitter cause she no longer has access to me she was always upset because she couldn’t control me, manipulated or gaslight me , she would say I was jealous of her she’s literally 50 years old I’m 23 can you imagine , she would call her son “my fine ass son” she’s constantly projecting and loves to blame me for her son’s behavior little did she know all behavior is solely on him 🤣 she was jealous I would give my mom money and be mad at that because her son wouldn’t help her and he would say she’s very irresponsible with spending, and I’m so glad to be out that family, what gets me is the fact that they walk around the community like they are good and holy people but deep down they are terrible, when we divorced he couldn’t even man up to handle the divorce his mom was the one doing the divorce you’d think I was married to her she was happy when we divorced because all she does was text him like leave , divorce her and I’m like whew… she has no man because she’s arrogant , she hoarders on to her son to make him do husband things for her, go on dates, spend 3 days out of the week with her basically doing coulple activities, I can go on on and on about how terrible this woman is but imma stop here I’ll make another post soon, below I’ll insert a photo of her son if that’s your friend stay away and if you love yourself do not marry her son she’s a very bitter woman and has no respect or loyalty for no one and treats her son like little ass boy

Edit: this is message she sent one time throwing a tantrum:

“”As long as I am alive you will need me at many points in your life.

I’m tired of people taking advantage of me especially my own son that I cared for, sacrificed for, and raised.

You’re my dna I built you with the good the bad the adversities the sacrifices and struggle. You might be your dad’s seed. But I carried you, I nurtured you in and outside of my body. Nobody should come between our bond and be able to speak on me and disrespect me the way she has.

You say that’s between yall… I’m not a child I’m not her peer, and I’m not her friend. let any man sit on the sidelines and watch his wife humiliate disrespect argue curse at their mom. Right or wrong it won’t happen. Because it’s not directly you it’s still you.

You’re putting me through the same things that other people have put me through.

I’m being by targeted all the time because of what? Being a mother, being an advisor, shedding light, financially being there because her mom wasn’t and never was. I was there for you both. They take care of their parents do you? But she don’t even want you to have a mom yet she taking care of hers.

Women can lie if they can’t have you. God forbid she lies on you because she can’t use you the way she wants to. who will be there? Me. Remember that. “”

If yall want to see more messages from her please lmk in the comments i will show it all, she gave me hell so now I’m gonna tell the whole world who she truly is behind that fake kindness, since she’s running her mouth about me still and people are coming back and telling me .

u/QuestionEffective719 — 2 months ago
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Sociology major questions?

Hi everyone, PLEASE ANSWER!!! Anything will help.!

I’m an incoming transfer student majoring in Sociology at UCLA and would love to hear about your experiences.

How difficult are the Sociology classes overall?

Are the professors generally good and supportive?

How much reading and writing should I expect each week?

Is it manageable to balance classes, work, and personal life?

Which Sociology professors would you recommend?

Are there any professors or classes I should avoid?

What was the biggest challenge for you as a transfer student?

Do you feel the Sociology program is enjoyable and interesting?

Is the major actually difficult, or is it mostly about staying organized and keeping up with assignments?

What advice would you give a new transfer student to succeed?

Anything you wish you had known before starting at UCLA Sociology?

Thanks in advance! I’m excited but also hella nervous, so any tips or honest experiences would be greatly appreciated.

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u/QuestionEffective719 — 2 months ago
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WESTWOOD CHATEAU APARTMENTS

Hey guys, I currently got offered an university apartment and it’s the Westwood chateau apartment
This is for a 1bedroom 3 person, but interior pics of any size room would be appreciated so I can get an idea what I’m working with…

  1. Any reviews from anyone who has had this living arrangements? What’s the pros and cons

  2. How far is it from campus class by walk or even bus

The reviews I’ve seen are very old from year’s and years ago .. a recent update of reviews will be really helpful before I accept this offer and regret it lol

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u/QuestionEffective719 — 2 months ago
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UCLA ROOMATE GROUP SEARCH

Hi I’m an incoming transfer fall2026 … i applied for housing but i don’t want a random roommate selection im a Muslim female and would like to roommate with clean , respectful and responsible girlies if you created a roommate group and need 1 person please send me a message I would love to join.!!!

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u/QuestionEffective719 — 2 months ago