u/Sea_Breakfast828

So my boyfriend texted me yesterday and asked me to forgive him, telling me he is sorry and wants me back. I talked to him for a bit and saw it could be genuine but then he said: "But baby you know you did wrong too, you could've just let me drive, yes I shouldn't have been pushing but you could have just let me drive it"

This broke me, I genuinelly thought that he was apologizing and that we could make up and that it would be good now, sadly I saw he had no real desire to make up and was still blaming me for the break up.

I now feel even more hurt but at least know it's over for sure. It's 1 am now and I don't even know how to feel anymore.

So ever since Roe has been overturned in 2022, abortion has been heavily restricted in a lot of states.

Is there any hope of nationwide legalization of abortion if democrats win in 2028?

I know that congress cannot really force states to remove abortion bans due to federalism but is there any way to do it?

Expand the court? Use funding as a leverage like with the drinking age?

I don't know if this is allowed but IDK where to ask. State of Washington.

So my (f19) bestie (f21) got busted for a DUI last year and since our state mandates 24 consecutive hours in jail for a DUI she has to do a full day. The 4 hours she spent there waiting for a bond do not count as time served. She self surrendered this morning. Now I know what she did was dangerous selfish and reckless and she probably deserves jail time but I am still stressed out.

It's not a big jail so it's not super dangerous but I still feel scared for her as she is not though she is just an average college student. And they told me I likely won't be able to call her since it's just 24 hours.

Will she be OK?

How is it for her there does anyone have experience with jail for a DUI?

So I (F19) broke up with my boyfriend (M23) just now.

A few weeks back my parents got me a brand new car (Ford Explorer) and since I am a college student they are paying for my insurance, gas, registration and any possible repairs.

My boyfriend who HAS HIS OWN CAR AND NOT A BAD ONE A 2015 MAZDA CX-3 has been bugging me constantly to drive it, but he is a very bad driver, not reckless or dangerous but clumsy. He is aggressive with the gear shifter, he scratched his car like 5 times in a year and got into 2 fender benders in a short period.

I have been saying no as it's a brand new car my parents got me and he is a bad driver, this escalated yesterday when he really started asking me constantly and today I decided I have had enough. I sent him a message to either stop or we are done. He told me: "I am not breaking up with you but you are with me, a good gf let's his boyfriend drive her car" I told him "LAST CHANCE TO APOLOGIZE OR I AM DONE" He just texted me: "Goodbye then"

I don't know why I feel sad. He was obviously gaslighting me but I still feel sad. I loved him and I feel he loved me, we had a spark and now I just need to vent and get this off my chest.

So about a month ago my parents got me a brand new Ford Explorer, my boyfriend really wants to drive it but the problem is that he is not a good driver. He scratched his car like 5 times in a year, often doesn't wait for the car to fully stop before using the gear shifter and parks really bad he also got into 2 fender benders in the last year. Keep in mind I am in college and unemployed so my parents pay for my gas, insurance and registration as well as any repairs but the car is in my name.

I am telling him that he cannot drive my car as I am afraid he is going to scratch it or damage it. He tells me I am selfish and I am telling him I am not and he should improve his driving regardless of what I say.

What should I do here?

So after having watched Law and Order SVU 19x08 I wonder if the writting was realistic?

A woman (Heather) impersonated an MMA fighter and a female influencer online posing as the other one to each of the two and setting them up to meet.

The MMA fighter thought he was getting messages from the influencer but it was actually Heather. One of those messages was saying she wants a rape fantasy.

The MMA fighter thinking the influencer was screaming no as part of fantasy went through with it.

He did NOT get charged but Heather got convicted of rape.

Is that realistic?

So I was born in 2006 and thus I only know Trump as a politician, but I really wonder how was he seen before he ran for president?

Did people ever think he would run?

Was he controversial?

How well known was he?

I asked my mom and dad and they told me he did do some small scale political stuff but was not controversial despite being pretty famous.

So I want a wider experience to those 3 questions.

LOCATION: Washington (state)

Before anyone asks: "Just ask your lawyer?" I don't want to as it could come off as rude or even accusatory. But I want to know:

Since my parents are paying as I am only 19, can my lawyer tell them about my case and how it's going?

I wouldn't want them knowing some details of the night I got busted for MIP as they are embarrassing.

I am looking for a job to pay them back and I am showing a lot of regret so I am not some spoiled girl who thinks she can get away with this.

So I am 19 and a few days back I got arrested for underage drinking and obstruction. I got transported to the police department and was allowed to leave only after like 6 hours with citations. Since these are misdemeanors not just tickets like speeding tickets and I have to go to court I also need a lawyer, will likely pay fines and do community service so it will cost my parents.

