u/Ready-Assumption-882

(24M) I have a problem that i am facing for some years now and it makes me sad.

I walk on the street, or i am riding the bus, or i am swimming on the beach, or i am sitting on a bar, or whatever i am doing and then i see a beautiful girl and i want to talk to her and have a romantic experience with her.

But sometimes she rejects me or she has a lot of people around her and i don't want to bother her.

And when that happens, i feel horrible because i feel like i lost a beautiful romantic experience with a person.

It feels like i am grieving the end of a relationship that never happened.

That happens for 3-4 years now.

I have memories of random girls i saw years ago and didn't talked to. And it makes me feel like a looser.

I want to experience sweet momments with random girls but i feel like i am the only person with this "desire", which makes me feel completely crazy.

All the people i see are so happy to be alive and are fine alone and they don't look for partners and love all the time.

While i can't spend 10 minutes in a bar without "felling in love" with random girls. I feel like no one on earth has this issue except me.

Am i the only one on earth with this problem?

Does anyone else has this except me?

How can i fix this problem?

(24M) I have a problem that i am facing for some years now and it makes me sad.

I walk on the street, or i am riding the bus, or i am swimming on the beach, or i am sitting on a bar, or whatever i am doing.

And then i see a beautiful girl and i want to talk to her and have a romantic, full of movie cliches type of experience with her.

But sometimes she rejects me. Or she has a lot of people around her and i don't want to bother her.

And when that happens, i feel super sad because i feel like i lost a beautiful romantic experience with a person. It feels like i am grieving the end of a relationship that never happened.

That happens every week for a long time.

I want to experience sweet momments with random girls i see and that makes me feel weird.

I feel like i am the only person on earth with this problem, which makes me feel completely crazy.

I can't spend 10 minutes in a bar without "felling in love" with random girls.

Does anyone else has this problem except me?

Can i even fix this problem?

(24M) I have a problem that i am facing for some years now and it makes me sad.

I walk on the street, or i am riding the bus, or i am swimming on the beach, or i am sitting on a bar, or whatever i am doing.

And then i see a beautiful girl and i want to talk to her and have a romantic, full of movie cliches type of experience with her.

But sometimes she rejects me. Or she has a lot of people around her and i don't want to bother her.

And when that happens, i feel super sad because i feel like i lost a beautiful romantic experience with a person.

It feels like i am grieving the end of a relationship that never happened.

That happens every week for a long time. I have memories of random girls i saw years ago and didn't talked to. And it makes me feel like a looser.

I want to experience sweet momments with random girls i see and that makes me feel weird.

I feel like i am the only person with this problem, which makes me feel completely crazy.

All the people i see are so happy to be alive and are fine alone and they don't look for partners and love all the time.

While i can't spend 10 minutes in a bar without "felling in love" with random girls. I feel like no one on earth has this issue except me and i feel horrible about it.

Am i the only person on earth with this problem?

Does anyone else has this except me?

Can i even fix this problem?

(sorry for my english i am not american)

flowers, kisses, back rubs, picnics, help in house chores, listen and not fix, exploring new places in town, unhealthy food suprises, tickling, early waking ups to go to the beach etc...

i do a lot of things that i saw online for my girlfriend.

but those are kind of old now because i've done them and i will keep doing them.

but is there something "weird" and new, that i can do for her that you could advice me?

like something that you will hardly find on a website or a youtube video?

something that i could have never think of?

Some examples:

1. Initiating a second World War
2. Perpetrating the Holocaust, a systematic genocide of Jews, Romani people, Soviet prisoners of war, disabled people and gay men
3. Aryan Supremacy

What did Hitler wanted the world to look like?

And why he believed thas world would be a better place?