Fence fighting and using the bathroom inside

Hello all! First post here. My dog is a very anxious girl and has severe aggression when she is scared. Our neighbors moved in awhile ago and there dogs LIVE to fence fight. At first my dog would just run inside, but now she's actively doing it too. I am not able to least her in the yard as my husband let's her out most of the time on his way out to work and doesn't have time to leash her. She also has since started using our living room as a bathroom. Any advice on what I can do? We love her very much, her using the bathroom in the house, staying glued to the door when she's outside than fence fighting when our neighbor let's their (4) dogs out is just not manageable. And I absolutely will not be talking to the neighbors about the issue as they don't seem to care.

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u/Recreationalidiot — 1 day ago

How often does loss happen back to back?

Ive been reading a lot of these posts and my doctors have assured me that my train for TFMR is extremely unlikely to happen again (which is its own post on if i believe that) I see so many people who have multiple losses back to back. Is this just a high volume of people who have all gone through similar things and thats why it seems so common? Im now really concerned that I might have another loss. Any insight/advice or stories of hope?

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u/Recreationalidiot — 3 months ago

What do you call the "anniversary" of the day your baby passed

Im having a hard time with the word anniversary and so my therapist told me to find a new word. Im only a month out so it has to work for less than a year circumstance. Any ideas?

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u/Recreationalidiot — 3 months ago
▲ 0 r/Names

There are a couple variations of this name such as Wynella or Wynelle. Im aware it's technically the name of a mushroom but I don't really mind that. Kind of adds to the whimsy for me. My question is, is this like horrible and crazy? I'm cool with odd and unique. But I don't want someone to be made fun of. Any thoughts? How do you think it is pronounced? Win-ella or why-nella?

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u/Recreationalidiot — 3 months ago

I am 22 years old with a 1 year old daughter. And 2 weeks ago I had to TFMR. I want another baby and because of my situation kind of need to decide sooner rather then later. My problem is, what happened to my baby was so rare. Im talking everything that could have gone wrong did and had like a 1% chance of happening several times. I am worried that the universe is sending me a sign that I wouldnt be a good enough mother to 2 babies. My pregnancy with my first was so hard and obviously with my most recent was hard as well. Does anyone else feel like they aren't deserving of their "rainbow" baby? Any advice?

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u/Recreationalidiot — 4 months ago

Just what the title says. I'm just seeking some advice/ personal stories of how being pregnant after a loss or TFMR helped with your grief or made it so much worse. I had a second trimester TFMR and I wanted my baby SO BAD. Im still devastated. But I'm also having a hard time being around my young daughter because I feel like in a way I took her sister from her (even though she wouldn't have survived either way) im interested to hear from you guys. Thank you!

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u/Recreationalidiot — 4 months ago