Looking for a roommate…

I live near Lakewood. 3 bed 2 bath apt. I’m looking for a female roommate to do things with outside, maybe even a little motivation to get out. Or maybe someone who’s just tired of paying full rent. I’d prefer to be able to help out someone who needs it, such as a struggling single mom or someone who’s having a hard time being alone.

I don’t typically get along with males when it comes to roommates or even being in the same room for long. I’m not much of a drinker nor a bar person.

Feel free to contact me if you’re interested.

Edit: to answer a few questions: I am a 34 yr old, white male (if that is part of your decision making), living alone right now. I have kids but don’t live with me nor do they live near me. I am not a clean freak but I am respectful. Can be outgoing but more of a homebody. Also, I am a massage therapist, no felonies, no restraining orders. I can be of help to a single mother by being trusted to watch the kid(s) while you work.

I would like to meet before just to make sure the person is the right fit for me. I do play games occasionally, as well.

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u/Reldas_Semaj — 7 hours ago

Looking for roommate

I live on the other side of 512 by Lakewood. 3 bed 2 bath apt. I’m looking for a female roommate to do things with outside, maybe even a little motivation to get out. Or maybe someone who’s just tired of paying full rent. I’d prefer to be able to help out someone who needs it, such as a struggling single mom or someone who’s having a hard time being alone.

I don’t typically get along with males when it comes to roommates or even being in the same room for long. I’m not much of a drinker nor a bar person.

Feel free to contact me if you’re interested.

Edit: to answer a few questions: I am a 34 yr old, white male (if that is part of your decision making), living alone right now. I have kids but don’t live with me nor do they live near me. I am not a clean freak but I am respectful. Can be outgoing but more of a homebody. Also, I am a massage therapist, no felonies, no restraining orders. I can be of help to a single mother by being trusted to watch the kid(s) while you work.

I would like to meet before just to make sure the person is the right fit for me. I do play games occasionally, as well.

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u/Reldas_Semaj — 7 hours ago
▲ 6 r/no

Do you care about what kind of job or “job” your partner does?

Edit for clarification: OF and other related things as well are included.

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u/Reldas_Semaj — 2 days ago

Does anyone…

else want marriage or an LTR or is it all just fun and games? I’ve been reading these posts on how people just get played or get what they want and leave. Dating is horrible nowadays as manipulation gets worse and stupidity strikes. Just seems like only thing women want these days is subs to their OF or a play thing.

I’m 34M, lots of unchangeable red flags for people, more of a homebody when I’m with someone. Currently tired of being home alone and would prefer someone to come home to. I am an LMT.

There’s a market for everything and everyone. “Get out and go to a bar”. $8 for a basic drink doesn’t seem appetizing and neither does meeting with someone in a bar. “Go get out and get a hobby.” People don’t join clubs or go to events to meet people especially something they don’t enjoy, that’s like staying in a relationship because you have a kid. I really only get along mostly with females, male friendships don’t last long and maybe that’s on me but I am more likely to do something when I’m not by myself.

Anyways, just a curious thought.

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u/Reldas_Semaj — 3 days ago
▲ 0 r/lonely

Last year

34m/WA - I had someone to spend July 4th with and quite frankly took her on a 16 hour date. Picked her up at 6am dropped her off at 10pm. My kids aren’t around right now. I’ve just been thinking about what I could this year. I’d like to do it again as I really enjoyed the time we were “together” for a few months.

This year is just a lonely year I guess.

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u/Reldas_Semaj — 7 days ago
▲ 2 r/lonely

In WA

Is it more lonely in WA (Washington) due to depression than other states or would you consider it a more local to the individual matter?

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u/Reldas_Semaj — 8 days ago

Long shot

Would someone be interested in a massage photo shoot? I run a mobile massage business and I want to go about it a little different with photos and videos!!! I bring the table on a hike, we set the stuff up in various places and just do a photo shoot!!!

u/Reldas_Semaj — 9 days ago

Tired of being home

I’m a 34M, live alone. Kids aren’t around and I’m bored as heck when I go home. Tired of meeting people on TikTok all over the place just to make plans and get disconnected. I’ve lived around the area, local areas, but I’m curious because I haven’t heard of any, are there any events or anything to meet single women? No speed dating.

Edit: It’s not just about getting out and about. I appreciate the comments and ideas but it’s more about singles connection. I’m not selfish, stubborn (? Maybe a little), but not selfish.

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u/Reldas_Semaj — 9 days ago

This intersection

Been bugging me. What’s up with them taking down and putting up a camera every other day?

u/Reldas_Semaj — 27 days ago
▲ 45 r/massage

Comfortability

I am an LMT. I have been seeing a lot more posts about how high up one should go on lower extremities and “gluteal” touching and just stuff that is borderline SA. I understand that a lot of you here are customers and some of you MTs.

As an LMT (US), I feel like this should go with just about every country but maybe not as country differentiates. Please understand that at least in the US, you as a client are in charge of everything that happens within your session. If you are getting a massage and you feel like the therapist went too high or did something you didn’t like or they massaged a part of you that you didn’t want done, speak up. If in the session you were touched inappropriately bring it up immediately to the manager and/or owner.

Don’t be afraid to speak up especially during what is supposed to be a professional massage session, they’ll understand and should adjust accordingly. If it continues to happen, they don’t care enough to make changes let alone be where they are.

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u/Reldas_Semaj — 1 month ago

I’m curious…Google says 750 hrs of education minimum and 250 hrs of hands on time. I got certified and licensed in WA at a time where education was 500-525 hours minimum (10 yrs ago). But my hands on hours definitely exceeds 250 hrs.

Am I still able for BCTMB?

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u/Reldas_Semaj — 2 months ago

I don’t know if this was posted about or if anyone’s heard.

Puyallup suffered a mass shut down of businesses (45) recently for prostitution. Fire marshal went through a business for a regular inspection and found that ONE location had a prostitution ring goin on behind a curtain. Some places had no permit/license for the locations.

While there were a couple of innocent businesses hit in this shut down, salons and massage places, I’m sure you can file for an appeal on it and if it comes back as denied, you can apply for another business license and get back up an going under another business name. Don’t give up!!!

This is all the information I have. Have a good day!

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u/Reldas_Semaj — 2 months ago