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"Couple" activities

I'd like to book a "couple" activity to do with my two other partners as a romantic date, but I don't know how.

Like, I know there are "couple spa-pack" specifically where you can book for few romantic days at a spa with you s/o, but I've always wonder how to ask for it while explaining we are 3 people, not 2.

I'm new at this stuff and maybe (I hope so) I'm overthinking it. How were your experiences? Do people usually accommodate those kind of requests?

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u/Raspberrie30272 — 8 days ago

Dysphoria from period (TW)

Hi, I'm AFAB (probably non-binary or agender, but I'm still question it) and I luckly never dealt with a lot of dysphoria because genetics gave me a very androgynous body, so most of the time I'm fine with my very small chest and broad shoulder body.

At least, I though so.

I've always felt awful when dealing with periods. I don't have problem with generic blood but the thought and feeling of me bleeding in that specific way freaks me out so much. In the beginning it was somehow manageable. I prayed so much it ended quickly and just to be over with it but having it over and over again every month is killing me.

Every time I think about having a period I wanna cry so bad at the point where TW >! (I have suicidal thoughts)!< and to make it worse it's been few years since I'm dealing with bleeding even in between my periods (I saw a lot of doctors, I tried a lot of treatment but nothing worked, I'm still dealing with it). So it's not just 7 days per month, it's like ~15 days per month.

Now, the thing is... when I see post of girls on the internet talking how they all hate periods they always talk about cramps and how they are the worse, which I get it in a way but... they don't bother me as much as bleeding does. And I tried looking around and no girls ever talk about how she has this kind of feeling. It's like I wanna rip everything out.

I don't get if I'm just overdramatic and it's a common thing of dealing with periods or if what I'm experiencing is gender dysphoria... I probably don't even know how to recognize it.

Is this dysphoria? How do you guys feel about bleeding? How do you deal with it?

(Also, I looked up PMDD and now I don't know how I could tell the difference between PMDD and gender dysphoria)

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u/Raspberrie30272 — 4 months ago

Complete list of religions

Maybe it's a weird request but I wish to have (or write) a list with ALL the religions that exist.

Internet says there are 10,000+ religions in this world, but if I search online I find max ~40 religions cited and it pisses me off.

I looked at a lot of sites, but the lists are never long enough...

Can someone help me please?

EDIT: thank you so much for all the help! I want to clarify that the intent of this post was to attract as many people as I could that would help me. I'm fully aware is impossible to do such task, but maybe I'll create a list longer than the ones I found online (and work out the sections stuff you all talk about). You still gave me a lot of insights or resources, so thank you all!

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u/Raspberrie30272 — 4 months ago

Poly marriage

LGBT+ community has done a lot of works in those past decades (they're still working on it, but it surely is better than few years ago in a lot of countries).

Do you think it will be the same for us? Do you think we'll be ever able to have poly marriages with more than one partner? (I'm referring to marriages that aren't religious like the muslim ones and that gives everyone the possibility to be married to more than one person, not like only men with more than one woman kind of thing)

Idk, sometimes I just wonder if in this timeline I'll live long enough to see it, but I'm not smart enough or know that kind of history enough to draw a possible answer...

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u/Raspberrie30272 — 5 months ago

Okay so, I didn't find a community for eating disorder in general, but I think this one will be the more likely to know how to answer to me.
Maybe it's a stupid question, but I have people telling me I suffer from ED and other telling me it's not ED, so it confuses me.

I suffer from a severe anxiety disorder and my symptoms are all in the digestive-kind, especially it causes me nausea.
Now, the thing is, because of it, if I'm stressed or anxious I don't eat anymore (or like, very little) and I can go on for days without any real meal.
I think this is one of the main problem I can't get to a healty weight. Every time I try it, something stressfull happen and I stop eating cause I lose all my appetite.

Is this considered ED or some kind of anorexia? I'm confused cause it's not like I'm voluntarily trying to lose weight or not eat... I'm just... in a bad mood?

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u/Raspberrie30272 — 6 months ago