r/relaxedhair

I’ve used Olaplex twice so far and here is my opinion:

I seriously get how people say it damaged their hair or broke it off! I Used Numbers 0, 3, 4, and 5. My first use was on relaxer day and my hair felt very stiff afterward although it did feel healthy though if that makes sense. My second wash I experienced the same thing but I also noticed during the week my hair would feel almost crunchy like but still soft, I actually applied more moisturizer during the week. I went to ChatGPT and I got some useful tips which include cutting back(0 & 5) on some of the olaplex products and also adding a moisturizing deep conditioner on the olaplex wash day. I had a complete moisture wash day yesterday after using olaplex the week prior and my hair is no longer stiff and very soft and smooth. What I noticed is I believe the hair issues with olaplex is the active bond builder ingredient is in every product at varying degrees of concentrations and using so much makes it highly concentrated in strengthening the hair and it also is not moisturizing and in a sense can make the hair feel(stiff and brittle) like it would after using a hard protein treatment without following up with a moisture deep conditioner. If you are using olaplex often then just imagine what would happen long term if you don’t rectify the concentrated strengthening of the hair, it will snap and break off. Ofcourse some people don’t have the issue at all, likely don’t use it often, or don’t use many olaplex products at once. If your are experiencing any issues with olaplex cut down on the amount of products or add a moisturizing deep conditioner because olaplex is not a moisturizing product but a concentrated strengthening treatment. Moving forward I may focus on using number 3 and possibly 4 but rotate the others along with adding a moisturizing deep conditioner regardless.

Hello all, I am so appreciative already for all of the post and comments I was able to read. So happy this space exists!

How should I wear my hair to the consultation?

Please help, I am at my wits end. This is the current condition of my hair after my 2nd relaxer touch up. I used the ORS relaxer kit and even though I started applying at the back, it only processed the front. So I still have 4c roots which didn’t happen last time. I also noticed mad breakage at the back even though I never put my hair in a ponytail. I wash my hair once a week with a moisture-rich Vit B5 shampoo and conditioner and deep condition with an Argan-based one. I also take a Vit B-complex supplement that has Biotin. I’ve also had my iron levels and thyroid checked and results were normal. I used to have an eating disorder (restrictive) but I’ve been in recovery for two years so I thought my hair would also start doing better. I also know I’ll have to cut it and level it out, but I’ll still be missing chunks of hair in the middle so it’s still going to look wild either way 🥲

I know that many of you guys recommend Olaplex and Redken but it’s super duper expensive in my country and I’m wondering if you guys have suggestions of good supermarket alternatives like L’Oreal, Pantene sort of price range? Also if there’s any additional vitamin deficiencies i can look into?

1st perm of the year 3/7. 2nd perm of the year 7/5. 17wk stretch (not by choice). I stretch every relaxer but this has been the longest stretch I’ve ever done, and I think I did alright considering the length retention and that is the goal. 🙂‍↕️

It’s been this way for as long as I can remember. Front section grows just fine but you all can see that huge gap/thinness in the middle 😭

I’ve tried EVERYTHING (blood work, collagen tablets, even a big chop. I’ve seen a dermatologist and they say my hair grows just fine from the root)

It just doesn’t retain any length in that particular area and I don’t understand why

I personally have used this product 2 times for a leave out sew in and loveeeeee it down but unfortunately they discontinued it. I’ve been natural my whole life, my hair is healthy, 4c, never been bleached and this is the most chemical I’ve ever put in my hair. I’m debating on relaxing my whole head since I’ve had such good results with this product.
Any recommendations, I mostly wear my hair in sew ins

Any recommendations on what i can use to lay these hairs down? I switch parts every two weeks. I just recently started wearing a low sock bun and it’s kinda tight. I’m in the military, so it’s either that or a bob. I’m debating going back to my bob as it was easier to manage and i had and less breakage.

Hi guys, so I’ve restarted my journey and cut off all my damaged hair that I had relaxed and then dyed, so this is currently where I am at and I need some advice on products to incorporate, I’m currently using dove intensive care with L’Oréal hydrating mask and Cantù as my leave in conditioner, I have really thin hair and my goal is length retention

I tried to do the touch ups on the nape and sides every 3-4 weeks but I end up finding myself wanting to do a full relaxer at 4 weeks. I don’t know how y’all are out here stretching it to 6 weeks 😭😭😭. I’m also wanting to switch to a stronger relaxer and see if that makes a difference. But whew, I am STRUGGLING!!!!

which one should i get also suggest a heat protectant

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I had to cut my hair from tailbone length to waist length because of breakage. It went from 25 inches to 20 and you can still see some of the breakage on the side.

I think my go-to style of pigtail braids is what's causing the breakage on the sides. I'll have to stop doing them for the foreseeable future and possibly try something different. It's heartbreaking but hair grows back.

I've really wanted to try roller sets but I've yet to see someone do it on relaxed hair similar or close to my length so I don't have a clue how it'll turn out. Here's to hoping it looks good because I've already bought the rollers🙏🏼