u/Sharp_Spinach4282

21F, based in Delhi NCR. Ambitious, about to start working, currently juggling a busy life , so heads up, I’m not the type to text 24/7. When I’m free though, I actually show up.

Looking for a guy from Delhi NCR only, slightly older than me, educated, well-read, working in corporate. Finance background is a plus but not a dealbreaker, just need you to have your life together and be genuinely decent. Bonus if you’re into fitness/gym like someone who takes care of themselves. Additionally would like to have an accountability partner.

This is for IRL connection, not a texting pen-pal situation. I want someone I can actually go out with, vibe with, build something with over time — not a situationship that’s all talk and no plans, but also not looking for anything overly serious right away. Think: consistent, real, growing organically.

If you’re driven, grounded, fit, and can match a busy-but-intentional energy so let’s talk.

Also please don’t introduce yourselves with a hey or hi or hello, basic intro about you or what you like or what you do or anything which is non monotonous

So I got a fixed term employment by one of the big 4, so my dates are Jul 20 2026 to Jul 16 2027, my compensation is based annually in the offer letter. So just wanted to know will it count as 12 months?

Need help with interview as an analyst for valuations in Deloitte India! What could I expect from them like type of questions and stuff. Would appreciate some advice.

Need help with interview as an analyst for valuations in Deloitte! What could I expect from them like type of questions and stuff. Would appreciate some advice.

Need help with interview as an analyst for valuations in Deloitte India! What could I expect from them like type of questions and stuff. Would appreciate some advice.

Hey,

I’m 21, just done with college, and currently navigating the beautiful chaos of becoming an actual adult.

Most of my days are spent working on projects, studying for professional exams, applying for jobs, and convincing myself that I have everything under control. (I don’t.)

Outside of that, I’m trying to get back in shape, working out regularly, losing some weight, and generally attempting to become a healthier version of myself.

Looking for people who are fun to talk to, have things going on in their lives, and are down for random conversations, spontaneous plans, exploring new places, or simply hanging out when life gets a bit too serious.

A bonus if you’re slightly older and have already survived the whole “what am I doing with my life?” phase. Advice is appreciated, but so are bad jokes and random stories.

Not really looking for anything specific—just good company, good conversations, and people to share this weird in-between stage of life with.

Tell me something about yourself when you message. “Hey” gives me absolutely nothing to work with. 😭

Looking forward to hearing from you. ✨

I genuinely don’t know if I’m being unreasonable or if this relationship just isn’t working anymore.

My boyfriend is leaving for a new city in two weeks for work, and instead of feeling closer before he leaves, I still feel like I have to ask, remind, or almost beg him to meet me properly.

For context, he’s an extremely social person probably the most social person I know. He has a huge friend circle, including a lot of female friends, constant plans, outings, birthdays, networking, etc. Meanwhile I’m more of a social introvert. I have 4-5 close friends and I’m genuinely happy that way. I value emotional closeness and quality time much more.

The thing is, he also works insanely hard. He’s doing CA articleship, works like 14-15 hours a day sometimes, and his schedule is honestly brutal. So I do understand that he’s exhausted and stretched thin. I’m also working and busy with my own life, so it’s not like I expect 24/7 attention.

But despite understanding all of that logically, emotionally I still feel deeply unsatisfied in this relationship.

I hate the feeling of having to ask my own boyfriend for time. Technically he does meet me, call me, and make efforts in his own way. He’s not toxic or abusive or a bad guy at all. But I never really feel prioritized naturally. It feels like I’m always trying to fit into an already overcrowded life.

What hurts more is that he’s leaving soon and somehow I still feel like I’m competing with work, friends, social plans, and everything else for space in his life. I don’t want to become that clingy girlfriend who keeps asking for reassurance or time. I want someone who genuinely wants to make space for me without me constantly asking.

And now I’m wondering if this is just incompatibility. Maybe neither of us is wrong maybe we just have very different emotional needs and lifestyles.

Has anyone been in a relationship where one person is extremely social and extroverted and the other values emotional closeness and intentional time more? Did it work long term or did resentment just keep building?

I really love him, but I’m exhausted from feeling emotionally under-prioritized all the time. I know he will make it big in life and he wants a future with me.

TL;DR: My boyfriend loves me and is very hardworking, but I constantly feel emotionally under-prioritized. I can’t tell if we’re incompatible or just going through a hard phase.

Okay so I am in all girls college, I always mind my own business and do my things. I have been pretty active with college like societies, academics and internships. But on a social level I am more on an ambivert introvert nature. Like idk how there are like two girls I have been acquaintance in last 2 years and ofc as u move up the semesters many people drift. But I was just randomly checking Instagram yesterday lol these people removed me from their insta like ofc I don’t give two hoots about insta but like they have kept the most random mutuals on their socials. Am I the bad guy lol? I never even been close to em that much but it kinda hurt.