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Happy Fourth of July to all the self loathing, America hating cry babies in this subreddit!! Have a great day!! 🇺🇸 🇺🇸 🇺🇸

Happy Fourth of July to all the self loathing, America hating cry babies in this subreddit!! Hope you have a great day 🇺🇸 🇺🇸 🇺🇸

Boomer is a good man. He has done more to help people than anyone in this subreddit. Yet now he is a bad guy because you don’t like his political leanings? Some of you genuinely need your heads checked. Honestly. Your political party isn’t a personality trait. Get help. Get real. Get lost.

Canada west 2 players or clans?

For the last few years I’ve had issues with yellow jackets and wasps in my yard. To the point that we couldn’t enjoy our yard. They were overtaking it. Last year prior to the weather warming up I went around and did my best to seal anywhere that looked like it could be a potential nesting ground. I think it helped last year as they were still fairly prevalent, but nowhere near as bad. This year so far (knock on wood) I haven’t really seen many. Just your typical bumble bees which is great. I’m wondering if anyone else has noticed a lesser amount in general this year? Wondering if I’ve really mitigated it or maybe I should still be expecting them to come within another month or so

She won’t admit it but it’s obvious. I’m treated like I’m an inconvenience and I’m just in the way of whatever her and her side of the family wants to do. I’m made to feel that my family is less important. Which bugs me especially because I want my son and his amazing cousins to have strong relationships.

I try so hard to make her happy. I’ve dedicated my entire life to trying to make her happy. I’ve given up almost everything. Haven’t done my main hobby in two years, pass on plans with friends who probably don’t even know what I look like anymore to stay home and work on things she’d like done and in the way she’d like them done just to make her happy. Regardless of how or what I think about it I’ll do it that way because all I’ve wanted was to make her happy. It’s not enough. I’m not enough. I don’t think I ever will be. We just got into a huge fight because I had other ideas for my first Father’s Day than what her and her family wanted to do. Silly me for thinking one day entitled Father’s Day what I want would be at the forefront of her mind. Especially with my negative experiences with my own father over the course of my life.

I just feel so alone. I feel like it’s all of them and then I’m just here for the ride. Like I was used for my good genetics or something and now I don’t matter anymore. Not that I probably ever did. All I ever wanted was to build a happy family. I just wanted to love my wife and hopefully have her love me back. Most importantly I just wanted to cultivate a positive, safe environment that I didn’t have as a kid to raise happy children of our own in. I’m stuck. Idk what to do. I try to calmly share my feelings and it immediately gets flipped on me, I get yelled at and somehow the situation gets twisted to where I am the bad guy. When I’m not even saying there is a bad guy just trying to express myself. Then I’ll get yelled at for not expressing my feelings. Idk man. I’m alone and I don’t matter, I’m an inconvenience. A roadblock. An outsider in my own home and supposed family. I don’t even feel like I have a family. I feel like they all have one and I’m just the token good looking stranger who tags along. I’ve never felt so alone and I’ve never felt so low. Idk what to do. I won’t divorce it’s not an option for me. I do love her and just wish things were different. I miss my two old best friends whom were the only two people I could ever fearlessly be myself around and talk to without fear of getting yelled at or too harshly judged but also telling me what I need to hear whether comfortable or not. Thanks for allowing me to vent. Hope you’re all doing okay.

Edit: she won’t go for couples therapy as in her head I’m the only problem

Edit edit: just want to say I’m genuinely overwhelmed by the amount of responses. I’m a grown ass man in my 30s and I’m sitting here in tears just because this feels like the first time in I can’t even tell you how long that I’m actually being heard. I thank you all, truly. From the bottom of my heart. Thank you for not only offering me advice, but thank you just for listening to me.

Some of yall are heathens and should be considered domestic terrorists quite frankly. Why ruin a perfectly fresh bagel? Toasting should be reserved for older bagels or frozen ones, never fresh. Unless it’s a crappy Dunkin bagel. I’m talking about real, good bagels. Have you no taste?