u/Sandy_2019

Someone said there are more ____ as compared to ____ in this sub reddit. I wanted to find out. I can't mention it because there will be unnecessary debate over it.

Also, what was the biggest reason that led you to support anti-natalism or being child free?

Economy, pregnancy, suffering in the world? I'd love to know. Thank you...

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Nobody becomes gay. Nobody choose to be gay. Nobody force someone to be gay.

I always was into men, as much as I can remember. I didn't know the word. It took me a lot of time to accept it. It took me a lot of time to stop trying to change myself helplessly and stop hating myself. It took lots of efforts in not ending my life.

See, I've lived my entire life pretending to be straight and killing my own self. You've no idea how hard it is to accept your true self when it goes against the social construct of reality. Little things from how to "appropriately open a gate" and how to laugh at the "jokes" with friends about your own existence. How to behave around those who you like and whom you're supposed to like. How to act in front of parents who expect grandchildren and joke about marriages. The social rules become a huge huge burden. It is everywhere. Everything becomes so clear, you can see the society from an outside detached perspective when you're not one of the players, but you still have to play.

Pretending, acting each and every single day of your life. I am from a little village in a very homophobic state. Nobody believes that we even exist. But yes, we do, silently. And we die, silently.

This pride is for me to be proud of myself for my resilience and existence. I did not kill myself even if everyone around me wished me dead, unknowingly. Even if I wished myself dead when I did not accept myself.

I am not a concept. People can't just "not believe" in my existence.

And those who don't know that lgbtq exists, that is because we never "speak up". We are always silent in our lives. Only social media and some privileged urban areas allow us to speak. And that is "Oppressing" the "Oppressors"? And we're the one forcing others to behave in a certain way?

What are your arguments? Please use logical structured sentences instead of baseless hateful comments, memes or brainrott.

You can ask me genuine questions if you have any.

Happy Pride!

Pronounce it like Mexican, we say:-

1. Bero koni - short and simple.
2. Ke bero - when even you wonder what the answer is but don't know.
3. Man to koni bero - Me? I don't know.
4. Man to bero kon - oh you're asking me? Huh I don't know ask him!
5. Koni bero - a bit rude and dismissive, use it when you're annoyed.

(This language, my mother tongue, is called Kallaaggi, it is a dialect of Haryanvi which is not an official language)

Yes, it is better than Uzbek, I know... It's very gay!

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Dislike and report, both misinformation and hate. 2 times.

This is such a disgrace.

I've started prepration for this subject - coqp11 (2027)

Please mention the sources and steps to prepare for it. I promise I'll do that.

Actually I've a tendency to get overwhelmed due to so much information available everywhere about how to do this.... I wish to follow only one path, a fixed one...

Truly appreciate that🙏