u/Sea_Pomegranate4368

As we all know it’s summer break so my son is home allday and my husband works from home. My son made a couple new friends who live in our apartment complex. My son is 7. The kids are 7 and 8. They come over alot or my son goes to their apartment. They also go to the pool a lot. I’m always supervising because my son is autistic. He’s not very aware of his surroundings. The other kids are always running out and about without supervision. But that’s not my business. Well today they came over and were playing video games. I left to return some books to the library, my husband was in the next room if they needed anything. I was barely gone 10 minutes and I guess one made my son cry by hitting him with a soccer ball. I’m sure it was an accident but it made my son cry . Then my husband texted me that the kids are banned from our house and that he yelled at them and “ scared the shit outve them”. For making my son cry. I wasn’t here but I know my husband can be terrifying when he’s angry. I’m scared sometimes. But I’m wondering. There has to be a better way to deal with the situation than screaming? He said one started crying. I’m wondering, could the parents call the police on him for that? Or was it justified. I’m almost hoping they call the police so my husband can learn a lesson. I just don’t feel they should’ve been yelled at like that. And I’m tired of my husband losing his shit

He’ll be gone for 3 days after my surgery. I have no family or friends here so I’ll have to be entertaining and taking care of my 7 year old. Which is never a problem except-I’ve never had lis surgery before and wondering if I’ll be ok myself. I’m not gonna lie I’m a bit disappointed that my husband won’t stay home with me. Will I be ok to drive? And do other stuff right after my surgery?

He’s had 4 beers and wants to drive far with me and my 7 year old. I’m guessing he’ll have more at dinner. He is an alcoholic and 4 beers is nothing compared to usual but I’m so scared I’m shaking

I’m already on seroquel 300
Lamictal 100
Prozac 60
My doctor wants to add vraylar to the mix claiming it’s some sort of miracle drug that works well beside these other medications. I’m just hesitant. I’m already on 3. Adding another one makes 4 which is just insane me. What are your thoughts on vraylar? Did it work well with other med? Sometimes I feel like these doctors just push meds for no reason.

I’m from California. I moved to Utah with my husband and newborn in 2019. I’ve been a stay at home mom ever since. When I say I haven’t left the house besides errands and doctors visits I’m not lying. I tried to go to a movie by myself last month but had to leave mid movie cus my kid was having a meltdown and my husband needed my help at home. I want to cry while writing this but I want to drive to California this weekend for a couple days- by myself. Los Angeles to be exact. I miss it so much and I just want visit some places and have time for myself. My husband said it’s fine but I’m feeling so guilty. I’ve never left my son’s side since he was born but he’s 7 now almost 8 so he’s more independent. But I feel guilty for wanting to go somewhere without them. My husband has gone on numerous business trips. I feel it’s my turn. Please convince me I’m not a terrible mother for wanting a few days for myself in my hometown.

I’ve been Having what I think or thought are UTIs . I’ve had the usual awful symptoms. She told me since most of my cultures were negative to stop my antibiotics. She talked about IC and said there’s a good chance it was that. Well a few days later I’m having the burning and all the awful symptoms that mimic a UTI. Now I don’t know what to do. She’s worried I’ll get resistant to antibiotics when I don’t need them. But I’m in pain. How do I know if it’s not a UTI? I’m afraid she’s wrong and out will turn into a bad infection. Urgent care is where I’ve been getting my antibiotics and results from. She referred me to a urologist but I don’t go till next month. Also antibiotics always take the pain away with. Hours even if my culture is negative

Like it says. This all started with him making sniffle sounds non stop. At first I thought he had a cold but then realized it was a tic. He said he couldn’t control it. Well now that is over but he’s developed a very pronounced facial tics. He opens his eyes really wide and looks up and squints. Raises his eyebrows. We went to get ice cream and he did it the entire time. It’s hard to explain but it’s gotten worse this week and honestly seeing him do it tonight is disturbing for us. We are contacting the pediatrician Monday but I’m wondering if anyone has any insight on this. He’s been doing it all day everyday