u/Resident_Thanks_9275

(I've already told my story with this person three times, but the reason is that it keeps getting worse over time.)

Now in high school, my friend introduced me to this person. I didn't like her that much at first; I thought she was boring. However, I started talking to her for longer periods and grew to like her more and more.

We started "dating," but she called me her boyfriend, but it was out of nowhere and he wasn't a real boyfriend, at least not to me, but she fed me, kissed me, and hugged me.

Her hugs were special, she was funny. One day someone asked if I was dating her, and I said no in front of her, so her treatment of me became colder.

Deep down I thought she was just toasting and at the same time manipulating my feelings.

I made a joke that was taken out of context in a text message conversation with a former friend, and it all ended because she started treating me even colder.

I joined her group of friends and they hated me, ignored me, insulted me; she just ignored me and one day whispered in my ear that I had no friends

I said I had it, but she replied, "Why do we chase after you?"

My perceptions about things changed, so I decided to make new friends and distance myself from her.

She's been alone lately because she'd had a falling out with her friends, so I talked to her again for a week. I think my passion was rekindled, and now I want her more than anything.

It's vacation time now, so I don't have any contact with her on any social media and I can't talk to her, but remembering this whole story makes me wonder if I'm right to like this person again.

I've told this story before, but it continues.

I am a 16-year-old boy in high school.

I met a girl through my friend and we became friends.

She flirted with me, hugged me, kissed me as if we were boyfriend and girlfriend.

But over time she stopped and discarded me out of nowhere. I had already started hanging out with her friends, but when the friend who introduced us had an argument, she distanced herself even more.

A message I made about her, which was an unfortunate joke, was leaked. She was hurt, but her friends started treating me like trash.

While we were "playing" a game that was more like bullying me, she said that I had no friends and that I only bullied her friends.

Over time I've made new friends, even though I'm still a bit lost I feel happy with them. A former friend of hers, who is now my friend, said that all those kisses and hugs were just loneliness and nothing more. Maybe it was obvious, but I still feel hurt.

I wanted to hate her but I can't; she was different, I loved that about her, and I still love it every time I'm forced to see her again, even though sadness and regret come along with it.

He said that when I was 12 years old.I'm 16 years old, I'm a boy, and my father's toxic masculinity is so revolting, and he's treated like he's right. My mother lives with me, but I go to his house sometimes and always.

I can't like anything that looks pink or shows weakness; he thinks I'll become gay for liking those things. Sometimes there are toxic comments, sometimes...

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He forbade me from listening to A Thousand Miles because he thinks it's gay.

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Every time I disagree with him, he says I'm being influenced by the internet or other people; he says gay people can't adopt children and are freaks.

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He attacks me as if it were a virtue; he wants me to always remain silent.

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My gay friend gave me a book and it says that my friend is in love with me, that he's influencing me, and that my friend is going to sleep with me. This is so strange.

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He said this kind of thing to my mom in an audio message and she doesn't do anything, she just laughs. My stepmother always tells me not to like this kind of thing in front of him, but I'm not obligated to stop liking it. Because he wants me to, I hate it so much, and the more I think about it, the more disgusting it becomes.

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I'm 16 years old, I'm in high school, I'm a good student, but something happened to me that changed everything forever. It was a girl, a girl I met with my friend. A month later we started talking more.

Things got worse from there; she started flirting with me and calling me her boyfriend And that among all my two friends, I was considered her favorite; she would kiss me on the cheek and hug me.

I accepted her; she gave me more affection than my mother, but she didn't flirt only with me; it was like she was a predator.

She just plays with people's feelings, even though I already knew I wasn't really her boyfriend and admitted it in front of her when a friend asked, then everything changed, her expression changed.

Her behavior changed, and it's like she forgot about me, even though we're friends, so I distanced myself from her in anger. But I still want to be friends with her, and I shouldn't have ignored her for a while, no matter how much she...Even though she did those things that hurt me, and I was going through a difficult time, I still want to be her friend, maybe I'll even like her more than just as a friend.