u/Reader6547

Jordan Jensen is a GREAT comedian & a GREAT story teller & very talented. Jordan is terrific.

AND...

I have a strong feeling that she walks along a precarious mental health edge.

I foresee her falling over the edge, mental health wise, during a live set.

Anyone else have this feeling, too?

EDIT: To clarify, I don't mean "mental health struggle" as a criticism of Jordan Jensen.

It is just like any health struggle,e.g. low heart rate, low blood sugar, etc. It is not the fault of the person.

It just "is."

I am requesting help. High energy all day is my goal. Maximum 8 hours of sleep / night is my goal. Clear focus of my mind, body, & heart is my goal.

Thank you in advance!

I have a close friend of over 5 years. This entire time, my friend has shared with me their struggle in their marriage.

There is no physical nor emotional abuse. There is no substance use. There is just 2 people who struggle daily to make a marriage work.

I recently downloaded The Pattern on my phone. I have been amazed at its accuracy!
I enjoy it!

I showed my friend 'The Pattern.'

For kicks, I entered the natal info for my friend and their spouse.

To my shock, the Romantic Bond of my friend to their spouse is SOUL MATES!

So my question is, WHAT IS THE RATING SYSTEM & HOW IS IT CALCULATED FOR ROMANTIC BONDS?

My friend is a good person & so is their spouse. Their marriage is NOT a Soul Mate connection.

Can any supplements and / or hormones be taken to improve vision and lessen myopia?

COMt has some causal impact on myopia. To be honest, I don't totally understand the science; so, I won't pretend to. I do desire clearer vision!

This person is not a romantic partner, they are a very close friend. A very inconsistent friend!

Often we text about how to relate with difficult members in each of our families. This person can be a patient listener. This person has given me valuable insight into my family dynamics with siblings, etc. Our conversations are MUCH deeper than the weather, the cost of gas, & politics, etc.

At the same time, this person can ghost & vanish for a week or 2, no explanation.

I am a patient listener to them, likewise. I do NOT ghost.

They will disappear from texting. Upon their return to texting, there is no accountability when I inquire about the reason that they vanished.

Of course, they can text me at their own pace! They do not owe me a prompt reply. However, I could not understand the way that they "jump-in & jump-out" of our friendship.

Then I recognized the pattern! This is Avoidant behavior.

If this person were a romantic partner, I would go no contact. However, we are not romantic partners.

I choose to keep the friendship.
Also, I want to set some boundaries for myself.

If my friend vanishes from texting for a week. I stop texting them.

They eventually text me, something like, "Hi! What's new in your world?"

I have already asked several very kind variations of the question "Where have YOU been?"

I do not receive a clear explanation.

I accept my friend as they are. They disappear! Then they reappear! That is their behavior.
I picture them as a skittish feral cat.

My Question: How long should I wait before I reply to their text, when they "reappear?"