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Relaxed hair that does not grow
▲ 7 r/BlackHair+1 crossposts

Relaxed hair that does not grow

Hi,
I’m a relaxed 4c and the back of my hair simply doesn’t grow. I’ve tried everything, done the big chop, tried every product, lots of protective styles and just leaving their hair out.

I saw a dermatologist and they said my hair follicles are completely fine and no alopecia. However it has a permanent “layered cut” look (even though I never cut it!!)

I’ve attached a picture that was recently taken of me from behind.

What could be the reason? Thank you

u/Sea_Branch5923 — 5 days ago
▲ 91 r/Marriage

What is up with men wanting wives who are submissive providers?

I recently had to end a friendship because of this as I was truly shocked at what was coming out of his mouth.

He said he wanted to be the “head of his household” but wanted a wife who worked full-time, paid bills AND did majority of the housework while he had the final say on major decisions.

I was shocked but then it dawned on me that this is what majority of marriages today are like. Even in household where the wife is the higher earner, she ends up doing more domestic labour.

I’ve always thought I wanted to get married but this whole thing is giving me major anxiety as I do not want someone who sees me as a tool to subsidise his life and cater to him while getting peanuts back…

This was a long rant 😭

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u/Sea_Branch5923 — 9 days ago