I am not employed right now and just go to college and my parents have always been loving, even getting me a car recently and I feel very bad about letting them down. Since they'll likely have to cash out a few thousand dollars on a lawyer and my fines and they are not cutting my allowance I feel very guilty and am wondering would getting a part time job to pay off my court costs be a good way to make it up?

So I was driving and I failed to use my turn signal. A cop pulled me over, she took my license and she ran it. She came back to my car and let me off with a warning.

1. Did she see that I have an open case for MIP (underage drinking) and obstruction in Washington when she ran my license or when she ran my plate?
2. Will I be pulled over more because of this even if I don't break any traffic laws like I did here or is that not a justifiable reason to pull me over?

I am not complaining about the stop, I broke a traffic rule and got pulled over, I just want to know if I'll be pulled over more until my case gets resolved.

Location: Washington

So I was driving and I failed to use my right turn signal. A cop pulled me over, she took my license and ran it. She came back to my car gave me a verbal warning and I was on my way.

1. Did she see that I have an open case for MIP and obstruction in Washington when she ran my license or even before when she ran my plate?
2. Will I be pulled over more because of this even if I don't break any traffic laws like I did here or is that not a justifiable reason to pull over a car?

To be clear I am not complaining about this stop, I broke a rule I got pulled over and I am glad that I got off with only a warning but I just want to know if I should be on the lookout for lights and sirens in my rear view mirror since the last thing I want is to not notice a cop car trying to pull me over and get in more trouble.

So I (F19) got busted for MIP (drinking under 21) and obstruction a few days back and I had to spend the night at the police department's cell and have a court date.

Now a few weeks back my mom and dad got me a car and now I feel massive guilt. I haven't been driving it much and even though I did apologize to them and they are less angry now I still feel guilt.

How to make it up to them? How to get over that guilt?

So I (F19) got busted for MIP (drinking under 21) and obstruction a few days back I had to spend the night at the police department's cell and have a court date but my boyfriend (M23) says that he finds it funny and refuses to acknowledge that for me it was a pretty scary experience and that I am super stressed now over my court dates and that I am anxious because I do not know what exactly to expect.

I told him this is not funny but he refuses to accpet that and just laughs it off.

How to explain to him that this is serious?

LOCATION: Washington

So I was arrested a few days back and charged with:

Minor in Possession (RCW 66.44.270.3A)

Obstructing a Law Enforcement Officer (RCW 9A.76.020)

It was a dumb mistake and I regret it (I also want to apologize for how I acted on my previous post here I was out of line refusing to accept that my opinions on the law do not allow me to ignore it) but I want to know if it is still legal and safe for me to carry pepper spray?

Being a 19yo woman I feel safer with it but fear if I use it, it could hurt my case if the guy I use it on claims it wasn't self defense...

NOT IN PULLMAN I WILL NOT SAY WHICH CITY AS I DO NOT WANT TO DOX MYSELF.

Yesterday, I 19f was walking on a sidewalk with a friend, I had a can of beer in my hand and the police approached me and stopped me.

They asked me for my ID I said that I do not have any and tried to walk away saying "Ok, I will just go". the cop told me I am not free to leave and handcuffed me behind my back. She sat me down on the curb and asked me for my name and DOB while I was giving my name (before I gave middle or last) I slipped a cuff and tried to run away. The cops grabbed me in seconds and reapplied the cuffs.

I was taken to the police department and spent the the night there. They also took a mugshot and scanned my fingerprints. I was NOT taken to jail just to the police department.

So what can I expect FROM THE UNIVERSITY? My charges are:

Minor in Possession (RCW 66.44.270.3A)

Obstructing a Law Enforcement Officer (RCW 9A.76.020)

LOCATION: Washington (state)

So I am 19f and was walking on a sidewalk with a friend, I had a can of beer in my hand and the police approached me and stopped me.

They asked me for my ID I said that I do not have any and tried to walk away saying "Ok, I will just go". the cop told me I am not free to leave and handcuffed me behind my back. She sat me down on the curb and asked me for my name and DOB while I was giving my name (before I gave middle or last) I slipped a cuff and tried to run away. The cops grabbed me in seconds and reapplied the cuffs.

I was taken to the police department and spent the night in the cell (I was arrested at like 2am and released at like 7 am) they also took a mugshot and scanned my fingerprints. I was NOT taken to jail just to the police department.

So what can I expect? My charges are:

Minor in Possession (RCW 66.44.270.3A)

Obstructing a Law Enforcement Officer (RCW 9A.76.020)

STATE: Florida

So I am 19 years old and I was drinking alcohol on the sidewalk. The cops came came up to me and asked me for my ID. I got scared and tried to run away but they caught up to me and arrested me. I was taken to the county jail and allowed to bond out after a few hours. I am not downplaying what I did but I just got scared I am a 19 year old girl who panicked.

1. I am from MA so how exactly will this be handled?
2. Will my license be suspended?
3. What punishment can I expect?
4. Why was I arrested and not just cited?