Perspective- Why do subs like BlatantMisogyny allow known predators like AdvocateDoogy and other dangerous people to hate on lonely men, I thought they’re about “women’s safety”

The guy was clearly accused of fondling a minor and the mods at r/blatantmisogyny have no issue with him slop posting and LARPing as a feminist. Femcels are quick to shout “check his hard drive” and, “you‘d date younger than x if you could”. Pfft

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u/RestQuirky5704 — 17 hours ago

Do a lot of students in STEM fields get harshly graded due to physical appearance?

This is somewhat related to the “blackpill” in how your looks affect the way you are treated by others, not just in dating. I graduated as a math major in 2017 and have only had contract roles (I had to lie to get some of those roles). I finished with a 2.4 GPA.

In junior or senior level math courses that many engineering and math students take past Calculus 1-3, such as Differential Equations, Linear Algebra, PDE, Intro to Advanced Math, etc. you’d have problems on exams that take up half a page. I would find myself get deducted 5 pts out of 10 for missing a step or not showing enough work in the process. Meanwhile, other students who made more egregious errors got 8/10 or 9/10 for the same problem. It was ridiculous, despite studying 6 hours a day for 2 weeks and sometimes resorting to all nighters, I got harshly penalized for minor mistakes or omissions while other students almost breezed through.

Yes, Mark Tomforde and Alex Mamonov, looking at you.

The only math courses where I got As were two statistics courses in the summer, both online. There, my face isn’t visible and I got treated like everyone else. I don’t think it was due to a lighter course load, since 6 credit hours in 2 months of summer is equal to 12-15 hours in a full semester.

It seems like getting jaw surgery gives you a bump of one letter grade, both academically and in dating. The younger GenZ people are blessed with having more Looksmaxxing content shown to them that wasn’t available to me back 7-10 years ago.

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u/RestQuirky5704 — 4 days ago

Do a lot of students in STEM fields get harshly graded due to physical appearance?

This is somewhat related to the “blackpill” in how your looks affect the way you are treated by others, not just in dating. I graduated as a math major in 2017 and have only had contract roles (I had to lie to get some of those roles). I finished with a 2.4 GPA.

In junior or senior level math courses that many engineering and math students take past Calculus 1-3, such as Differential Equations, Linear Algebra, PDE, Intro to Advanced Math, etc. you’d have problems on exams that take up half a page. I would find myself get deducted 5 pts out of 10 for missing a step or not showing enough work in the process. Meanwhile, other students who made more egregious errors got 8/10 or 9/10 for the same problem. It was ridiculous, despite studying 6 hours a day for 2 weeks and sometimes resorting to all nighters, I got harshly penalized for minor mistakes or omissions while other students almost breezed through.

The only math courses where I got As were two statistics courses in the summer, both online. There, my face isn’t visible and I got treated like everyone else. I don’t think it was due to a lighter course load, since 6 credit hours in 2 months of summer is equal to 12-15 hours in a full semester.

It seems like getting jaw surgery gives you a bump of one letter grade, both academically and in dating. The younger GenZ people are blessed with having more Looksmaxxing content shown to them that wasn’t available to me back 7-10 years ago.

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u/RestQuirky5704 — 4 days ago

What is your view of men dropping out of society due to lack of affection?

Think of millions of blue collars workers like truckers, HVAC, electricians, etc. who struggle the most in dating. Imagine if they all threw the hat down and decided to be NEET, living with parents and no longer contributing to society. That’s probably the biggest damage “incels” can do.

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u/RestQuirky5704 — 7 days ago

Does abundance mindset come from abundance reality?

We hear this advice that men have to be confident and believe there’s a woman out there for them. I think it’s a positive starting point. However, it’s delusional if they don’t have any success in the past. Imagine being 30 and not having any first date or kiss. Any time they talk to someone who is overly kind, they could develop attachment to that one person, potentially making them uncomfortable, whether she likes him romantically or not.

Yes, attractive guys get rejected. I’m pretty sure if you looked like Paul Walker, there would be some women who’d say “no” if you approached them. However, it’s hard to exist in public without being eyeballed or flirted with if you’re on THAT level of looks. That attention from women would make you so confident and relaxed that you wouldn’t care if you said stuff a bit weird or unhinged (not saying that’s a good thing) and you’d still have people who desire you romantically.

It’s like being a 3.8 GPA Yale grad with 3 internships (PwC, Goldman Sacks, etc.) AND family connections. Of course, some jobs would reject you, but YOU KNOW you’ll get an offer due to your impressive background so you come off as the chillest guy in the room, the one who knows they’re getting the job, even if they don’t in some interviews, because the background and positive feedback in the hiring process points to an eventually “yes”.

It would be delusional to think that someone has options when their history says otherwise. It’s like someone eating 3 BigMacs and smoking a pack daily thinking there’s nothing wrong with their health. Then the stroke came out of nowhere.

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u/RestQuirky5704 — 22 days ago

I’m scheduled for jaw surgery the end of next month which will fix a large part of my social and dating problems

I’ve pretty much made up my mind and am going to go under IV to change my life in the end. I’m a 32 year OLD MAN (lol) and never had a relationship or something past a first date. My confidence and self esteem is near zero due to trauma and PTSD from being bullied and having social anxiety, then church hurt on top of it.

People have been gaslighting me by saying my social skills are the problem even though I make eye contact, can get out of broken headlight tickets with a warning, tell a few good stories and pass job interviews. It doesn’t matter to people if you’re “sub-5” in looks.

Like the broken headlight part where I mentioned I got out of a ticket 3 times, then a girl said, “wow, why do you drive with a broken headlight?”. Sis, that’s not the point of the story, also change the wipers on your car. It’s like every positive aspect, people flip into a negative if you’re unattractive.

The whole procedure is $8700 and I’ll have a payment plan in place. I have my peace with God and He is with me in this new, better looking season.

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u/RestQuirky5704 — 2 months ago

What makes young adult ministries so toxic and unbiblical with their social dynamics?

Examples include favoritism where cliques are formed and they treat outsiders poorly if they don’t match the vibe, good looks, etc.

There’s also a common trend of dating exclusion where if you ask someone out and they reject you, the other people in their friend group will rule you out. Last time, I checked that’s nowhere in scripture. That’s a major reason why guys are hesitant with being assertive in asking women out.

Let’s not forget sports idolatry. If you aren’t ab extreme football fan, it’s a major sin and worse than an unbeliever. Joe Burrow, the draft, Touchdown! I can’t find the Apostle Paul cheering on the Cowboys and then cursing out opponents in between teaching Corinth.

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u/RestQuirky5704 — 2 months ago

Hey y’all I’ve been attending Houston’s First Baptist (Loop campus) for about 8 months and find the social or dating atmosphere to be tricky. I think most of us have heard that stereotype being conservative Christians (especially Baptists) are lower income or education.

That’s not the case at all here. A lot of people can be rude and some of the people in singles ministry form cliques almost like high school based on a level of looks or income. Gregg Matte (current pastor) spoke about giving and it’s almost like money/job status is a measure of serving as a “good Christian” like going on missions. Many of them live in the heights and drive Teslas and Porsches. I’ve gotten along with a few guys but have basically no luck in the romance dept. I’ve been Christian since teen.

Is this just a megachurch thing or does this also exist in smaller churches and/or different denominations?

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u/RestQuirky5704 — 2 months ago