u/SassholeSupreme1

The police just showed up here & we weren’t even arguing. He said a couple of things this morning before giving me the silent treatment. Then they showed up & he’s aggressive with them. Now I’m scared. It’s super quiet & he’s seething. I didn’t call! I know he thinks that I did something.

Ugh, I just had someone on the Nextdoor app try to tell me about my experience as a JW. Dude was commenting to another JW (allegedly), who asked how long he’s been one. He replied that he’s not baptized, feels it in his heart, but doesn’t want to discuss it on the thread. I admit, this hit me wrong & I had to reply. I simply said yeah, it’s best you’re not baptized because then you don’t live in fear of losing your entire friends/family support system.

Yeah, I probably should’ve not said anything, but I felt like this was someone trying to live that double life.

I left it and didn’t comment further even when he replied on the thread, but dude DM’d me several times to tell me all about he knows everything & proceeds to tell me my experience. (Vivid imagination, I guess).

I simply told him that I’m not here to try to change his mind, just stating a fact. Then told him if he would like the name of one convicted CSA I could provide it if it since he was looking at the local KHs.

Was the comment too far after he came at me multiple times in DM?

Today’s podcast had me absolutely rolling, but not for the obvious reasons. As someone who grew up a JW, the door to door service always filled me with dread. I would’ve loved to see Ronnie open the door though. That being said, I can give some advice on how to make sure they never return to your house again!

Yes she picked the wrong time to say it, but was she wrong when she questioned Danielle last night? “Why are on this show”? Hasn’t most of Reddit been asking the same question? I would swap her out for Carl in a heartbeat.

Yesterday I turned to look at him as he was explaining something about his relationship with his parents, just looking at him, giving my attention & he immediately starts screaming at me asking why I’m looking at him like that. I said, I’m listening to you. Well that was the wrong choice of words that led to an even worse tirade. I tried to apologize and was told to shut up because he wanted to punch me in the face because I wasn’t sincere. A few hours of silence, he picks back up like nothing happened. I keep talking to a minimum. At about midnight I asked for the password to sign in to a streaming service because he gave me the wrong one, another tirade so I got up & moved to the guest room after throwing up several times. My body isn’t handling the stress. 3am, I’m woken up, he says something about wanting to get help. Yeah, ok, I go back to sleep. Today he comes in & says I’m going to go see about this. I said one word, about? That was a cardinal sin to not remember a 3am being woken from a dead sleep conversation. My FIL is aware of the situation & is concerned only for my safety. I’m embarrassed to tell my doctors or anyone else. I know it’s a bad situation but he also has a financial stranglehold on me. I don’t know what to do next.

Out of everyone’s partner whom was a doctor, (was Nassiff the first?), is Brian the worst? I’m trying to go through them mentally & I the only one I can think of would be Bill Ayden, but that’s mainly guilt by association.