u/Sensitive_Cup4598

I’m not female , I’m not male (however the lesser of the 2 evils would be male in my opinion) I’m Afab I’m like 96% sure I’m not agender but I don’t feel like I deserve to be called non binary and today it doesn’t fit so what does….. I always question my gender and I can never find it (probably gender OCD or feeling like I don’t deserve to find it/ being negative to myself for so many years that I believe everything my brain tells me….. so far the closest has been non binary and demiboy and I feel like if I got to choose it would be genderfluid but that doesn’t fit either

I am a new witch and don’t know the full extent of leaving offerings to a deity , spirit , god or goddess

can I have some tips?

my best witchlike art I do is making bracelets and beaded lizards for people I have recently thought of imbuing them with magic to help keep them safe or specific things in the moment like good health or longevity

I can also feel something in the air when I play cards its hard to explain but it helps my decisions on what to do and where to put the cards / where they feel right/best

I have been wondering if clover flowers and/or clovers or peppermint leaves would work for an offering to the thing I choose to leave offerings for

Im not considering drink or food because where I live I’m not allowed any food or drink in my room.

can I please have some guidance?

sooo I just came out as transmasc to my parents on July 1st 2026

big problem is I don’t know what to wear now that I identify as transmasc because I’m used to having to hide it

I tried wearing a hand me downs running sweater with a shirt over it and felt euphoric but then later I felt sick because it was plus 21 out and I was also wearing sweats and I’m very hard to fit for clothing because I’m so darn small it’s either too big or too small (mostly too big) so its hard to shop for something and buy it and outgrow it less than a year later lol

I just want to know the styles that worked for my fellow trans buddies or styles that just seem to click with newly came out trans people. I’d also appreciate stories about how you found your style after coming out

thanks

sooo I just came out as transmasc to my parents on July 1st 2026

big problem is I don’t know what to wear now that I identify as transmasc because I’m used to having to hide it

I tried wearing a hand me downs running sweater with a shirt over it and felt euphoric but then later I felt sick because it was plus 21 out and I was also wearing sweats and I’m very hard to fit for clothing because I’m so darn small it’s either too big or too small (mostly too big) so its hard to shop for something and buy it and outgrow it less than a year later lol

I just want to know the styles that worked for my fellow trans buddies or styles that just seem to click with newly came out trans people. I’d also appreciate stories about how you found your style after coming out

thanks

sooo I just came out as transmasc to my parents on July 1st 2026

big problem is I don’t know what to wear now that I identify as transmasc because I’m used to having to hide it

I tried wearing a hand me downs running sweater with a shirt over it and felt euphoric but then later I felt sick because it was plus 21 out and I was also wearing sweats and I’m very hard to fit for clothing because I’m so darn small it’s either too big or too small (mostly too big) so its hard to shop for something and buy it and outgrow it less than a year later lol

I just want to know the styles that worked for my fellow trans buddies or styles that just seem to click with newly came out trans people. I’d also appreciate stories about how you found your style after coming out

thanks

sooo I just came out as transmasc to my parents on July 1st 2026

big problem is I don’t know what to wear now that I identify as transmasc because I’m used to having to hide it

I tried wearing a hand me downs running sweater with a shirt over it and felt euphoric but then later I felt sick because it was plus 21 out and I was also wearing sweats and I’m very hard to fit for clothing because I’m so darn small it’s either too big or too small (mostly too big) so its hard to shop for something and buy it and outgrow it less than a year later lol

I just want to know the styles that worked for my fellow trans buddies or styles that just seem to click with newly came out trans people. I’d also appreciate stories about how you found your style after coming out

thanks

sooo I just came out as transmasc to my parents on July 1st 2026

big problem is I don’t know what to wear now that I identify as transmasc because I’m used to having to hide it

I tried wearing a hand me downs running sweater with a shirt over it and felt euphoric but then later I felt sick because it was plus 21 out and I was also wearing sweats and I’m very hard to fit for clothing because I’m so darn small it’s either too big or too small (mostly too big) so its hard to shop for something and buy it and outgrow it less than a year later lol

I just want to know the styles that worked for my fellow trans buddies or styles that just seem to click with newly came out trans people. I’d also appreciate stories about how you found your style after coming out

thanks

So I’m a gender fluid individual ( pronouns they /he today most days actually since I came out and I‘m trying to find a separate name than my original name which I’m fine with using at my house but my name is so common that I always get asked how to spell it And people always spell it wrong with or without asking I also struggle with dressing more masculine with the sizing because I’m tiny and my favorite formal clothing is suits but I only have 2 suit jackets (one has a matching pair of pants that definitely need a belt)and I just need stories about how people found their names and how they found their style please

what greek / roman god would every hazbin hotel character be a child of

I’m saying

alastor - Hecate because of voodoo and Apollo because of musical talent and charm ( could also be aphrodite with charm speak or nemisis or hades because of grudge holding and another child of hades/ Pluto hazel Lévesque originally lived in New Orleans like him )

rosie - hecate or hades also potentially also Aphrodite

charlie - Hermes’ athena or legacy of Aphrodite

vaggi - Athena ares or Hermes

lute - ares ( either child or legacy )

lu - Hermes’ or legacy of aphrodite

niffty - ares or hestia ( she was born out of a fireplace)

husk - dionysus , or Hermes maybe also Ganymede or iris ( I love the thought of Ganymede being his dad or if he‘s a legacy in the au distant relative )

angel- Aphrodite I think maybe also Nyx or nemesis or something (maybe dionysus because of the cisgender thing )

vox - Zeus because of wanting to become a god and his lightning bolt eye ( maybe legacy of Zeus and son of keto/ceto who’s the godess of sharks) definitely not Poseidon lol 🤣

valentino - child of hecate , nyx or aphrodite because of his heart glasses and control over smoke

velvette - Aphrodite obviously but also maybe Hecate or nemesis or Nyx maybe also hades

sr pentious - Hephaestus or Athena

Cherri bomb - ares? I don’t know…

let me know what you think!