u/Reasonable-Pack1067

I’ve always heard inferior Se described as impulsivity, bingeing, thrill-seeking, etc., but I don’t really relate to that. Mine seems much quieter and more sensory.

Some ways I notice it:
Spending an hour doing my makeup/hair/getting ready because I genuinely enjoy the process.
Smoking (very rare but it does happen)
Shopping/window shopping for beautiful things.
Fashion! Fashion! Fashion!
Perfume, scented lotions, body scrubs
Long hot showers that feel more like a ritual
Fixating on my appearance (and then spiralling)
Reformer Pilates, running
Walking barefoot
Listening to jazz and classical music
Buying and arranging flowers
Obsessing over textures, lighting, aesthetics, and atmosphere
Appreciating art, architecture, interiors, and landscapes
Hyperfocusing on tiny imperfections
Noticing how someone smells before anything else.

It’s less about chasing excitement and more about becoming immersed in physical sensations and beauty.

I’m curious, how does Se manifest for other INFJs? Does yours look similar, or is it completely different?

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its still a work in progress - i was just adding some shading when i asked myself whether it looks too muddy around the edges of the park. i'd appreciate if you could let me know, thanks! 😄

I’ve been looking into the reformer Pilates studio at UWA, especially since it’s only $20 per week, which seems really affordable. I was wondering if anyone here has tried it and what your experience was like?

I’m also curious whether the studio/classes continue during the uni holidays. I’m completely tied up with final exams and submissions this month, so I probably won’t be able to start until the first or second week of June.

Alternatively, if anyone knows any good and budget-friendly reformer Pilates studios around Perth, I’d really appreciate recommendations. ♥️

Thanks 💖