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24M - Anyone wanna just chill and talk?

I'm just looking for some decent conversations. doesn't matter what the topic is. lmk : )

I'm a 24yo guy living in switzerland atm. love to play volleyball, watch anime and read manga. oh and hikes and walks are nice too ig haha. so yeah, lmk!

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u/SIMPLYSUNDAR — 15 days ago
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Anyone want to watch anime together at USI?

Hi everyone,

I'm a 24yo student at USI and was wondering if there are any anime fans around who would be interested in watching anime together on campus.

We have access to projectors and suitable rooms, so it could be a fun way to meet people, discover new series, and hang out. The idea would be to organize casual screenings every now and then, depending on interest.

No specific anime is planned yet, so we can decide together what to watch.

I'd especially love to meet people around my age (roughly late teens to early 30s), since that's the crowd I'm most likely to relate to, but anyone who's interested in anime is welcome to reach out.

If you're interested, leave a comment or send me a message. It would be great to see if there's enough interest to get something going!

Cheers!

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u/SIMPLYSUNDAR — 2 months ago
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Any "nerdy" events happening in or around lugano?

Ciao tutti. I'm looking to find events that I like where I could also meet people. By nerdy I mean like boardgames, anime, warhammer meetups or like lan video game nights (sorry I don't know any other word than nerdy for this).

I'm a student in usi but people in my course are not exactly known to be interactive. So I'm reaching out to see of there's anything out there. I watch anime, love board games, read warhammer and play dota 2.

While my italian is not so good, I think I can converse with people enough to not feel super awkward.

So yeah just looking for events/groups like this. Also feel free to dm me if you want to talk because it's been a while since I talked about these things irl and need a +1 for dota 2 😂

Ciao, buona sera!

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u/SIMPLYSUNDAR — 2 months ago

How to deal with envy?

I have this really good friend who's been nothing but nice to me. The problem for me is that he's conventionally attractive. We're both brown but girls (of all ethnicities) consider him exotic while I'm practically invisible. I'm not as tall as him nor as muscular. I am decently fit but certainly not him (my gym subscription ended and at the moment, i'm too broke to even get a gym subscription. I've been compensating with body weight workouts and running).

I know I would never be as popular as him with girls. The problem is the envy I'm feeling. Idk how to get rid of it and I'm scared that it might affect our friendship too.

To give you an example of how things are different between me and him, when we go out to do just about anything - from playing board games, clubbing or even just hiking, women come up to him and just talk with him. His instagram and whatsapp are just full of girls. I'm barely visible and most of them talk with me just out of politeness when I'm near him. But I also noticed that when he's not with me, a lot of girls just avoid me but the ones I end up talking to are much more engaged in the conversation. The problem is that he's a really good friend and we usually show up to places together.

I just need help in tackling with these emotions.

I have my pic in my profile if you need to see them.

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u/SIMPLYSUNDAR — 2 months ago
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Ciao tutti!

Just wanted to ask if anyone plays dota 2 here and wanna play irl. If enough people join, maybe we can host a friendly tournament or something. I've been living in lugano for more than 2 years but still couldn't find anyone who plays it irl.

I'm crusader 3 atm and still ranking up (ik it's not a lot but still lol). So yeah, if anyone wants to play together just let me know :)

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u/SIMPLYSUNDAR — 3 months ago

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Maybe this is the wrong sub to ask this but being a lurker for a while showed me how positive this space is so here I go haha

Basically I'm a 24yo bi guy. Mostly into women and feminine traits but also into men sometimes.

I've used usual dating apps and they never worked. I also asked a lot of girls in sports, clubs and in general if I thought we had a vibe (sometimes I also asked randomly but it was rare). But all the time I was politely rejected. I'm really thankful for the way the girls rejected me but after a while, idk why everyone rejects lol (well not everyone, I did get a situationship out of it for like 2 weeks I asked the girl while playing sports).

I've been using grindr for the past like a year or so but apparently not even guys my age are into me lol. It's getting to a point where I question whether I'm that bad looking or something and posted in the another sub. I didn't get any responses there but I feel here I can get genuine response.

Would just like to hear your opinion on how I look ig? My pics are in my profile (if I know you, please pretend you didn't see this haha)

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u/SIMPLYSUNDAR — 3 months ago