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Kids on stage
Does anyone know when they started specifically bringing only kids on stage? I saw em last year and a guy got to go on during comin in hot and play guitar. I figured I’d make a sign and try to do the same during this tour. Charlie basically said only kids come up and invited a couple of em on stage. Not trying to hate or whatever just wondering why the switch up?
Best Season of Viva La Bam?
I personally think the peak of the show was season 3, then it went downhill. What do you guys think?
Why “Seize the Day” is a brutal and vivid reminder on how wasting time can destroy your dreams and aspirations in this life
I think this is the most meaningful Avenged Sevenfold song they’ve ever made. Simply due to the fact anyone of the human species can relate to it. Most explanations consider it a love story (and it is) but it goes much deeper than that. A song about wasting time, effort that could’ve been put in but wasn’t, and yet another reminder that most people who live this life do not and will not live up to their full potential. How many times have we caught ourselves mindlessly indulging in things that have no meaning nor value. We do not absorb the beauty of this world anymore, nature, kindness, love (a matter that is explored in this song actually) etc. If you’ve ever felt the need to breakout of this cycle of mediocrity that most people who aren’t rich have been placed in, maybe it’s time you finally do something about it. The sad truth of it all is, most people will die regretting the time they’ve lost. Most people are actually just too lazy or comfortable to change their conditions in life, or they’ll just make up excuses. “Work is too tiring”/life is too hard”/“I can’t do it”/ all complete lies that are only used to benefit our laziness in the present. Those excuses will never cover up the immense regret we will all feel if we do not start taking action and doing what we dream of. This song is about a certain somebody who did not take action when he had the chance to love somebody he cared about, and how he now lives in endless regret because of it. Maybe he took what he had forsaken, or maybe he made a mistake. Whatever the case may be, it always ends in the same way. If regret doesn’t kill you now, it will after you’ve failed to take action. Whatever you plan on doing, start doing it now.
Undone is one of their saddest songs
And it will never get the true credit it deserves because it’s an unknown b side
Found out my gf (F18) was talking bad about me (18M) behind my back
I’m not rlly sure what to do with this one honestly. I '18M' and my gf '18F' were in a relationship for like 3 months before this happened. I told her I needed a break from it because I honestly wasn’t sure if I wanted a relationship or if I wanted to be alone. Before anyone asks, no it wasn’t to mess around or anything like that. I genuinely just needed to be alone for a while. Anyways about 2 months go by and I’m still talking to this girl and being nice and courteous to her. I honestly think that was a mistake of mine because I’m pretty sure it just made her resent me more. I forgot to mention that throughout that two month relationship I didn’t have sex with her. I didn’t because I wasn’t sure about the relationship and I knew if I had sex with her it’d be for no reason and make leaving even harder (if I wanted to that is) So to cut to the chase I basically found out this girl had been going around and telling all her friends and even people I know that we never had sex. She was basically insinuating to people that I was too insecure to do it with her. She even went into detail saying I was too afraid to finger her and shit like that. It made me sick to my stomach hearing this and you can imagine the anger I felt towards her. Like I said before I did absolutely nothing wrong to her in our relationship or during the break. My friend told me all about how she was doing this though, and that people in town were calling me a loser and stuff like that. I know some of her friends too which makes this situation even worse. I texted her about this and she apologized and said she took advantage of my kindness and that she “fucked me over” but then she tried to use that as an excuse to back out of everything. She texted me saying “I think it’s just better if we cut our losses here, you’ve heard shit about me and I’ve heard shit about you too” so on top of everything she’s downplaying what she did to me with some made up bs against me. Then she’s trying to “end things off” between us. I left this whole thing off saying I wanted to talk to her in person and that she shouldn’t just give this whole thing up because of what happened. I asked my good friend on advice and he told me that I should “give her what she wants so bad and then leave” I’m well aware that’s messed up but I’m honestly furious right now. What do you guys think I should do?
“This is what happens when cousins fuck”
Does Dave realize making the same joke at multiple different concerts and having it always be recorded makes him look like a cornball?
My Personal Meaning of “Change”
The song I believe is about a guy who treated his gf like trash. So much so that after they breakup she takes a turn for the worst and becomes a completely different person. The guy who has done this to her looks at the person he’s made and is deeply ashamed with himself. Someone who was once loving and caring has now become completely out of control (even more promiscuous maybe) and believes deep down love is no such thing. The “it’s like you never had wings” part makes me believe the guy is so shocked and sickened by her change it’s like she never was a good person to begin with. I think it’s a warning on how much effect you can have on a persons life and how important it is to be respectful towards someone you should care about.
Advice on regained contact
I recently sent a letter to my ex after one year of no contact and she responded. She added me on instagram and thanked me for it and for a while we chatted back and forth before the chat became dry and I told her good night for now. I asked her during our conversation if she wanted to catch up over coffee and that it would be nice to see her before summer ends. She said “yeah maybe sometime” what advice would you guys give to me?