u/LightBetter6611

I have mid neck length hair. I relaxed it last month and its still at the silky phase though with not as much volume. I like tieing it into a low or high bun with different parts on most days.

I have bought a pomade, a leave in conditioner. I have a clarifying shampoo, a couple of herbs I use, aloe Vera, need and i hydrate relatively well.

Im not chasing length that much. Would love to enjoy my journey with short looks at the current hair length I am at.

Here is one hairstyle I like. Is this ok for up class events or should I stick to buns with possibly extra hair. I love my glasses and don't intend on ditching them. I also like my headwraps.

I have uploaded a sample of both looks and am open to other styles being suggested.

Taking a walk in the woods during my mini vacation. I like pops of color but just wanted a simple user friendly outfit. Will possibly chill outside as well. Any alterations in prep for tomorrow's walk outfit would help.

Not sure if I flopped. Wore an afro wig and swapped the brown bag for a black one.

Not a fan of wigs and prefer my hair straightened but oh well.. variety is the spice of life.

What do you think?

Today I just thought I would love to have a fringe to look more chic. Or should I try a long length pixie since my hair is mid neck length.

Is this outfit appropriate for any other event?

Occasion: holiday outfit and dad daughter date.

Happy holiday!

I also feel like my muffin top is more pronounced in this dress and I dont like shape wear.

Wore turtleneck to avoid showing cleavage.

Head scarf as I'm conservative.

What shoes can make the look more everyday worthy?

Also I kinda felt like the look was a tard too seductive despite the layering. Thoughts?

This is how I normally look.

My verse of the day

I've always been a snoopy scary cat so I preferred typing and keeping everything out of reach of my overbearing mom. Its tough having to cover tracks at the ripe age of 35. Soon I will be moving out especially at the rate of enlightenment I'm moving. The sky is the limit. I wrote in 3 separate books to journal my mind in a more categorized manner. I feel so good and liberated all thanks to a suggested read in my web browser about the power of writing. Happy week everybody!

Been regretting being super resilient and not putting proper boundaries. Now I feel super isolated. Not sure if it's allowed but a DM or reply here would go a long way.

The pic shows part of the farm where I live. It's hard work yet it's also rewarding.